Love isn't healthy...

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You just said it. Communication is all you have.

My man said the most amazing thing to me when we first got together. "You make me want to be a better man" that hit me hard, and since then, I know we've both been trying to be better for ourselves and each other.

Also- learn to pick your battles.

I've been through a lot of love, and these three are things you can't do without.
:heh: He got that shyt from a movie
 

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I know because I've grown and learned from every choice, and every mistake I've made in the past. I think it sums it up well when I mentioned earlier that my boo makes me want to be better for both of us. Also, I never saw a family with my previous. I thought at the time, I just didn't want kids in general. I was a firm believer in that. Looking back, I just didn't want kids with him. I didn't view him as being the best father, even though his father was and he had a great example in him. My current man is going to be an amazing, loving father if we're blessed with children. My previous, I took marriage as the next logical step because we were together for so long. That was my mistake.

Hindsight is 20/20.

Do I think about them? No. They come in mind with certain memories, but it's part of my past.

It's not just a switch. I spent so much time having feelings over my previous. It was an emotional rollercoaster, but all of that is over. We've both moved on, and I feel like I'm finally with the person that fulfills me on EVERY level, which I've never had before. I also know it's reciprocated, he shows me every day. I'm truly blessed.

TL;DR you live, you love, you learn.

:obama:

but isnt love supposed to be life long, so in reality you never really loved your past partners, they were just empty words? :lupe:

like a parent never stops loving their child no matter what they do,

:lupe:
 

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:obama:

but isnt love supposed to be life long, so in reality you never really loved your past partners, they were just empty words? :lupe:

like a parent never stops loving their child no matter what they do,

:lupe:
That's all part of the process. Figuring out how deep love can really get. I can honestly say I loved my previous. If he ever needed anything to this day, I would help in any way that I could (mind out of the gutter, not giving up anything sexual :usure:).

As I've stated before, we ended on a good note. I wish him well and the feeling is mutual. I guess you can say I still have love for him, but I fell out of love with him a long time ago. No empty words there.
 

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That's all part of the process. Figuring out how deep love can really get. I can honestly say I loved my previous. If he ever needed anything to this day, I would help in any way that I could (mind out of the gutter, not giving up anything sexual :usure:).

As I've stated before, we ended on a good note. I wish him well and the feeling is mutual. I guess you can say I still have love for him, but I fell out of love with him a long time ago. No empty words there.

:ehh:

so you can love someone but fall out of love with them, so if you had children would you stop loving them :lupe:

hmm it seems to me in this game of love, ts just whoever you date next you love more than the previous person you dated "i never felt this way before", "i love you more than anyone else"
 
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