Kevin Samuels Really had Something

[AAKing23]

A 50 year old single woman who admits to using dating apps, hyping a clip of a man saying truly feminine women don’t use dating apps. I feel like that’s a perfect demonstration of why all this shyt is brain poison.

It’s nonstop projection, gas lighting, and fantasy building that seems a lot like religion. Want to be a high value man? Listen to everything I say and do what I say or else. Want to be a feminine woman? Do what I say and don’t question anything or else. Oh and btw go to the link below to purchase this bullshyt product I’m peddling too. ALL of these people are losers, grifters, and frauds. Including Samuels.

You're 1000 percent right bro

 

[V Skyye]

And I never advise women to approach men too strongly. Flirt a little, leave an opening, and let them do the rest. The main reason is that most of the men that women feel are worth approaching are men who are usually in high demand. They may give some play and put you on their roster, but it’s really too much work in the end. Women that carry themselves well will always be approached by men. This is the way. The only exception is if you’ve done some background research and have a general idea of their lifestyle.

 

[ExodusNirvana]

Low income women do exist. Y’all do know that there’s women working at Dollar Tree as well right? A lot of low income people are together. They may not be married, but they are often together, living together, and having kids. Black women are more likely to date down but they don’t date down that much. People usually date within their own social class.

When women try to get men to change it’s usually men with some type of potential that may or may not ever reach it. Or may not reach it in the time or manner the woman wants. And that’s where the dilemma of “building with someone” starts.

Eh I don't want to make it all about income because it's deeper than that

Just cause a dude/woman works at Dollar Tree does'nt mean they can't get any play but what is the end game?

Are you working at Dollar Tree while working on your degree in a field that is in demand? Do you have a legal side business going on that you can ride to greater success and wealth/stability? Is this potential mate working on certs or some kind of trade that will yield them a higher paying job and perhaps grant you both the ability to live better lives with better outcomes?

I feel like a lot of people saw clips of this man saying don't fukk ain't shyt nikkas and fat chicks and just turned it off right there without realizing

a. He was saying common sense shyt that a lot of people parents should have or probably did already break down to people.
b. shyt that cut deep to a lot of people because it applied to them.

 

[Gloxina]

When it comes to weight/looks and purely physical my father always said “If you want to know what a woman will look like in 30 years just look at her mother” and god DAMN if he wasn’t spot on with that but if advice.


Whenever i’m on a first date I ALWAYS make it my mission to find out 3 things

1). Whats her relationship with her father?
2). What are her views on raising children?
3). What does her mother look like?

Its actually easy too. I’ve noticed that good or bad, women LOVE talking about their childhoods and showing pictures and all that.

Yea…he’s right lol

 

[Gloxina]

Women have forgotten who men are. So we think, I expect a man to approach, men should approach. But all men are not the same. If a man is putting in 10-12 hr days, there is no time to chase bytches. Chase bytches time is put toward career development (whether that's actually at work or networking). A man who works 8 hrs/ a day literally has an extra 10-20 hr/ wk to chase bytches.


From our brief acquaintance, he seemed very stereotypical, very self involved.

edit: @Ziggiy

Spoiler: I didn't finish my thought :skip:

The wedding was essentially his family's affair. There were like 300 ppl, and this was back in the day when ppl didn't normally do all that. The only family she invited was her immediate family and me and my mom, even though I barely knew her and, after some yrs, it's apparent that she dont even like us. But we were the best representatives for the image she wanted to convey. It was a very weird vibe. Me and my mother kept looking at each other like


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Bc we already knew this class of negroes and their husbands were always pushing up on my mother, the women were catty, and the kids were clique-ish. We recognized the terrain and moved accordingly, but she didn't realize what she was getting into. I was like 13, spotting red flags every which way. That's why I said, that was the day I realized I couldn't do it. Those ppl were a$$holes. I'd rather marry into a family of junkies; petty theft is less stressful on a day to day basis.

(I was so on point cuz my mother made me watch Imitation of Life mad times on- it was on Turner Classic Movies - and really get it, wasn't gon be no marrying so far up that my family was deemed unacceptable. fukk that and fukk them. )

Naw, you’re right. Which is why I had to admit that chick is a horrible wife and mother but knew enough to hook my relative, and her son got hooked by a chick who played the same game and she’s livid. You’re absolutely right lol



And LOL Yes I know what type of families you’re talking about. I wouldn’t bother marrying into that if it was really that bad. She was basically used to make some cute kids.

 

[HarlemHottie]

And I never advise women to approach men too strongly. Flirt a little, leave an opening, and let them do the rest. The main reason is that most of the men that women feel are worth approaching are men who are usually in high demand. They may give some play and put you on their roster, but it’s really too much work in the end. Women that carry themselves well will always be approached by men. This is the way. The only exception is if you’ve done some background research and have a general idea of their lifestyle.

That's the only way I ever did it. You tend to operate in venn diagram kinda circles, like 2-3 degrees of separation at most.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Naw, you’re right. Which is why I had to admit that chick is a horrible wife and mother but knew enough to hook my relative, and her son got hooked by a chick who played the same game and she’s livid. You’re absolutely right lol



And LOL Yes I know what type of families you’re talking about. I wouldn’t bother marrying into that if it was really that bad. She was basically used to make some cute kids.

Eh. She's an avaricious social climber who ultimately failed, I don't respect that. If you gon do it, do it right. Further, the tea is outrageous. We only put it together cuz we know ppl she don't know we know, but this is post divorce... afaik. And, as I said, she don't like us, mainly bc we don't put on airs. (Like yall, we're the weird tribe among the wider clan.)

The Boule can keep her. I'm sure there's a Mason somewhere who need a sidepiece.