Well this is her actual quote
Men who are into trans women who want to keep us a secret and are afraid if someone thinks they are gay, they’re insecure as fukk. If someone thinks you’re gay, gay is fabulous. Gay is amazing. There’s nothing wrong with that. Toxic masculinity is bullshyt,’ Cox said.
Key word being "into"
She wasn't talking about the majority of men who aren't into trans. The least you could do is to be fair and provide the right quote and it's context.
The way the majority of insult her sincerely makes me believe you may be into them secretly. If you didn't care, you would address it much.