Let another man buy your girl a drink brehs

[In The Zone '98]

Y'all fukk other nikkas girls/wives everyday

Why would you trust yours?

 

[ScoopNScore]

Coli super insecure crew is going to be up in arms about this.

She is likely never going to see dude again a day in her life, why care?

Only a violation if they exchanged any kind of information to keep up communication.

Shiit that's less on the bar tab and she'd be open quicker too let him waste his money and keep his internal crashout to himself

 

[TRUEST]

Lol. Violation so flagrant yikes

Hun, do not ever flirt with any guy or give any guy a friendly vibe. You understand me? A girl who calls you controlling for saying that is the exact type of girl that will accumulate “friendly” guys that will eventually be the end of your relationship.

In every relationship there’s usually someone who is more invested than the other. Don’t let that be you. Keeping a mean grill and hardly ever smiling, tend to keep these type of situations at bay.

But my goodness. If you like the girl more than she likes you….whoa you are screwed

 

[Braman]

I think some of you are working against your own argument and don’t realize it. When you say ‘she exploiting dumb ass tricks ‘, that IS the red flag

I dont want a woman who’s exploitative, I don’t want a woman who is ‘on some playa shyt’. It’s akin to the ‘watch how people treat wait staff’ logic. If she’s capable of that, she’s capable of some equally petty/corny/manipulative shyt with me

Thats if she gleefully accepted the drink. Perhaps even worse is if she can’t handle some basic 101 level interaction and reject this dude…. when she knows her man is on the way

In a perfect world she can handle herself and have cordial convo til he gets there, pay for her own drink, and voila it’s over. The fact she couldn’t do that is off putting

 

[Ohene]

Dignity about what?


If you think women are turning down free drinks from DUMB men when you're not there then you don't live in the real world


That is the entire point of the club/bar scene. To get dumb men to trick on women who don't want them

lol the OP wasnt about going to the club on some girls night shyt or about a dude sending a drink randomly.

nikka your girl knows youre coming ...might be no more than 10 mins away and she cant wait for you rather than let a nikka by her a drink and chat her up?

what kinda hoodrat, broke, attention whore bytches do you clowns be dating? I know plenty of women who arent pressed for drinks / dont drink at all and would respectfully decline. i also know women who would politely decline just out of respect for their man who they know is on their way. find yourself a woman like that

man. nikkas are such bytches these days. its hilarious

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

She violated. You don't buy a woman a drink unless you're trying to engage with her. If she accepted then she's entertaining other offers. that's a violation for a relationship no matter how new. Either she's your girlfriend or she's not.

 

[Ohene]

I think some of you are working against your own argument and don’t realize it. When you say ‘she exploiting dumb ass tricks ‘, that IS the red flag

I dont want a woman who’s exploitative, I don’t want a woman who is ‘on some playa shyt’. It’s akin to the ‘watch how people treat wait staff’ logic. If she’s capable of that, she’s capable of some equally petty/corny/manipulative shyt with me

Thats if she gleefully accepted the drink. Perhaps even worse is if she can’t handle some basic 101 level interaction and reject this dude…. when she knows her man is on the way

In a perfect world she can handle herself and have cordial convo til he gets there, pay for her own drink, and voila it’s over. The fact she couldn’t do that is off putting

EXACTLY

bro, we been talking about this kinda shyt in the travis hunter thread, the dominique foxworth one etc. some nikkas get it and some dont.
its no wonder why we got all these divorces and b*stard children running around. men have no respect for themselves and have no idea how to choose a lady

She violated. You don't buy a woman a drink unless you're trying to engage with her. If she accepted then she's entertaining other offers. that's a violation for a relationship no matter how new. Either she's your girlfriend or she's not.

thank you. and this is while shes about to meet her man at the bar...not even while shes alone or with her girls. big red flag

 

[Rekkapryde]

Find a female with some decorum and class.

the end

 

[King_Kamala61]

If she was there with her boyfriend or waiting for her boyfriend. Shes a party of two not a party of 1.

If somebody only buys drinks for one person in the party its a violation.

If dude had bought both of them drinks it could get a pass as him being friendly.

Why was she sitting at the bar? She posed to get a booth or table...fukk all that

 

[Jay Kast]

I'm surprised that no one has said it.

Let her get the drink.

The test is if she let's you TAKE the drink and drink the cocktail.

Then you know you have a down ass bitxh.

If she says, "This is my drink" - bush her.

If she says, "Where my drink" - bush her. (But you should get her a drink after downing that simp provided alcohol)

If she goes along with it.. dawg, that's ya bitxh

 

[The Pledge]

If your woman is decent looking men are always going to do this with your woman when you are NOT there. Women will not say no because they HATE paying for shyt.

This.

That shyt was light work.

Your woman will always get pressed if she’s decent. It’s just a fact. Let her get a free drink, less you gotta do.

 

[King_Kamala61]

I mean you can’t stop somebody from flirting with your girl when you not there. It’s corny if she entertain him. It’s playa if she makes dude buy your favorite drink and hand it to you in front of him. Then the dude who brought the drink gonna feel like the biggest trick in the world.

That's how you get shot..

Cause if a chick didn't tell me str8 up she waiting on someone and I buy her a drink and I see her give ol boy the drink in front of me Imma say something and get my drink back esp if it's a skinny negro

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Share potentially embarrassing stories on the group chat brehs. My homie has the chat split on this:

So he’s meeting his girl at a bar and she gets there before him. When he gets there the guy sitting next to her is talking to her and has bought her a drink

His girl ‘introduces’ them Let her tell it, she told the dude she was waiting on her bf and he still bought the drink. They proceed to go about their date. Although, I quote, ‘dude kept looking at me with envy out the corner of his eye’

We are on the verge of making him break up with her We’re partly trolling but some of us aren’t. What says the Coli. Should we cut him some slack? Was this an understandable scenario, or did she violate

Mad disrespect. Imagine, a woman being okay if she was meeting up with her man, he's already there, bought a drink for a woman, and chatting her up. Tell that fool to get out of that situation asap.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

I see Coli has a lot of cuckolds. I'm going back to work.

 

[Diondon]

She shouldn't have accepted it
Women have zero situational awareness. She don't know this nikka
nikkas gon take the shot . it is what it is
ole boy shouldn't trip yet...but keep an eye out