100%It’s not a move that I would make either but it was a different time. Some of the most historically militant Black people on record were/are in interracial marriages. They literally had to fight people to do it. Now you gotta fight to avoid it lol.
I don’t think we started having the ‘future cacs’ conversation until we saw how white washed their families became over time. And Black folks weren’t bemoaning the lack of men in the community back then either because it was pre-prison industrial complex and crack era. There was no shortage of Black marriages then. A lot of how we feel about this topic comes from the current state of the community.
We are in dire straits
We‘re not getting married like we should..
People can talk that co-parenting shyt all they want and that‘s fine but the black man needs to be in the home with his wife and raising his children. He has to be there in my opinion. it’s critical
That’s literally the foundation of any nation