Ladies, how yall feel about plus size men?

[N711oir]

 

[Smoke]

I set myself up for this disappointment

 

[N711oir]

It's like putting a hot chick with a nice rack in a Porsche but all she wants is a pinto such a waste man.

But that is some women's philosophy its job or relationship security they some want the least desirable man that way they know he isn't going anywhere or they will try to make a good man undesirable with same desired results.

Usually the women that desire this have been hurt pretty bad and do not wish to repeat those emotions.

But @Jisselle I'm here for you

 

[Milk N Cookies]

Nah my son came out of my tranny womb.

You got a kid??? Lol, idk why I'm suprised its members with kids here. I just assume every member is black and single without kids.

 

[QueenSheba]

It's not my "taste" to go with a "plus size" man but if he was a great guy, then why the heck not? I prefer my men to be a little on the teddy bear side, a chubby guy with toned arms and dark chocolate.

Like him?

And you have a kid? Congratulations. ;)

 

[Stir Fry]

not attracted to them. i dont even like average or built muscular men either, unless its dez bryant or warren. skinny or very slim only.

what do you consider big? im not slim, im a size 12/14

 

[thirdeye]

my ex was plus sized, i love it. i love kneading the tummy like a cat lmaooooooo

 

[N711oir]

I feel these types of relationships are toxic. You brehettes have to realize that trusting again is apart of the healing process, finding a fat bf is not you'll just be getting an obese roommate.

The whole premise and foundation of the relationship is based upon each other's faults. He will play on your insecurities to hold you captive he will not want to grow as a person or look better for fear of you leaving and vice versa for you. You will not move him to get in shape or succeed for fear of him cheating or leaving

 

[Rawtid]

No thanks. I think fat guys are just as insecure about their looks as fat women. I'm the one that needs the pep talks about my body. I'm not trying to give him one. Plus a fat couple isn't attractive, imo. It just doesn't look good, especially if they are slovenly. I don't even eat in public with other fat people.

 

[Rue]

I'm a fit person, i can't be with/ or have interest in somebody with opposite values than mine ie. content with being plussize

 

[Shadow King]

Nah, never. They weren't my thing. And if I ever did, it'd be mad weird because I'm so small.

You're small?

 

[Shadow King]

I like a man with a stocky build. I don't mind a bigger man.... I can't have a really big man... we can't be out here looking like double zero.

You a big girl?

 

[Paradise]

You a big girl?

Depends on what you call big...LOL. I don't think I'm all that big.

 

[Shadow King]

Depends on what you call big...LOL. I don't think I'm all that big.

Probably just a little baby fat and a donkey to go with it

 

[Paradise]

Probably just a little baby fat and a donkey to go with it

you tell me...

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