Let another man buy your girl a drink brehs

Did she violate?

  • She violated

    Votes: 11 57.9%
  • She handled the situation appropriately

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • Not a violation but she on thin ice

    Votes: 6 31.6%

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King_Kamala61

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it was our third date...i paid for the first two so if she wanna pay for the third I aint trickin. a woman should have some skin in the game

generally speaking though...if a girl does that on the first date it is one of two things...she likes you on a 10/10 level or she doesnt like you and doesnt wanna feel like she owes you anything. no in between
Ok that's different. I thought it was the 1st date and you on some boy toy shyt. :salute:
 

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lol the OP wasnt about going to the club on some girls night shyt or about a dude sending a drink randomly.

nikka your girl knows youre coming ...might be no more than 10 mins away and she cant wait for you rather than let a nikka by her a drink and chat her up? :laff:

what kinda hoodrat, broke, attention whore bytches do you clowns be dating? I know plenty of women who arent pressed for drinks / dont drink at all and would respectfully decline. i also know women who would politely decline just out of respect for their man who they know is on their way. find yourself a woman like that

man. nikkas are such bytches these days. its hilarious

Then you don't date halfway attractive women.

Because they've been getting free shyt and been tricked on based off looks since they were 18 from DUMB men.

They're not going to suddenly say no when you're not there unless you live in an alternate reality :mjlol:


I've already said women have ZERO PROBLEM exploiting DUMB men.

And again if you think women aren't accepting free shyt when you're not around on some "I got integrity so I can't do this" shyt then I don't know what to tell you :mjlol:
 

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I’ve seen woman I’ve been dating for all of 4 hours be stiffer to random guys. I’d check it and see how she responds. If she pulls the insecure card then you know what kind of woman you have.
 

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First time I had a woman pay for anything I felt emasculated. I don't let women pay for shyt cause I don't wanna feel like a user.

Idk how men can let a woman pay for anything they got. Saying that's pimp/playa shyt. Sound like Maman shyt to me. And Kamala ain't with that.

That was in reference to the OP. I hear what you're saying too.
 

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Then you don't date halfway attractive women.

Because they've been getting free shyt and been tricked on based off looks since they were 18 from DUMB men.

They're not going to suddenly say no when you're not there unless you live in an alternate reality :mjlol:


I've already said women have ZERO PROBLEM exploiting DUMB men.

And again if you think women aren't accepting free shyt when you're not around on some "I got integrity so I can't do this" shyt then I don't know what to tell you :mjlol:

You’ve made a good amount of posts without actually making any type of stance :heh:

‘You don’t think women accept free shyt?!?’ doesn’t speak to what YOU allow/condone/worry about

Me: would you leave if your girl fukked another ngga in your bed, in front of you?

You: yOu don’t ThInk bytcheS fukk nGgAs in tHeIr BeD?!???

:what:
 

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this happened to a friend of mine. let’s call his girl “Tamera”

- a guy sent a bottle to Tamera while she was out with her girlfriends in a lounge

- the guy comes over later and introduces himself and got Tamera’s number (her excuse was she was just being nice since he sent a bottle)

- Tamera would start fights out of nowhere with my boy and go thru his phone randomly.

- Tamera breaks up with my boy and reveals the guy from the club has been sending her money and calling her.


bytch basically left a relationship to become a sugar baby

:russ:
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if your girl likes to be outside at bars, lounges, clubs, etc count the days on that relationship.
 

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You’ve made a good amount of posts without actually making any type of stance :heh:

‘You don’t think women accept free shyt?!?’ doesn’t speak to what YOU allow/condone/worry about

Me: would you leave if your girl fukked another ngga in your bed, in front of you?

You: yOu don’t ThInk bytcheS fukk nGgAs in tHeIr BeD?!???

:what:

I've already said in this thread what my stance is.

Break up for what? :mjtf:


He should be more upset she didn't get the guy to get him a drink he wanted before he arrived.

If your woman is decent looking men are always going to do this with your woman when you are NOT there. Women will not say no because they HATE paying for shyt.

Now if she took his number or social media?

Then yeah she should be tossed. But from the info it doesn't sound like this happened.
 

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That's how you get shot..

Cause if a chick didn't tell me str8 up she waiting on someone and I buy her a drink and I see her give ol boy the drink in front of me Imma say something and get my drink back esp if it's a skinny negro

Was just thinking this. Some dudes ain't going, especially if it's over a bad bytch. Dudes will fight over that shyt.

Grown men acting petty. Smh.
 

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That's how you get shot..

Cause if a chick didn't tell me str8 up she waiting on someone and I buy her a drink and I see her give ol boy the drink in front of me Imma say something and get my drink back esp if it's a skinny negro
It’s not the dude’s fault you got finesse. You gotta charge it to the game at that point.
 

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It’s not the dude’s fault you got finesse. You gotta charge it to the game at that point.

You’d be dead already ngga :what:

You can tell who grew up with street smarts and who didn’t

Those who didn’t, are the more cocky, oblivious, by the book. Bc you ain’t felt ‘pain’. You don’t know it can go there. A ngga who knows the depths things can go and has seen it, does what he can to avoid it

Of course we know who’s at fault and what one should do, but you can’t account for what another ngga will.
 

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She should’ve declined the drink.

I genuinely can’t imagine me accepting a drink from a man knowing my man is coming.

If it was just some guy being friendly buying drinks for everyone at the bar (including my man), that’s one thing…but nah

I’m not sure if it’s breakup worthy but it’s a definite red flag.


Pick me babble.
:troll:

It’s not the dude’s fault you got finesse. You gotta charge it to the game at that point.

It don't work like that in real life. A lot of dudes out there will crash out over petty shyt.


 

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It’s not the dude’s fault you got finesse. You gotta charge it to the game at that point.
Yea, but I'm a feel a certain way...esp if the chick ain't say nuttin bout her waiting on a date or if she gotta man.

That's trifling on her behavior. That's that accountability that we talk about that women lack. Now her and that dude life could be in jeopardy based on who the dude she finessed
 
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