Kiyoshi-Dono
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I agreed with everything but this, but only bc by "dual incomes," I'm assuming she works for some outside entity.
1. Working women tend to just break even. Between childcare, clothing costs (and dry cleaning), the 'right' bags, shoes, vacations... it gets crazy. We did the math once. With me staying at home, we spend a negligible amount on my clothes and accessories and im able to save a grip on other costs.
2. Black man, i really need yall to think on this. Our women tend to choose fields where they're not really adding value (unlike other minorities with their female scientists and such). So theyre literally working at thr pleasure of their usu white boss or company owner. Being trained to acquiesce to them. Utilizing their talents for them.
Just know what you're choosing.
My ex wife is a Cost Analyst for Bank of America
Pulls in about $96,000 a year
My current pulls in as a Head Pediatric Nurse about $94,000
I pull in $85,000 strictly from the Post Office(excluding investments, side computer consulting for the inept or impatient, bitcoin, etc)
So I’ll give you the certain fields break even due to degrees with women
But even still
Combining incomes like voltron works
I’m looking at it from the average male salary
I’m lucky to be in the position I’m in
I had men showing me the ropes that weren’t my father
But a lot of brehs don’t get that guidance
So I’m looking at it from the perspective of the everyday man
Who gets up to do back breaking work
That pulls in a decent low $55k-$65k (being modest)
Or
Just started on their 6 cert journey
Women want a completed package as soon as you meet them
Not realizing any amount of joint income puts you ahead more than most
I’m glad you and your husband figured that out(no sarcasm or a$$hole)
You are fortunate just like me
But you have to at least try to see it from layman’s POV
That’s why Kev uses that “Mexican man at Home Depot” example
Those dudes be dirt ass poor with 5011 kids
Living in a relatives house with 30 other muthafukkas
Wife may work at a taqueria
Both slowly stacking bread together
Next year they get an apartment
Year after they get their first house/truck
Year after they get a better house/better truck
Year after they both got business ventures they own together
On and on
Asians do the same thing
Muthafukkas don’t want to work together but scream community
This is what some black women fail to see
They don’t look at how their counterparts are out pacing them in everything/every category
How these muthafukkas come here(sure we can talk about special grants, etc
But let’s just strip it down to the bare bones) and stay working us over
By you guessed it
Working as a team
Some of these females want a KD Warriors team
Without the years of struggle Warriors team
They want that instant championship
Not realizing every other team is working together
To stop you
Throwing every little thing at you
From terrible media spins, talking heads with inane/ludicrous arguments
To kill team morale
Making up fake quotes to assassinate your teams character
Offering bigger bags to lure your teammates to the other side
Divide you with comments of he say/she say
Whisper in your teammates ear
You are better than all of them, nobody can see you mayne
Until the point that one teammate starts saying
Yeah, I am better
I never needed these nikkas they needed me
And bam this what we have right now
But if you had stayed and communicated effectively with your teammates
Stood tall on your square
Ain’t nobody beating you and the whole league knows it
Now take what I said and apply to the black community
This is exactly the state we are in
And it’s ain’t getting fixed no time soon
Because everybody wants to be the star alone
But every other team got more wins than you
And beating your ass on any given night