Ladies, How Would You Describe A Man That Got His shyt Together?

[HarlemsOwn]

At this point in my life
- some sort of financial security and mobility as well as an understanding of saving/investing (gotta have career/financial prospects/goals/achievements/aspirations)
- solid understanding of who they are, they aren't still trying to figure out the basics, we're all always learning things about ourselves, but at a certain point you have to understand and be happy withwho you are at your core
- sense of social, civil, communal, or political responsibility (volunteers time or money to support causes he believes in, shows concern for others, knowledge of US and/or world issues)
- man of his word, and gentleman, and respectful of commitments i.e. respects the woman he's with, not still trying to be a player when he's supposed to be in a relationship, honest, treats his woman like a lady
- no drama - no DUI's, arrests, drug issues, baby mama drama (prefer no kids but of he has a kid, there can be no drama with the mom or a messy BM who's trying to sabotage the new relationship)
- college degree (yes, this is a requirement for me...unless he's diddy lol)
- has an idea what he wants from life and is working toward it (could be better health, marriage, home ownership, starting a business, seeing 100 countries, etc)

this is what you DREAM of

in actuality

you fukkin any nikka that gives you attention

#FactsOnly

 

[Randy Sandchild]

Girls under 25 should be content with a guy that has a car/job. 25-30yr old broads should be content with the dude having car/job/apt or crib. Those 3 should be it. Nice clothes, mad stacks, and all that shouldn't go into you deciding if hes the guy for you.

And once ladies find this guy and live 4-6 months with him and finally do have a provider and security, their gonna get bored and yearn for another type of dude. Bishes man. Never satisfied. Cole world, no blanket outchea

 

[-G$-]

@malcolmxxx_45 is the quintessential "got his shyt together" male role model

good hair
plays ball
tall
canadian
no kids

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

@malcolmxxx_45 is the quintessential "got his shyt together" male role model

good hair
plays ball
tall
canadian
no kids

My friend I know the average coli weed head devalued the Art of acquiring these prestigious certs from Arizona university


Can they be included in that list. ?

 

[beenz]

They'd describe him as gay after he turns them down for not having their shyt together

 

[-G$-]

My friend I know the average coli weed head devalued the Art of acquiring these prestigious certs from Arizona university


Can they be included in that list. ?

they O.E.N.O bout them certs

 

[Blackking]

women don't really know... sooooooooo MANY bish have tried to 'husband' me up and I aint shyt. Proper chicks w advanced degrees, chicks w more money than me, hoodrats looking to be saved - it doesn't matter.


I really don't understand how more of us men don't know that we have the advantage. Especially black men. side note: the high level, good careers, sexy chicks are the easiest... by nature they seek stability and they don't get approached too often by viable options- because of how they come off. I recommend targeting those women and hoodrats.

 

[Daenerys Targaryen]

have a professional degree md/jd/MBA or are working on it. Marriage/family oriented. Cannot have issues with women. Meaning no mommy issues, daddy issues, he man women haters, or have a long list of women he's previously slept with that I know about. Should have a spiritual life, preferably Christian. No atheists or agnostics, I want to raise my children Christian. Good leadership potential, ambitious with demonstrated progress toward his goals. No children, in good shape, kindness, respect for himself and others, and honesty. Good social skills, should have his own friends, life, interests, etc.

But yeah, that's what I'm looking for.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

have a professional degree md/jd/MBA or are working on it. Marriage/family oriented. Cannot have issues with women. Meaning no mommy issues, daddy issues, he man women haters, or have a long list of women he's previously slept with that I know about. Should have a spiritual life, preferably Christian. No atheists or agnostics, I want to raise my children Christian. Good leadership potential, ambitious with demonstrated progress toward his goals. No children, in good shape, kindness, respect for himself and others, and honesty. Good social skills, should have his own friends, life, interests, etc.


But yeah, that's what I'm looking for.

Be a pastor berhs

 

[BellaVenus]

A man that has a serious & stable career or is working on it but in the mean time has a stable job, he's also not a member of this forum or any forum, isn't dependent on his mommy or daddy, & has a car, & treats women like he would treat his mother (& if he doesn't care about his mother then treat women like he would treat something he cares about.. even if it's just himself).

Oh & he's not a psycho path serial killer.

That's all.

 

[Street Knowledge]

This idea that you have to have "your shyt together" to be successful with women is a joke

You got Bum dudes who stay winning. Why? Because they understand male/female dynamics and how to attract women. Their lack of degrees or money is irrelevant

 

[Amy Traphouse]

Felonies are a liability
Bad credit is a huge liability
Still trying to figure out life is a liability

 

[HarlemsOwn]

Felonies are a liability
Bad credit is a huge liability
Still trying to figure out life is a liability

i seen ya pic

you would fukk with a nikka if he winked at you

 

[HarlemsOwn]

This idea that you have to have "your shyt together" to be successful with women is a joke

You got Bum dudes who stay winning. Why? Because they understand male/female dynamics and how to attract women. Their lack of degrees or money is irrelevant

my nikka

dont listen to these women

thats all talk. half the shyt they demand they dont have themselves

and 8/10 they create the blueprint only because the topic is raised

these hoes just care about a mans social status

whether its illegal or its legit

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

A man that has a serious & stable career or is working on it but in the mean time has a stable job, he's also not a member of this forum or any forum, isn't dependent on his mommy or daddy, & has a car, & treats women like he would treat his mother (& if he doesn't care about his mother then treat women like he would treat something he cares about.. even if it's just himself).

Oh & he's not a psycho path serial killer.

That's all.

Just be average berhs