Do not always go out your way to change someone, they will resent you and blame you for their shortcomings when shyt don't go the way they planned.
Don't always say yes, the minute you say no said people will act like you NEVER did anything for them.
Let people experience things on their own, hand holding is for children and even then you're doing them a great disservice.
"A Zen master used to say, "It is clear and so it is hard to see. A dunce once searched for a fire with a lighted lantern. Had he known what fire was, he could have cooked his rice much sooner."
Most solutions to a lot of your problems are usually right under your nose, but most of us without fail, seldom realize this until it's long overdue.
Don't always say yes, the minute you say no said people will act like you NEVER did anything for them.
Let people experience things on their own, hand holding is for children and even then you're doing them a great disservice.
"A Zen master used to say, "It is clear and so it is hard to see. A dunce once searched for a fire with a lighted lantern. Had he known what fire was, he could have cooked his rice much sooner."
Most solutions to a lot of your problems are usually right under your nose, but most of us without fail, seldom realize this until it's long overdue.