ok, I have not watched the video yet cause for some reason it does not want to work BUT
I just came from a thread where a white dude said that 'black women are the floor' and has black women swooning all over him.
doubt the reaction would be the same if the messenger of the message had darker skin tone.
in other words, this is a 2 way street - both sides are doing what I assume chynafox is describing!!
Edit:
ok, I got the video to work finally.
disregard my above made message.
damn, she is pissed!!