Male fitness trainer says there’s nothing wrong with letting another man train your woman, calls husband insecure….

[The Villain]

I'm not officially a trainer (like certified), but I do train people here and there...

Any concerns from a husband/BF are 1000% justified and that's all I'll say about that

 

[AllHolosEve]

A boundary is, you can't sleep with other guys and I won't sleep with other women. Not you can't interact with xxxxx and I won't interact with xxxxx.

If you don't trust your spouse, just say you don't trust them. Ain't no shame in being honest. If you don't trust your spouse to drink tequila because you know how she gets you wouldn't be up in here tap dancing around the issue.

Some people just need to say "I'm uncomfortable with my spouse receiving physical contact and having a relationship in which they set and achieve goals with another person of the opposite gender. I ultimately feel they might have sex."

-"I'm uncomfortable with my spouse having a relationship in which she's receiving regular physical contact with a person of the opposite sex that's not a family member or medical professional."

-That better? A boundary is you don't allow other men to touch on you & I don't allow other women to touch on me. It's nothing outrageous or unreasonable. You trying to pretend that means she can never interact with another man again & trying to gaslight about trust & achieving goals to push boundaries is amusing.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

You guys are wild. There is absolutely nothing wrong with my wife, gf, fiance whoever having a very experienced and knowledgeable gay man as a fitness coach

Gay nikkas will line your lady up too… matter fact they will give her that hiv with the quickness….

 

[Windows 91]

Let your wife be trained by "death_stroke_fitness" brehs

 

[The ADD]

Let your wife be trained by "death_stroke_fitness" brehs

 

[Wildin]

Just because my wife trusts me doesn’t mean I can’t make a mistake if put in a compromising position.

sounds like y'all have a very healthy and mature relationship.

You are correct. Trust doesn't mean you can't make a mistake.

However real trust is something certain or certain to the point where you rely on it. You trust your money and savings are in a bank that's not going to lock the door tomorrow and run off with your money.

You likely lay your head down on your pillow and go to bed everything trusting your woman isn't having some secret relationship or betraying you in any way.

Some things are hard truths. It's true that I've never done crack, and I have no interest in doing crack, therefore if I'm ever in a compromising situation where I'm around a bunch of people using crack I'm not likely to cave into peer pressure and take a hit of crack.

If I were in situation where twice a week for 3 months I'm around crackheads smoking crack I can't tell you with extreme confidence im not going to give in and take a hit of crack.

But then again, I know myself. I can say with extreme confidence I know my spouse wouldn't smoke crack, or engage in consentual intercourse with another man regardless of the circumstance. But it takes a while to get to that point in a relationship and I have to respect that not everyone is there or even gets there.

 

[Diondon]

I'm not officially a trainer (like certified), but I do train people here and there...

Any concerns from a husband/BF are 1000% justified and that's all I'll say about that

I saw a trainer slap one of their client's ass so hard it sounded off way across the gym

 

[Wildin]

A boundary is you don't allow other men to touch on you & I don't allow other women to touch on me.

If that's how you choose to live your life, that's on you, and there's nothing wrong with that.

When I had a pinched nerve in my back and lost feeling in my foot I went to a foot and ankle specialist, the podiatrist who checked me out and was rubbing on my feet in a personal manner was a woman, when I went to a chiropractor to have my foot looked at, the chiropractor was a woman and she said your foot is fine, she ended up cracking my back and relieving pressure on a pinched nerve and fixed my foot. Was there anything weird or sexual about either of these interactions, absolutely not. And yeah I saw the chiro about 5 more times. Was my spouse worried about another human being having physical contact with me? No. Was she happy my foot was fixed. Yes.

I was a personal trainer and of course had clients that were women and men. It's cool but you get about an hour and it's on to the next. This was about money, not sex.

At some point your spouse is going to have an interaction with a human of the opposite gender that includes physical contact. My advice is, it's going to be ok. Physical contact is a part of normal human interaction. If physical contact is a trigger, then that's something that needs to be worked out. And it can be a two way street. Maybe you've been used and abused and they have too so you both agree, absolutely no physical contact and that works for you.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

You goofy ass nikkas letting a low moral scumbag gaslight you into handing your girl over to get fukked.
No woman who respects herself and her relationship would ever hire a male personal trainer to get her fit.

Y'all forget that's how Cassie got took from Diddy...and his paper couldn't keep that cac from emptying the clip inside Cassie and making her run away with him

 

[Regular Developer]

Why's he so mad? Is he losing business because of this idea? Did he lose his best female client?

 

[Nigerianwonder]

sounds like y'all have a very healthy and mature relationship.

You are correct. Trust doesn't mean you can't make a mistake.

However real trust is something certain or certain to the point where you rely on it. You trust your money and savings are in a bank that's not going to lock the door tomorrow and run off with your money.

You likely lay your head down on your pillow and go to bed everything trusting your woman isn't having some secret relationship or betraying you in any way.

Some things are hard truths. It's true that I've never done crack, and I have no interest in doing crack, therefore if I'm ever in a compromising situation where I'm around a bunch of people using crack I'm not likely to cave into peer pressure and take a hit of crack.

If I were in situation where twice a week for 3 months I'm around crackheads smoking crack I can't tell you with extreme confidence im not going to give in and take a hit of crack.

But then again, I know myself. I can say with extreme confidence I know my spouse wouldn't smoke crack, or engage in consentual intercourse with another man regardless of the circumstance. But it takes a while to get to that point in a relationship and I have to respect that not everyone is there or even gets there.

lol at comparing having sex with smoking crack. It's easy to say no to something you never experienced and have no interest in doing and could turn you into a fiend. But everyone has had and enjoyed sex before and as long as you use protection its pretty safe and not too risky.

A better example would be someone who used to be an alcoholic trying not to drink anymore. It wouldn't be a good idea to hang around folks who are drinking at happy hour multiple times a week. They will get too comfortable and let their guard down and eventually they might give in a take a sip or just a little shot. And that's exactly how it happens with trainers. It happens over time.

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

Personal trainers........

Freaky ass boy.

 

[Wildin]

A better example would be someone who used to be an alcoholic trying not to drink anymore. It wouldn't be a good idea to hang around folks who are drinking at happy hour multiple times a week. They will get too comfortable and let their guard down and eventually they might give in a take a sip or just a little shot. And that's exactly how it happens with trainers. It happens over time.

As a substance abuse counselor what an alcoholic wants to avoid is playmates, playgrounds and playthings.

In the beginning it's wise to stay away from all for fear of relapse. But once sobriety is achieved one has to learn its acceptable to be around another person who's have a drink, go to a restaurant even Buffalo wild wings where they serve alcohol, learn to go shopping in grocery stores and gas stations where they was past the liquor and beer and just keep it moving, might unexpected come upon cases of beer or bottles of alcohol on display and utilize their learned self control strategies and move on. That's how life is lived.

Not just hiding away in your house in a room never to ever be in a place or by someone that has alcohol.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Why's he so mad? Is he losing business because of this idea? Did he lose his best female client?

Exposure

He felt the need to juelz to get that attention.

If you at LA Fitness, Anytime Fitness, Golds, etc., i do not take you serious as a trainer. It even annoys me when clowns behind the desk act like they shyt don’t stink because you helpdesk at a gym…



Just my opinion, but I actually worked there too so. And ofcourse not everyone there is completely useless. I like the cardio/yoga/fitness class people more. They actually be in shape too

 

[Goat poster]

Comparing personal training to any other daily act is not being genuine


There are LITERAL HARMONES our body produces when we exercise, matched up with the physical closeness, supportive language and demeanor, and goal setting and accomplishing together.

Many people also use their trainers as de-facto therapists.

you can take that chance. But go holler at Tim Duncan, Go holler at Tom Brady

Actually when Cassie first left Diddy, It was for the personal trainer

these things happen so it's not out of the question.