Long post: So I really like this woman a lot but

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Phitz said:
this assumes all women have the same tastes and interests, just based off the logic it's flawed.

We're all men but not all of us do and like the same thing. Not all of us drink, not all of us like the same foods, not all of us like sex the same way.

Just off common sense this is flawed. Yeah times are dark but not every woman does these dirty things just because the 35% of women in your city in the same social circles are screwing the same guys in that circle like musical chairs.

Everywhere has a cluster of people who are promiscuous among each other, but this is not representative of every man and woman or even every man and woman where they live.
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That is correct that women aren't monoliths, but do you have a mind-reading device:heh:?

Even if someone told you, you'd have no idea to make sure that they aren't lying, which they would be inclined to do because people like you treat a woman's sexual escapades as a deal-breaker, so of course 90% of women are going to act like they were saints... and you'dhave zero way of verifying that information unless you asked around:mjlol:.
 
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Congrats on the plat

Tbh after reading all of this, if she's the one and you have nothing else to complain about, and if you're solid or carefree enough to deal with all this, then :manny: shorty had her fun and made a couple shortsighted decisions. That shouldn't stop love.

Me personally, I'm wayyyy too insecure for all this bs :hubie: but much respect to anybody mature enough to look past all that.

Hold on though, when you say you have vids of her on your phone... You mean with the other guy or solo shyt? :patrice:
 
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MischievousMonkey said:
Congrats on the plat

Tbh after reading all of this, if she's the one and you have nothing else to complain about, and if you're solid or carefree enough to deal with all this, then :manny: shorty had her fun and made a couple shortsighted decisions. That shouldn't stop love.

Me personally, I'm wayyyy too insecure for all this bs :hubie: but much respect to anybody mature enough to look past all that.

Hold on though, when you say you have vids of her on your phone... You mean with the other guy or solo shyt? :patrice:
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I have videos of her with a mask on with me. I haven't, a don’t want to see her videos with dude. I'm gonna tell to delete those videos on Saturday after I tell her that we’re going forward as a couple.
 
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Blown Moon said:
I don't like what you're saying but I do appreciate it. Your posts and others like it are why I brought this here. I would've repped if I could've.

I don't think the cac “owns her soul” but you're right, I do love her so I accept that my feelings might be compromising my judgment. If I was on the outside looking in I would agree with you almost completely. On her being “a whore” do you stand by that IF her only having 8 bodies at 28 is true? Lastly, I truly do believe most of these Western women are putting up high numbers. Hookup culture is what's promoted and accepted by many, especially with people under 30.
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Anecdotally, when a woman makes irrational decisions - like the one she did - to provoke a response from a man, more often than not, that man has some sort of control over her breh, especially if it plays out like it did - with the man ignoring/not caring about her antics. like, women struggle to move on from things that don't end on their terms, and more often than not, that man can spin the block if they so want. I'm saying this as something I've witnessed and been an involved part in myself. That’s not to say this is the case every time, all the time, of course.

8 as a number is not egregious, but I guess it comes down to what you consider whoredom. Sexual activity with more than one partner/man at a time is whoredom to me. You seemingly place substantial amount of value on her relatively “low” body count, and disregard/are at peace with everything else - then nothing else really matters breh. If you happy and found love, so be it.

I hope it works out :ehh:
 
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