Those of us who have two black parents live our lives drenched in the weight of blackness. For better and worse...
Those of us who have a nonblack parent don't have the same burden on their shoulders in majority of cases, unless you look like J Cole or Obama or something (you look as of you do have two black parents). And many of us who have a nonblack parent assimilate into nonblack culture because it's more beneficial for them...
Point blank, if you have a nonblack parent and aren't culturally black, you're not black. And I'm okay with it, I've lived in 7 states, I've seen biracial blacks who opt for the other side, it is what it is. They aren't my people...
This man's lived experience isn't as a black man. First of all we know he didn't grow up around us. And if he wasn't rocking the faux jheri and had a regular cut, this guy would look like a white man with a slight tan. He ain't got no overt black features...
I don't give a shyt about PR spots on George Floyd or identifying as a black QB in interviews, his LIVED EXPERIENCE on the day to day isn't as a black man. He's not surrounded with black associates who aren't teammates, and he married and had kids with a white woman...
All of this is voluntary, it doesn't bother me. I am bothered when we want to include him and people like him who've gone out of their way to step away from blackness...
I'll celebrate the SB as two black QBs too, because in the context of the NFL it fits, and The League is clearly leaning into the good press on it. But in real life this isn't a black man---->he's a white man who happened to have a black father. This is not a brother, though...