Ladies do you help pay the bill?

[Rocket Scientist]

women don't ask men out doe. if she ain't pay her half she washin dishes and walkin home

 

[user1]

No.

 

[user1]

women don't ask men out doe. if she ain't pay her half she washin dishes and walkin home

I always figured if men are doing the asking they should be more selective in who they ask on a date. That would be common sense to me. I feel the ones complaining are either spending beyond their means or asking any and every woman who may show interest out.

 

[user1]

Exactly. You wouldn't even have the expense if they didn't ask you. It's like having a dinner party then asking your guests to bring all the food and drinks. Tacky.

This. If you need people to bring food to your party, you shouldn't have one. lol

 

[babylon1]

I always figured if men are doing the asking they should be more selective in who they ask on a date. That would be common sense to me. I feel the ones complaining are either spending beyond their means or asking any and every woman who may show interest out.

"if"? it's not up for debate. women don't ask men out. so by the female logic demonstrated in this thread, men should pay for 100 percent of all dates

 

[user1]

"if"? it's not up for debate. women don't ask men out. so by the female logic demonstrated in this thread, men should pay for 100 percent of all dates

"if" is conditional not concrete. Sheit I've asked plenty of men out. Won some and lost some. On one date in particular I was going to pay and he paid before I could . I was appreciative because I didn't expect it. Just because the women you date don't ask you out don't assume all don't breh.

 

[babylon1]

"if" is conditional not concrete. Sheit I've asked plenty of men out. Won some and lost some. On one date in particular I was going to pay and he paid before I could . I was appreciative because I didn't expect it. Just because the women you date don't ask you out don't assume all don't breh.

stop lying. we know women don't have the fortitude to ask men out or take risks when it comes to approaching men. i'm one hunnid. you a zero

 

[bcrusaderw]

I would, hypothetically

I would pay for your whole meal, bae. You need to wear a low-cut top though.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

There are actually women out here that just want free meals and will date a guy numerous times just for a free meal.It's good to be a gentlemen but if you went out to dinner with a woman after numerous times and she never offered to pay,then you being used.Once again common sense isn't common

 

[Rayzah]

*Disclaimer * Im not gonna ask you out if I don't expect to pay*Disclamer*
But there is nothing wrong with offering to leave the tip, it’s a good gesture, I know I am “courting you” but it doesn’t mean you should just sit back and not add anything.
And 97.26% of the time achick is not going to ask the guy out on a first date, if the guy doesn’t ask most women will think the guy isn’t interested. Or if the guy says just come over, most women are gonna decline because its still the first few dates and don’t want that negative perception.. So that means in order to get to know a woman, I have to spend money, and that’s not fair…

 

[babylon1]

*Disclaimer * Im not gonna ask you out if I don't expect to pay*Disclamer*
But there is nothing wrong with offering to leave the tip, it’s a good gesture, I know I am “courting you” but it doesn’t mean you should just sit back and not add anything.
And 97.26% of the time achick is not going to ask the guy out on a first date, if the guy doesn’t ask most women will think the guy isn’t interested. Or if the guy says just come over, most women are gonna decline because its still the first few dates and don’t want that negative perception.. So that means in order to get to know a woman, I have to spend money, and that’s not fair…

it is not fair. it is prostitution

 

[Rocket Scientist]

on 1st date gotta be creative,dont got to spend a lot of $,shoot go to brunch,get some ice cream etc

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Uppin

 

[Ronnie Macho]

Your rule of thumb is bullshyt to me and many others because how often are women the ones asking to go on the date? That's not the norm so why hide behind some bullshyt reasoning when we all know girls don't really do the asking out and or really want to pay either?

 

[Queen]

Lol. Women are asking men out and then paying for it??