Male fitness trainer says there’s nothing wrong with letting another man train your woman, calls husband insecure….

[Roid Jones]

Personal trainers........

 

[Ohene]

-Some men out here told their wife fukk all that & fired his ass.

the thing for me is that a personal trainer is not teaching a girl anything that I cant. its gotta be the easiest license to get; so much that i be seeing overweight dudes be personal trainers lol.

as someone whos been a gym goer for ~15 years and accomplished a 1200 lbs deadlift/squat/bench combo, I aint wasting no bread (if i am married) finding my wife a trainer. bytch better come to the gym with me and follow my lead.

 

[Prodyson]

People aren't out here fukking people that can't be fukked. It don't matter what job someone has or doesn't have, how much money someone has or doesn't have, how tall or short they are, or whatever excuse people want to try to make, there's no man taking a woman who's unavailable. There's no woman taking a man who's unavailable. People need to spend more time having a fulfilled relationship and less time trying to hide their spouse away from everyone in the world for fear that someone's gonna take them.

@KidJSoul

Disagree…

Cheating is sometimes just a combination of circumstances and availability. If your relationship is in a good place, most times you don’t have to worry about anything. But all relationships have periods where things aren’t going great and people get vulnerable and make irrational decisions. If a woman (or man, for that matter) is in that space, the wrong trainer can take advantage of that, particularly if they’ve built a strong relationship with their client.

I just try to avoid situations where I feel like I could compromise my relationship. Me choosing a male trainer and my wife choosing a female trainer seems like a low effort way to avoid potential riffs in our relationship. It may never be an issue, but it’s easy. And that may make your job more difficult, but quite frankly I don’t care about trainers, lol. I care about my marriage

If my wife feels uncomfortable with me doing something, I’m going to TRY to accommodate it even if I think she’s overreacting… especially if it’s easy

 

[The God Poster]

He’s right tho, if your girl a hoe she a hoe lol. You know how many married women I done cracked

The only training we ever did was in the bedroom & sometimes the car

 

[African Peasant]

People aren't out here fukking people that can't be fukked. It don't matter what job someone has or doesn't have, how much money someone has or doesn't have, how tall or short they are, or whatever excuse people want to try to make, there's no man taking a woman who's unavailable. There's no woman taking a man who's unavailable. People need to spend more time having a fulfilled relationship and less time trying to hide their spouse away from everyone in the world for fear that someone's gonna take them.

@KidJSoul

Coli babble, once again

You cats have an absolute ignorance of basic human psychological traits

 

[African Peasant]

He’s right tho, if your girl a hoe she a hoe lol. You know how many married women I done cracked

The only training we ever did was in the bedroom & sometimes the car

Hoes ain't the only cheating

The flesh is weak

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

I wake up at 4:00 every morning to get myself ready to work out at 4:30 and my wife is right there with me.

fukk all of that personal trainer bullshyt. One of my brothers is a muscle head ass nikka and used to be a personal trainer.



You can send your wife to get piped down if you want.



No way in hell I’d be with that.

 

[Wildin]

Coli babble, once again

You cats have an absolute ignorance of basic human psychological traits

You choose to hide your spouse from the world and restrict their interactions rather than cultivate an unbreakable bond. That's a personal issue. Id suggest individual and couples counseling, but I guess you couldn't do that with a therapist of the opposite sex because opening up, sharing your thoughts and feelings could leave one of you vulnerable as having conversations, listening forms relationships. Or maybe that's just more coli babble.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Who’s right the Husband or the Trainer??

His bytch ass got a death wish and he lowkey dirty mackin… keep that shyt up homie you’ll see lmaoo

Also if ya wife have any respect for you she not working with no male trainers period end of discussion… She will do her own workouts at home vi YouTube or have a female trainer with a group of other women…

 

[Wildin]

Disagree…

Cheating is sometimes just a combination of circumstances and availability. If your relationship is in a good place, most times you don’t have to worry about anything. But all relationships have periods where things aren’t going great and people get vulnerable and make irrational decisions. If a woman (or man, for that matter) is in that space, the wrong trainer can take advantage of that, particularly if they’ve built a strong relationship with their client.

I just try to avoid situations where I feel like I could compromise my relationship. Me choosing a male trainer and my wife choosing a female trainer seems like a low effort way to avoid potential riffs in our relationship. It may never be an issue, but it’s easy. And that may make your job more difficult, but quite frankly I don’t care about trainers, lol. I care about my marriage

If my wife feels uncomfortable with me doing something, I’m going to TRY to accommodate it even if I think she’s overreacting… especially if it’s easy

We agree on this. This is what Ive been saying all along. But mfs would rather worry about their spouse creeping or some random person lurking, rather than cultivating and maintaining a healthy fulfilling relationship.

I just try to avoid situations where I feel like I could compromise my relationship.

That's great for you but we aren't talking about you. We are talking about you restricting your spouses life because of your insecurities.

You can't even say you trust your spouse if you don't trust them not to sleep with someone else, even when y'all are doing bad. That isnt trust.

We aren't saying a personal trainer is going to wild out and rape someone we are talking about consensual sex. If you don't want your spouse to interact with a person in a manner of business because you are afraid they're going to have consensual sex, then your relationship sucks. Where do you draw the line can your girl have a male nail technician? A male hair dresser? A male dentist? A male doctor? A male counselor? A male gynecologist? A male mailman? A male masseuse? A male chiropractor? A male plumber? Can a male ring up her groceries? Which men can they interact with on a professional level and which are strictly forbidden under your rule?

 

[In The Zone '98]

Personal trainers........

 

[Wildin]

-Having boundaries has nothing to do with not having a fulfilled relationship, they keep relationships healthy. Not wanting your woman in that kind of physical relationship with another man also has nothing to do with hiding your woman from the world.

-I know for a fact I won't cheat on my woman but I don't use trust & gaslighting to put myself in situations with women that wanna touch me or test my boundaries. My woman can respect that & move accordingly or not & move on.

A boundary is, you can't sleep with other guys and I won't sleep with other women. Not you can't interact with xxxxx and I won't interact with xxxxx.

If you don't trust your spouse, just say you don't trust them. Ain't no shame in being honest. If you don't trust your spouse to drink tequila because you know how she gets you wouldn't be up in here tap dancing around the issue.

Some people just need to say "I'm uncomfortable with my spouse receiving physical contact and having a relationship in which they set and achieve goals with another person of the opposite gender. I ultimately feel they might have sex."

 

[ShackZilla89]

A lot of personal trainers are predatory scumbag n!kk@s that try to exploit the release of endorphins in the women they train. I would never trust any of them n!kk@s...

 

[Prodyson]

We agree on this. This is what Ive been saying all along. But mfs would rather worry about their spouse creeping or some random person lurking, rather than cultivating and maintaining a healthy fulfilling relationship.

That's great for you but we aren't talking about you. We are talking about you restricting your spouses life because of your insecurities.

You can't even say you trust your spouse if you don't trust them not to sleep with someone else, even when y'all are doing bad. That isnt trust.

We aren't saying a personal trainer is going to wild out and rape someone we are talking about consensual sex. If you don't want your spouse to interact with a person in a manner of business because you are afraid they're going to have consensual sex, then your relationship sucks. Where do you draw the line can your girl have a male nail technician? A male hair dresser? A male dentist? A male doctor? A male counselor? A male gynecologist? A male mailman? A male masseuse? A male chiropractor? A male plumber? Can a male ring up her groceries? Which men can they interact with on a professional level and which are strictly forbidden under your rule?

Trust isn’t believing that your partner will never do anything to hurt you. That’s not realistic. It’s gonna happen at some point.

Trust is about knowing your partner and what situations are best for your relationship and believing that in MOST instances they are making decisions that are best for the relationship. Just because my wife trusts me doesn’t mean I can’t make a mistake if put in a compromising position. And where you draw the line is a conversation between you and your spouse. If one of you thinks the other is going too far then you talk about it and figure out why. I wouldn’t particularly care for my wife to have a male trainer, but she does go to male masseuse. It’s not my first choice but I can live with it based on why she said she goes this particular person. I made a comment about it and she asked me if I wanted her to change to someone else and I said “no.” The same could happen with a male trainer, I suppose. But my preference is going to be a female. I think that’s a perfectly normal line of thinking.

And “restricting your spouses life” is a bit over the top for this example. Either way, when we tell someone what we will and won’t accept in our relationships, we’re technically “restricting their lives.” I don’t go out as much because my wife wouldn’t like it. It is what it is. It’s not the end of the world.

 

[African Peasant]

You choose to hide your spouse from the world and restrict their interactions rather than cultivate an unbreakable bond. That's a personal issue. Id suggest individual and couples counseling, but I guess you couldn't do that with a therapist of the opposite sex because opening up, sharing your thoughts and feelings could leave one of you vulnerable as having conversations, listening forms relationships. Or maybe that's just more coli babble.

Nobody is talking about HIDING. This is a strawman.

Between Hiding and open access to fukkery, there is a place for nuance and wisdom