Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[HarlemHottie]

the thing is a majority of guys that young who handle business most likely are not settling down and they are rare.

Which is why i said what i said. Those girls are not gonna get their desired result. The engagement queens Kevin talks about usually had a 'henry' in college, but dumped him seeking better pastures.

But how do you feel about younger women dating older men like KS preaches? What do you think the age gap should be n shyt?

I have no formal rules. Whatever the market can bear. But by about 26, you lose order of priority for your own age group. If you wanted to be picky, the early bird already got the worm, held him down thru some lean yrs, and popped out a kid.

 

[Apollo Creed]

exactly
plus how many dudes at that age are trying to marry someone who 19. You can't even legally drink with her yet.

a young nikka that's really on his grizzly at that age is more than likely messing with chicks thats 22-25 years old.

who cares about drinking lol.

young men should he focus on building themselves. Dating is fine but they shouldnt entertain long term relationships until they are established. The urgency should he on women to seek long term companionship from an established man.

these womens aint gonna build a damn thing with you lol because if that was the case we would see folks getting married at 18 and you wouldnt see you g women complaining about 19-22 yr olds being broke when they are supposed to be broke at that age.

 

[KillerB88]

LOL at the girl whose baby daddy who was 33 with two teenage children and he had a t-shirt company that I'd venture to say isn't that successful if they living the way they are

It wasn’t. She admitted she was actually more so taking care of him. Tragic. She was decent looking too.

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

who cares about drinking lol.

young men should he focus on building themselves. Dating is fine but they shouldnt entertain long term relationships until they are established. The urgency should he on women to seek long term companionship from an established man.

these womens aint gonna build a damn thing with you lol because if that was the case we would see folks getting married at 18 and you wouldnt see you g women complaining about 19-22 yr olds being broke when they are supposed to be broke at that age.

nikkas with a social life care about shyt like that. You can grind and go out occasionally too. You can have balance in life.

But the bigger point is......Most of the chicks at her age ain't trying to build shyt, that's why we saying dude off for even trying to marry a 19 year old in the first place. He shouldn't even be thinking about marriage right now, let alone with some college kid at 19. Especially if he not in college himself. That nikka needs just as much guidance as her, if not more.

 

[Apollo Creed]

nikkas with a social life care about shyt like that. You can grind and go out occasionally too. You can have balance in life.

But the bigger point is......Most of the chicks at her age ain't trying to build shyt, that's why we saying dude off for even trying to marry a 19 year old in the first place. He shouldn't even be thinking about marriage right now, let alone with some college kid at 19. Especially if he not in college himself. That nikka needs just as much guidance as her, if not more.

if drinking = social life its not a surprise dudes are in the situations they are in.

 

[mamba]

Exactly. Women be like “we been together for 8 yrs but he wont marry me, he dont love me”

nah yall together because he loves you, yall not married because he doesnt think you are wife material.

this is something they will never understand so its not even really worth talking to them about it

True. If a man is with a woman for that length of time, he truly cares and loves her. Because there is an opportunity cost in terms of his time.

But, she is usually lacking something fundamental that checks off a box in his mind that makes her a wife to him.

There are things that we cannot even articulate as men that make a woman a wife to us. But, when we feel it from a woman, we take her off the market for good.

 

[Music Fiend]

Kevin Samuels shyts on brehs all the time if they ain't working towards being what he considers a 'HVM'. Now everyone can't be a 'HVM'. That is just the hard truth.

Sorry breh. It's true. He's flip flops which is one of the weaknesses of his show.

He'll talk about blue collar this, and how an average man can give an amazing life. 5 calls later he'll be shaking his head at a nikka average money.

I just assume from his if you aren't making 50k by 30, 40k by 25 or something, then you should be working 60 hrs a week minimum.

KS has good rhetoric, but I'd like to see him address some more complex topics. I'd also like to see more on how to build with a regular breh w/ calls.

nikkas with a social life care about shyt like that. You can grind and go out occasionally too. You can have balance in life.

But the bigger point is......Most of the chicks at her age ain't trying to build shyt, that's why we saying dude off for even trying to marry a 19 year old in the first place. He shouldn't even be thinking about marriage right now, let alone with some college kid at 19. Especially if he not in college himself. That nikka needs just as much guidance as her, if not more.

This x1000. Love the show. I know he's not a counseling expert, but balance is important especially as a man. Almost always the more experienced you are as a breh the better off you'll be.

At leas tin my experience, the more social I was, the more I understood the world and myself so I could apply things to better myself

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

if drinking = social life its not a surprise dudes are in the situations they are in.

at that being the only thing you got from my post.

Drinking is just one part of socializing. Nobody forcing you to become an alcoholic. You can't even get in certain clubs if you not 21, whether you plan on drinking or not, so that's just a disingenuous assumption on your part.

 

[HarlemHottie]

He'll talk about blue collar this, and how an average man can give an amazing life. 5 calls later he'll be shaking his head at a nikka average money.

I just assume from his if you aren't making 50k by 30, 40k by 25 or something, then you should be working 60 hrs a week minimum.

I read it as Kevin shaking his head at his callers' stratospheric expectations, not dude. Bc we all know the script by now. Once Kevin shows them how unqualified they are for what they really want, they get 'more reasonable', and even that's... not exactly reasonable. He gotta have ambition and goals and two side hustles which, if he was doing all that, he wouldn't be average.


He can foresee all the harrassment 'Mr Gallant but Average and Minding His Business' will undergo. Its funny and its sad that they hit 270 lb and all attempt the same off ramp with no regard for that man and his feelings. "Can't make this shyt up."


If you dont have a wife and kids, why not grind while you young?

 

[Apollo Creed]

at that being the only thing you got from my post.

Drinking is just one part of socializing. Nobody forcing you to become an alcoholic. You can't even get in certain clubs if you not 21, whether you plan on drinking or not, so that's just a disingenuous assumption on your part.

“clubs”

enjoy your day bro

 

[HarlemHottie]

if drinking = social life its not a surprise dudes are in the situations they are in.

In some fields, drinking = professional life.

 

[Balla]

Starts around 3:08. When he starting clowning son, she didn't volunteer that he was in school, so...?

Another "toxic" situation, btw.

Why did she even call in again? Lmao

 

[Apollo Creed]

In some fields, drinking = professional life.

And your wife needs to be there drinking right?


I’m just going to end the convo because this is a cultural thing and its not my place nor do i really care about what other people consider cultural pillars (as it’s not my culture”.

i say that respectfully

 

[Rayzah]

This is one thing I didn't know before KS show.

Women really do look at having a kid as "well, it happens," even multiple kids, but MARRIAGE (?!) they making as many calculations as possible.

I've always said; for too many woman (our women) the pinnacle of success and accomplishment is having a baby.

He said the realest shyt to her, if she doesn’t want to “settle” but she isn’t considering that any man that marries her is going to be “settling” for her.

She like many women think the settling thing is one sided, she then went on to make it seem like she had mad HVM proposing to her and then turn around and said it was the same guy twice, who she already said was trash.. which is it, is he HVM or trash? Not to mention in the beginning of the call she admitted to being the one with the problem committing, how are you going to find someone to accept you your ratchet friend and your kids if you have a problem with commitment? These ho’s are so immature with their expectations

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

“clubs”

enjoy your day bro

You nikkas be trying to argue about everything got damn

Yes dude should focus on getting money and neglect p*ssy and socializing so when he get 31 and pulling in 80k a year he can become a socially awkward simp that's gonna fund some manipulative bytch's life style until he makes a thread in TLR complaining about it and we all can have a good laugh.

I figured that's the extreme answer you wanted so here you go and have a nice day.