Ladies how have you self improved?

[Neuromancer]

So I'm very curious (no hate) how women self improve to attract mates. As a man I work out, I try to learn more and accrue more money. I focus on my hobbies and working on publishing my comics and prose. Is it basically the same for you all? I hate to sound like a novice but I haven't met many women who are into self improvement.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

no, i went back to college n picked up a trade got on my meds n was an overall nicer person i aint catch no charge for almost 12 yrs except a lil mishap 5 yrs ago i stopped cussing random ppl out n where tf did it get me????

 

[CN793]

Building confidence. Attracts people that are on a similar wave length. I did it for me though, not to attract men. I guess the attraction was an added bonus if it was mutual.

 

[Neuromancer]

no, i went back to college n picked up a trade got on my meds n was an overall nicer person i aint catch no charge for almost 12 yrs except a lil mishap 5 yrs ago i stopped cussing random ppl out n where tf did it get me????

On the coli , loved and respected.

 

[Neuromancer]

Building confidence. Attracts people that are on a similar wave length. I did it for me though, not to attract men. I guess the attraction was an added bonus if it was mutual.

How did you build confidence? Also you're a female? Sorry I assume every one is male.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

On the coli , loved and respected.

 

[Neuromancer]

 

[CN793]

How did you build confidence? Also you're a female? Sorry I assume every one is male.

Yeah, female here. I built confidence by disregarding societal norms, being myself, unapologetically, without a care for how others perceived me. Made some drastic changes the last 3 months of 2015.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

i worked on me to attract a different type of man than the men i had been prone to attracting, i figured if i wanted something different i was gone hafta do something different n still ended up attracting trash in the end

 

[sanityovar8ted]

lol

 

[agnosticlady]

I build confidence in knowing that I can do almost anything that I put my mind to. I am also blessed enough to say that if I find myself in a slump it is mostly because I put myself there. Instead of focusing on what I don't have...I am grateful for what I do have. I am trying to become a vegetarian but I don't know if I can do it I love meat too much

 

[sanityovar8ted]

and i stopped doing drugs n dats a major one cuz i like drugs

 

[Neuromancer]

I build confidence in knowing that I can do almost anything that I put my mind to. I am also blessed enough to say that if I find myself in a slump it is mostly because I put myself there. Instead of focusing on what I don't have...I am grateful for what I do have. I am trying to become a vegetarian but I don't know if I can do it I love meat too much

What kinda meat

 

[agnosticlady]

What kinda meat

I think it has to do with the fact that I grew up on meat like chicken, goat meat, and seafood. Currently a pescatarian that wants to switch over to vegetarian but idk.....

 

[Neuromancer]

I think it has to do with the fact that I grew up on meat like chicken, goat meat, and seafood. Currently a pescatarian that wants to switch over to vegetarian but idk.....

Was vegan for 5 years.. grew up on meat it's doable.