Ladies, How Would You Describe A Man That Got His shyt Together?

[Dusty Bake Activate]

Should have a spiritual life, preferably Christian. No atheists or agnostics, I want to raise my children Christian

Knew it was coming eventually lol.

 

[HarlemsOwn]

No he pushed me across it by the way he's being brainwashed by this forum. He needs a reality check, & so do the rest of you that generalize women yet discredit your mother.

He even calls his little sister a whore... Clearly HE crossed the line.

its one thing to clown a nikka old hoes or his baby mother

but talking bout mom dukes and sisters aint cool

truth is that women do shyt based off emotions

i know damn well you be out here flirtin with nikkas

 

[Spoonz]

I have the secret of what all women want...so I don't have to ask.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I have the secret of what all women want...so I don't have to ask.

And that is?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Felonies are a liability
Bad credit is a huge liability
Still trying to figure out life is a liability

What about battery charge?

 

[BellaVenus]

its one thing to clown a nikka old hoes or his baby mother

but talking bout mom dukes and sisters aint cool

truth is that women do shyt based off emotions

i know damn well you be out here flirtin with nikkas

Actually no, I don't. It disgusts me when a man even tries talking to me & I've gotten thrown out of bars for trying to fight guys that won't BACK OFF.
I never leave without my ring because when nikkas approach I just point to it & MOST of them just walk away but some are so ignorant that they keep trying & that is when I get crazy.

I am the definition of loyal yet Rob continues to generalize me because of what his ex did to him. & being on this forum doesn't help the situation.

When nikkas get their feelings hurt I swear they get more hurt then females because they never let that shyt go. I've been in 2 other long term relationships & I was good after 2 weeks. Yet with him it's been years & he's still acting up because of his whore ex gf.

Get your feelings hurt brehs

 

[HarlemsOwn]

Lol @ asking a question and then a bunch of niccas who probably aint on shyt responding with hurt ass responses. SMH

you know what else is funny

all the women that be throwing out demands be single

and then they be hating on they friends with bfs....saying shyt like

"look how he treats you. i would never be with a man like that"

women funny tho

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

6'5
Works in IT (has all his certs)
Makes 6 figures
Drives luxury vehicle
Owns a loft downtown
Works out
No kids

 

[Spoonz]

And that is?

They want a guy like the guy that I am who acts like me.

 

[Majestic Pape]

-comes from a family with both parents still together
-has a job and can hold it
-good manners and respectful
-is financially savvy(you might make lots of money but how much are you saving?)
-is ambitous
many women say educated but there are many succesful men without higher learning.

I can rock with everything you said, but this is out of people's control.

 

[Daenerys Targaryen]

Knew it was coming eventually lol.

Lol that's just my preference. Most black guys identify as Christian though so it hasn't been a problem.

 

[SiickCurllyGurl]

I don't even have shyt to get together so list is...
-ambitious/ strives to improve himself for the future even if it's not college, just being ambitious is a huge turn on
-caring for mother and if any siblings
-Likes to go out and do shyt instead of stay in the house all day.
-has adequate means of transportation.. i'd say car but some people take buses/trains/cabs with no problems
-doesn't gossip like a bytch
- has common sense..

I don't know really i'm just saying stuff

 

[AZBeauty]

you know what else is funny

all the women that be throwing out demands be single

and then they be hating on they friends with bfs....saying shyt like

"look how he treats you. i would never be with a man like that"

women funny tho

You know what, one of my friends has all her stuff together. She has a great job, no kids, her own place, she is physically fit and just a natural beauty. Guess what? She is single. She dates her ass off and wont settle. Its okay to demand what you want. Why wouldnt you? You can have all the expectations and requirements in the world. Will you find someone for you? Maybe or maybe you have to lax certain requirements that you have and are not high on the priority list. Either way, its never wrong to have expectations of what you want your relationship and the person you are in that relationship to have.

 

[HarlemsOwn]

You know what, one of my friends has all her stuff together. She has a great job, no kids, her own place, she is physically fit and just a natural beauty. Guess what? She is single. She dates her ass off and wont settle. Its okay to demand what you want. Why wouldnt you? You can have all the expectations and requirements in the world. Will you find someone for you? Maybe or maybe you have to lax certain requirements that you have and are not high on the priority list. Either way, its never wrong to have expectations of what you want your relationship and the person you are in that relationship to have.

you right

im just speaking from experience tho. i get a chuckle out of the women that told me they dont want someone with my lifestyle

then they get into the whole "list" and i then i realize why they single

them expectations is what cause women to be on POF and Tagged and them dating sites when they 34

material items and your social status shouldnt always be the filter

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

Lol that's just my preference. Most black guys identify as Christian though so it hasn't been a problem.

And many black guys also claim they're Christian when they don't really believe in it because they know it's a disqualifier for a lot of y'all.