Lets be real here. Can black men afford to be "goofy" and "vulnerable" around black women? Are pawgs built for the cornball brothas?

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BW called Michael B. Jordan lame/nerdy when he's cooler than 98% of White Men :dead:

Nikkas aren't into computer programming, anime, dungeons and dragons. We're not nerds. We're normal.
That's why I say these type of issues should be a socioeconomic class thing than a race thing

A white woman who lives in the trailer park will see the anime loving black man as a nerd
 

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Like I said before, one of the biggest myths perpetuated online is that hot/attractive non-Black women are infatuated with nerdy Black men.

I mean....it's one thing if we're talking a nerdy Black dude who's extroverted, non-ugly, tall, and makes a lot of money. Such a "nerd" will do well with any time of woman: Black, White, Hispanic, etc. I know because I'm technically a "Blerd" who's extroverted and makes a lot of money and I've rarely had issues with sisters outside of hoodrats.

However, if we're talking about nerdy Black dudes who are socially awkward, have no real social life outside of video games, unattractive, short, and have no game(or "rizz" as the youth like to say) then he's not going to do any better with non-Black women than Black women.

Matter of fact, when I was in college, the nerdiest Black dudes I knew were generally paired off with educated Black women while only sometimes getting with White/Latina women while the basketball/football athletes, frat boys, wannabe rappers/rappers, and "tall dark and handsome" brothers were the main dudes eating well in IR dating.

For every actual Black nerd or goofball I saw with a White/Latina woman, I saw 10 more White/Hispanic women who were getting passed around by Black dudes who played ball, partied a lot, dressed/acted like rappers, or were built like Adonis, etc.

Even on Tik Tok, when Black men interview White women who claim they like Black men, the White girls usually bring up swag, sports, penis, confidence, muscles, and other hypermasculine traits for why they "love" Black men. Almost none of them big up nerdy or goofy Black dudes who don't embody these traits.

Just something to think about. There's a reason why 83% of "Lame" Black men making 6 figures have Black wives. A good portion of "open-minded/pro-IR" White/Hispanic women view Black men as walking dildos and hypermasculine caricatures as opposed to wholesome partners who they actually want to build and have a long lasting relationship with.

Great post. Repped.
 

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That's why I say these type of issues should be a socioeconomic class thing than a race thing

A white woman who lives in the trailer park will see the anime loving black man as a nerd

But it is a race thing. Many BW who grew up in the suburbs have the same mindset.
 

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One of the biggest myths perpetuated online is that "Nerdy Black Men" are Nerdy.

Non-Black Women see "Nerdy Black Men" as Regular Men.

It's only our twisted and corrupted community that looks at men with a stable job, who are straight-laced, and not into degenerative behaviors as being lame.
Anybody denying this is telling ducktales. But I get it. The bolded can be seen as an attack on black women, so people are going to argue against it to defend them. But for example, this white guy looks kinda lame but, he pulled a very attractive and shapely black woman. To be fair to this white guy, if he dated white girls, he'd probably get a cute white girl too. But the point is, if he was a black guy, I don't know if he pulls her. Her standards would go up to wanting a cooler, swaggier, more attractive black dude but, that's how it is :manny:

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Facts. I don’t know why dudes are always jumping to extremes mentioning anime nerds. We’re talking about BM who are squares with Grant Hill and Steph Curry upbringings and personalities. All other things fixed (eg looks, height, charisma, etc) brehs with Grant Hill and Steph Curry upbringings and personalities are at a disadvantage to brehs with Future upbringings and personalities when it comes to attracting most attractive BW in America under 35.
 

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BW called Michael B. Jordan lame/nerdy when he's cooler than 98% of White Men :dead:

Nikkas aren't into computer programming, anime, dungeons and dragons. We're not nerds. We're normal.

MBJ is into anime ( to the point he recommends other actors/actresses to it ) and gaming - he's a PS head. Dude's a nerd same with Henry Cavill. The difference is they don't make it part of their personality. Lotta nerds are borderline autists that hyper-fixate and don't bother crafting an existence beyond anime/comic/games.
 

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MBJ is into anime ( to the point he recommends other actors/actresses to it ) and gaming - he's a PS head. Dude's a nerd same with Henry Cavill. The difference is they don't make it part of their personality. Lotta nerds are borderline autists that hyper-fixate and don't bother crafting an existence beyond anime/comic/games.

He definitely made Creed 3 that and ruined it :beli:
 

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MBJ is into anime ( to the point he recommends other actors/actresses to it ) and gaming - he's a PS head. Dude's a nerd same with Henry Cavill. The difference is they don't make it part of their personality. Lotta nerds are borderline autists that hyper-fixate and don't bother crafting an existence beyond anime/comic/games.

Another difference is WW love Henry Cavill despite his nerdy interests.
 

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MBJ is into anime ( to the point he recommends other actors/actresses to it ) and gaming - he's a PS head. Dude's a nerd same with Henry Cavill. The difference is they don't make it part of their personality. Lotta nerds are borderline autists that hyper-fixate and don't bother crafting an existence beyond anime/comic/games.

Let's not be disingenuous here. You know what nerdy means. It's some loser-ass nikka that plays dungeons and dragons on Saturdays and wears shoes from Payless. I work with a bunch of white nerds. We are NOTHING like them. We maybe can talk Marvel with them but, that's about it...they're real deal nerds. The black community is calling regular black dudes something that doesn't fit.
 

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Another difference is WW love Henry Cavill despite his nerdy interests.

People didn't know Cavill was on that time. Interestingly when he came out as "gamer" perceptions shifted. To casual women he was no longer as attractive ( granted this was around the same time his hairline started marching ). Whereas, more gamer/nerdy WW found him more accessible, thus appealing. I won't dispute races react differently to aesthetics. A lot of the dating market is dictated by social trends and for BM "Duke Dennis" is the archetype of the bad boy while "Michael B Jordan" is the nice guy that's universally lauded. However, this expectation is never held as strictly for others. Yes, WW love a "Travis Kelce" but they'd just as well take "Tom Holland" over "MGK". I've said before but SM has put me on that BW under 35 don't love nor like but settle for BM. As well as the fact WM incels deserve 0 sympathy.


Let's not be disingenuous here. You know what nerdy means. It's some loser-ass nikka that plays dungeons and dragons on Saturdays and wears shoes from Payless. I work with a bunch of white nerds. We are NOTHING like them. We maybe can talk Marvel with them but, that's about it...they're real deal nerds. The black community is calling regular black dudes something that doesn't fit.

RDC are nerds that cosplay, read/watch comics, play games, make anime/video game content for a living. However, since they dress in designer now somehow they're not real nerds, lol. This is the same talk asians/white do to try diminish black nerds. As I said you can be a nerd who doesn't hyper fixate. You don't have to look like a smashbro, neckbeard or furry to be considered a nerd. Critical Role are nerdy cartoon/comic va, dnd, theatre kids that meet the same metrics you mentioned and they're regular people.
 
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You can 100% and I mean 10000% be the corniest most cornball breh in existence and legit marry, not just date, but easily marry A LOT of black women who are just as corny as you.

But if you try to aim outside of that particular niche of black women, you’re gonna have a very difficult time.

Like if you’re trying to fukk thots or fast chicks? Those types have been conditioned to see you as a lick. You’ve signed your death warrant :hubie:

On the flip side though, if you’re a Russell Wilson type (corny + famous/wealthy) PAWGS will eat you alive and sue you for everything in divorce court. Pick your poison.
 

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Facts. I don’t know why dudes are always jumping to extremes mentioning anime nerds. We’re talking about BM who are squares with Grant Hill and Steph Curry upbringings and personalities. All other things fixed (eg looks, height, charisma, etc) brehs with Grant Hill and Steph Curry upbringings and personalities are at a disadvantage to brehs with Future upbringings and personalities when it comes to attracting most attractive BW in America under 35.

Yep.

Look at the bad black women that be in a Future concert, compared to a Chance the rapper concert.
 
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