lol you clearly don't understand this argument. An abortion much like a vasectomy is a medical procedure. If we can starting forcing medical procedures on others, and you're totally fine with one of those procedures being forced on another then you are fine with both being forced on another.
I completely understand the argument, youre just too dense to understand my point
youre framing this issue without taking the social aspect into account, so let me break it down for you young lady
If a man is deciding to get a vasectomy, the decision independent from a woman because she isnt directly responsible for his sperm and vas deferens. the exception is if he's in a longterm marriage/relationship with a woman and he decides he doesnt want to have anymore children. HIS BODY, HIS SPERM
if a woman is deciding whether or not to get an abortion, the decision is dependent on the male because he directly responsible for the pregnancy. the unborn child is a product of BOTH parent's genetic material, the woman is the baby's host until he/she is ready to be born. HER BODY, THEIR CHILD
Ultimately, using your logic, If a man doesnt have a say an abortion, it shouldnt be a surprise if he becomes a deadbeat.
If a man doesnt have a say regarding the status of an unborn child he's equally responsible for, he should be able to sign away his parental rights if he had no intention of being a father.
I definitely dont ascribe to that line of thinking, youre proposition leaves it open to extreme outcomes