Long post: So I really like this woman a lot but

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Everytime I read this, it's telling of the type of women you brehs deal with.
How so? Bruh, we're in 2024 where women can get díck like it's same-day delivery at Amazon from a dude that lives 20-30 minutes away from her, so not only is it more socially accepted for her to do so (by women, mainly), but it's far enough away for it to not get out.

Literally, ANY woman could be on that type of time if she wanted to, so it really isn't telling of who we deal with.

That cute ass, jovial ass female that you saw at Starbucks could have fúcked 25 people by the time she was 21.
 

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Look at the Eddiel tower and think about, breh.

It's 2024, breh. I'd bet that the majority of women have sex tapes with boyfriends and many have tapes with casual dudes.

I'm old and tired of the field, she's pretty, smart, and honest. Our personalities fit well. Maybe I'm on some sucka shyt for considering this but that's where I'm at in life. In two years I'll be 40 and she'll be 30 and we're both trying to have a family and do lame shyt like family camping trips and shyt. :manny:
And then in 2028 you will be in a chair in the corner watching her in bed with another dude while your kids hugging its teddy bear… I’ll say it now I told you so

It happened to my friend and they wanted me to participate I haven’t seen them since … husband and wife of 6 years with two baby girls…

If you owned a company and I applied and 4 years ago I stole 4 cars, robbed a store and committed tax fraud would you hire me in any meaningful capacity…

Why do you paint yourself in corners bro… get off the ropes ‘95 Tyson is coming at you wake up

And if you go for it and if/when shyt goes left what ya gonna do… post here…we can’t save you
 

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Breh you are trying to make yourself get comfortable with some shyt that you cant get comfortable with

How do I know that? you wouldnt have made the thread otherwise


Your talking about marriage and children


You cant afford that mistake, and you are old enough to know better


But you wont do better, you are gonna try to make yourself feel better about the decision you've already made



The big ho alarms you need to be wary of, that effiel tower shyt is some gay shyt
and that shyt about what you can do with prostitutes is the line she DIDNT set with old boy

So she was fukking a sex crazed fakkit that fukked prostitutes on the regular and you think "WIFE"

 

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It's surprising so many of you don't realize how women move out here these days. I think if our number of partners showed up on everyone's foreheads today most of you would be in a straightjacket tomorrow. You nikkaa are naive.

@Uchiha God keeping it a buck your posts actually were fukking with me but ultimately you're wrong.

@HabitualChiller Salute to you for having your eyes open about the reality of 2024 and before I even read your post I realized I was defending her and as @Kasgoinjail pointed out my mind is actually already made up.:yeshrug:


I'm not gonna lie the thread being so lopsided is surprising to me but then again there's a reason I've only confided in my best friend about this in real life. She's smart, she's not hung up on material things, and is always down to be frugal, her heart is good(I actually met her while doing community work), she has a ton of other great qualities too. Our connection is strong, I don't click over from friend mode to girl mode when with her, she's a true friend who is also a girl I'm with. No, that's not the same as having a girlfriend. Most people would miss all that great shyt because they'd be hung up on the information she volunteered. Not me.

I made a thread about scouting out places I could potentially move to in 2027, I'm taking Shorty with me wherever I decide and I know she's down. She's actually already going with me to one of the places I’m scouting next year, I just left that out of the thread.


@Yinny No, she's not crazy and this came up because I asked to film her giving me head. :manny:

@trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In Yes, a bad bytch fukked a dog after getting fukked on by several crips. She comes off like Hillary from Fresh Prince, just not ditsy. I promise the nikkas in here clowning would be grateful to fukk with her and they'd have no clue that many a nikka south of the 10 freeway in LA would look at her with the :scust:face of they saw her.
 

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OP you press the ejector button yet or naw? You know you gotta press it before the shyt blows up right?
 

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Do what makes you happy but you should go talk to your friends in real life and not Internet strangers.

You are 38 years old coming online for relationship help lol
 

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It's surprising so many of you don't realize how women move out here these days. I think if our number of partners showed up on everyone's foreheads today most of you would be in a straightjacket tomorrow. You nikkaa are naive.

@Uchiha God keeping it a buck your posts actually were fukking with me but ultimately you're wrong.

Breh, you're projecting wildly onto women to justify your choices and the compromises you're willing to make. Yes, there are plenty of women that are whores and loose - but ultimately, there are plenty that aren't either. It's an equation of the time you're willing to invest to find one vs what you're willing to accept/let slide as a man vs peace of mind

regarding my posts in this thread, I was only going of the information you've made available:

1. She was smutted out by a cac, partaking in all kinds of debauchery and degeneracy with said cac
2. Upon finding out said cac wasn't taking her seriously by means of disrespecting their arrangement and fukking the other woman behind her back, instead of showing appropriate adult decision-making, she decided to open her legs some more to the cac's friend to provoke a reaction from him. It just so happens that the cac understands the game and didn't see her as more than a means to have degenerate fun. These were things you described in your OP

For someone that seemingly proverbially knows "how the game goes" and speaks of others potentially being naive, you should know that the cac owns your girl's soul just by the above actions you described.

Most of us here knew you had already made your mind up. You're in love with a whore - and you're hoping those days are behind her. You pretty much just engaged in an exercize of rationalization and to do so, you paint the world with large brushes "this is how women moving now", "most women would lie about it", "you nikkas are naive", etc. Breh - it is ok. You're not the first nor are you going to be the last. This isn't a new script.

I hope that it works out, because it you found happiness - it is what it is :yeshrug: You came to thecoli and asked for perspectives. I think you would have been better off not knowing any of this to be honest, going out like a sucker can happen to the best of us unknowingly, but it's not a choice I'll actively make knowingly. Some men are willing to compromise on some things, others are not. And that's what it ultimately comes down to. I simply said I'm not looking to a woman that's on camera getting a train ran on by cac as someone to start a family with.
 
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