Ladies, what is your overall opinion of men, based on the one's you've dated/boned/friend-zoned, etc

[Arishok]

. Can yall really blame me doe, chocolate is so delicious and addictive, after having just one I gotta go and taste all the other different types out there. I can't help it, its in my nature,its who I am; Kool-aid is meant to be shared.

I'll share you then but you know who to come home to

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

How is one sure you ladies are chicks and not pricks with dikks?

 

[KOOL-AID]

I'll share you then but you know who to come home to

Thanks baby don't worry I'll always be there to

 

[Deadpool1986]

. Can yall really blame me doe, chocolate is so delicious and addictive, after having just one I gotta go and taste all the other different types out there. I can't help it, its in my nature,its who I am; Kool-aid is meant to be shared.

This KOOL-AID guy is funny as hell!!

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

To touch on something @TheStripper posted earlier....

If men fall harder in love and are more likely to stay the course, while women tend to be fleeting in their love, does that tie in to men being less open in their feelings with women? Since one wrong comment or awkward situation from men could lead to women deading any relationship on the spot (at least, mentally)??

Often, it seems (I stress seems because I'm just asking, not stating for fact) that some women can be very uneven in what they demand of men. Many women want the honesty and sensitivity and nice-ness from a man, but can also be quick to walk over him or judging him as weak or clingy when they get it.

I think ya'll are taking my statement and running with it. IMO Men generally fall harder b/c of emotional repression. Not b/c they're naturally more loyal or loving. When a man falls in love his mate is usually his only emotional outlet. The rest of the outside world sees his emotions as weak so his mate becomes his emotional crutch. On the flip side, women can readily express their emotions making it generally easier for her to move on from a previously loving relationship. This is also why women are generally more willing to get involved with romantic relationships.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

yo. What qualities do most women look for that MOST men lack.
Everytime I ask a bytch tey always say "a nikka who aint soft, or wont let me run over them" but that just seem too cliche to me at dis point

I think MOST men (and women) lack confidence. I think a lot of people (women and men) confuse that with being a "bad boy." You can still be a nice guy who is confident. Most people confuse confidence with arrogance.

Confidence is knowing what you want and how you want to be treated and sticking to it. "Nice guys" lose b/c the have no follow through. When you compromise what you want women automatically lose respect for you and vice versa. You don't have to be mean or an ass about it.

For example, one of my good friends is a bit...ruff around of the edges. He has a good heart but he doesn't have a lot of patience and quick to pop off on people. We don't have that problem because I nipped it in the bud from jump. The first time he tried me he invited me to this club. When I got there he started acting funny like he didn't invite me. So I left the drink he bought me on the table, stood up and walked out. No yelling, no screaming, no confrontation what so ever. He calls me about 10 minutes asking what happened. I told him that we had a miss understanding and that I did not like the way I was being treated. He was dumbfounded and apologized profusely. 2 years later we are the best of friends and he hasn't even come close to doing that again. He even talks to me in softer voice than he does everyone else. Had I sat there and allowed him to be an ass I would have continued to be treated poorly.

Confidence has nothing to do with demeanor. Again, it is knowing what you want and how you want to be treated and having the follow through to leave a situation/relationship/whatever that does not meet your standard.

 

[mtu wa chuma]

For a stripper you're quite intelligent.

Are you stripping for college?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

For a stripper you're quite intelligent.

Are you stripping for college?

I already have a degree and a few professional licenses. I run a home based business and dance. I use a lot of my free time to contemplate life.

 

[Marco Zen]

@TheStripper ... Is there any power in the word "no"? ...coming from a man

 

[Trillion]

I think ya'll are taking my statement and running with it. IMO Men generally fall harder b/c of emotional repression. Not b/c they're naturally more loyal or loving. When a man falls in love his mate is usually his only emotional outlet. The rest of the outside world sees his emotions as weak so his mate becomes his emotional crutch. On the flip side, women can readily express their emotions making it generally easier for her to move on from a previously loving relationship. This is also why women are generally more willing to get involved with romantic relationships.

you're so right

 

[SmarkMero]

I think ya'll are taking my statement and running with it. IMO Men generally fall harder b/c of emotional repression. Not b/c they're naturally more loyal or loving. When a man falls in love his mate is usually his only emotional outlet. The rest of the outside world sees his emotions as weak so his mate becomes his emotional crutch. On the flip side, women can readily express their emotions making it generally easier for her to move on from a previously loving relationship. This is also why women are generally more willing to get involved with romantic relationships.

That's almost parallel to a Strip Club environment. It's almost like part of your destiny was to dance. But you're not just dancing......You're seeing beyond the dance / money and through our eyes. You're good!

 

[Remote]

I think ya'll are taking my statement and running with it. IMO Men generally fall harder b/c of emotional repression. Not b/c they're naturally more loyal or loving. When a man falls in love his mate is usually his only emotional outlet. The rest of the outside world sees his emotions as weak so his mate becomes his emotional crutch. On the flip side, women can readily express their emotions making it generally easier for her to move on from a previously loving relationship. This is also why women are generally more willing to get involved with romantic relationships.

This sounds like a really fine line.
To say that women are more fleeting in love, and also more willing to get involved in romantic relationships...but also to say that it doesn't mean women are less loyal seems a bit hypocritical.
I don't think the suggested connection was "running with it" as you stated earlier. It may be false. Sure. But I think the connection was a fairly logical.

 

[Flay Mayweather]

I guess I'm different from the rest then

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This sounds like a really fine line.
To say that women are more fleeting in love, and also more willing to get involved in romantic relationships...but also to say that it doesn't mean women are less loyal seems a bit hypocritical.
I don't think the suggested connection was "running with it" as you stated earlier. It may be false. Sure. But I think the connection was a fairly logical.

You're making up an arguement for knowingly typing false information. If you think you are wrong then admit it. You can't blame me for your opinion.

 

[Remote]

You're making up an arguement for knowingly typing false information. If you think you are wrong then admit it. You can't blame me for your opinion.

What argument am I making?

I'm postulating based on your words.

You said that the loyalty of men stems from having 1 emotional outlet.
You said that women tend to be fleeting in their love.
You said that women tend to engage in relationships more easily.

Couple that with statistics that say women initiate divorce (that is, break off a relationship) at a 70% clip, is it really a stretch to say that women APPEAR to be less loyal than men? -- regardless of what drives the attachment of men?

I'm asking questions here. I'm not arguing anything.
I'm asking you for YOUR opinion.