Mr. Somebody
Friend Of A Friend
Alot of men in this thread dont want to be men and want their women to be the man that men are expected to be.
Its so demonic, friends.
Its so demonic, friends.

I understand that, and I can't defend those women. But what I'm saying is if you saw a man beating the shyt out of a woman you wouldn't intervene in some way, not even call the cops? Would you think about helping her?
I think that's instinct, just like if I saw a woman beating a child I'd do something about it.
your whole smaller and weaker argument is moot because if a 6'10 350 pound person breaks in your house the man of the house is likely smaller and weaker than him as well. what makes her more deserving of protection and sacrifice than him?
the expectation is he take the lead because if it comes to it he's disposable. she's not likely to hop out of bed on her own go grab a gun and run downstairs and leave her husband she's more likely to wake him up not not just to make him aware of the situation but so that he'll handle it or be the primary on it.
but its you and her vs them, right? and youre on her side? so wouldnt you try to protect her since shes smaller than you, and you can hold up in a fight better? thats how men and women operate. its nothing new.
One time I saw this guy beating up on his girl, and not to long into the fight this older guy stepped in and tried to stop him.....you know what happened?
The chick and her boyfriend ended up beating up the older guy, because she felt like he shouldn't have hit her man.
My nikka, I stood there like![]()
This nikka came to save you and you turn around and help your boyfriend beat him up????? Where the hell they do that at
shyt was crazy b. Cops had to come and break it up.
one paradigm is there is a crisis and i love this person and i'm putting myself before them to protect them. i'm going to take the lead out of selflessness and take the brunt of the risk.
the other paradigm is there is a crisis and this person should protect me. they should take the lead because if something happens it should happen to them before me.
the person of the second paradigm has the potential to take the opportunity to protect away from the person of the first paradigm but likely won't.
if the boat is going down its women and children first. men are disposable. you aren't likely to hear many women argue that they'll stay and die and let a man live. you may say he's stronger than him but is his life stronger than hers? a child has their whole life ahead of them but two adults same age one female one male why should the male go down with the ship and surrender his space on the life boat to her?
here's the problem. women talk about equality when it benefits them but when something like this is pointed out they go "let a man be a man" and suddenly we're no longer equals you're falling back and seceding superiority to him and letting him accept the risk. basically there's no benefit to manhood. you have to foot all the risk and share all the spoils.Are men complaining about being men?
I thought thats what ya'll wanted? Let the man be a man, the woman be a woman, and the women not try and play both roles at their convience...right?