Love isn't healthy...

[Slystallion]

I know how you feel...which is why I like to stay Jeter status....focus on my own accomplishments and not get too attached ...like that saying in the movie heat...

- Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner.

At some point I'll lose out and but I try to stay winning with the emotional upper hand

 

[Sad Bunny]

I'm done with relationships if me and my woman go our separate ways, I'll be bumpin "All Along" right there with you @Gator Reloaded. I don't believe in the "one" but I will be hard pressed to find a woman as attractive and easy going as her again.

She doesn't know this, and I plan to keep it a secret.

Im with you. Im done if my current relationship fails

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Love fukking sucks

I feel like an idiot sitting up listening to Future "Neva End" over and over again

I'm too old for this bs

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

so you can love someone but fall out of love with them, so if you had children would you stop loving them

hmm it seems to me in this game of love, ts just whoever you date next you love more than the previous person you dated "i never felt this way before", "i love you more than anyone else"

I have to applaud you, you make me think about things that I normally wouldn't.

So in the previous case, I could have A. Had kids, had a mediocre marriage and life because I wasn't strong enough to leave. OR realized we made a choice when we were young and it didn't pan out. Now both of us are on a better, more loving path, leading to a happier future.

Re: loving children- of course I would always love them. That's no question.

As for your last comment.... in my case, I guess you could say it looks like that. I've had 2 great loves. I came out of the last one wiser, and knowing what I want/need/expect from the other person.

I also can say that I am a better woman to my current man. I realized the 60/40 rule. When you think 50/50 is how you're going about things, you're likely missing something in your own behavior, not even realizing it. When you give more than you expect back, and your partner is doing the same, you balance eachother out and appreciate eachother.

No regrets.

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

Now you have me thinking @His_Excellence_Reincar - I just went to the store, and 'When I was your Man' came on.

I really hope that girl that my prev is with does all of the things I didn't do.

 

[Sad Bunny]

It's not healthy.... You worry all the time about if you are keeping them happy...... But it's amazing!!

Had to quote this twice....my thoughts exactly....you in my mind, girl

 

[Sad Bunny]

What? Lol

 

[colicolicoli]

What? Lol

Reminds me of when I told my boyfriend I'm keying his car at MINIMUM if we ever break up

 

[MikelArteta]

The little feelings and emotion's you gain from love isn't worth it to me. I've said before a real man only loves twice and that's it.


Love is like a drug a sick addiction why when the person you love is taken away the withdrawal is maddening like a addict you struggle to go cold turkey, and bread crumbs become your highs.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

None of what y'all nikkas is describing is love, that's just y'all dealing with emotions like bytches.

When that emotions goes away will you still love these hoes? Probably not.

nikkas like y'all are why the divorce rate is so high.

 

[Data-Hawk]

It feels good...but it drives people crazy. I love it but I hate it. Maybe its just some insecurities, anxiety and emotions creating these thoughts but got damn

This is true, i almost lost it all over a female. I also know a couple of ppl ( male n female ) who were doing well in school and fukked their life over because of the opposite sex.

 

[Huellz Santana]

ive had so many girls "fall in love" with me that im not sure it means the same thing to women as it does to men.​

 

[MikelArteta]

Can women truly love

ive had so many girls "fall in love" with me that im not sure it means the same thing to women as it does to men.​

 

[froggle]

Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all

no truer words. Once you got a taste of it, it is so so good. When that R & B song comes on...ya'll nikkas know what im talking bout. Your in a stupid daze as the words speak to exactly what you are feeling.

When that R & B song comes on...ya'll nikkas know what im talking bout. It is straight pain and suffering once that love is lost.

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

The little feelings and emotion's you gain from love isn't worth it to me. I've said before a real man only loves twice and that's it.


Love is like a drug a sick addiction why when the person you love is taken away the withdrawal is maddening like a addict you struggle to go cold turkey, and bread crumbs become your highs.

I don't know why when I read the last statement, I thought of love being like a parasite, sucking the life out of you. Are you making me a cynic, sir?