this video has all the classic Kevin Samuel-isms
edit: That ending
edit: the friend in the background was so triggered she couldn't help howling out in pain
Biggest thing this show has taught me on some real shyt is that the whole black dead beat dad shyt is a fukking big stretch. Hell yea there are shytty men who don’t care about their kids and families and walk out. But it seems a huge majority of single mothers are women who wanted a baby or two and just told a man who wanted to be a part of the family that they can kick rocks because they don’t want a relationship. Meanwhile they have sob stories prepared to tell people how being a single mother is so hard and that you a strong mother because you gotta do it on your own as if the black man didn’t want to be there. I’m raised by a single mother, so I’m not talking about all women. Of course not. But this show is revealing how prevalent this is in our community simply by these selfish ass women calling in.
woman: just because a man has a penis, doesn’t mean he can lead
kevin: then why have his babies
woman’s friend in background: SO
our community is done
I’ll never forget an argument my mom and pop had. Dad was trying to leave through the garage door, and my mom blocked the door. Dad ain’t hit her, but he threw her out of the way. I went and grabbed my dad, and my lil bro went to attend to my mama. We were mad at my dad for a few days, and dad went and slept on the couch them days. After them days, my dad gathered us all in the living room, apologized to my mama and told us he’d never do that again. It was over some cheating shyt. Pop got me and my brothers in a room, and told us he didn’t cheat on my mama. He reiterated he’d never do that again, and he let his emotions get the best of him.Explain what exactly?
My father did hit my mother, once. Never happened again.
A lot of the people who post in TLR were raised by these same type of women.
You get accused of being an incel, hating black women, or they try to shift the blame on the men when you call out dysfunctional single mothers.
It’s only going to get worse for the black community thanks to feminism and social media.
Its good to have boys in those situations.
Do I think my dad was cheating sexually, nah, but he worked at the shipyard, and me working there for a little while, I know how things go on the yard. The men and women are wild. One of the ladies somehow got in touch with my mama, and said my dad was a smooth talker. Now, I ain’t naive, and again, I know how it goes on the yard. I’ve had a few “work wives”. I know he was probably talking to some woman. He was in a high position, so I know. Technically, talking to a woman while in a relationship is cheating, but we often think of cheating as physical. I will say, while I was there, he was on his best behavior. Now that I’m a grown man, he talks to me about some of his mistakes. My mom has access to all of his phones; work phone included.
Sadly, my bro was still too little to help and i wasn't yet born, so my mother had to threaten my fathers life instead.
Who was cheating, if you don't mind me asking?
Yea, I understand now that I’m older, and also being a man myself. He carried 90% of the load. Im hard on my mama, but I think she understands now as well.
Explain where the mindset of "Long-term relationship or marriage with a BM = toxicity and abuse" comes from.Explain what exactly?
My father did hit my mother, once. Never happened again.
, why did you leave your last relationship
He was toxic and I got tired of the abuse
Explain where the mindset of "Long-term relationship or marriage with a BM = toxicity and abuse" comes from.
Idk if majority of BM were straight up abusing women like that. Was wondering if you hear this from friends and why u think that is.
I was catching up on episodes while cleaning the crib and I heard at least 4 women say this when asked.
KS: So
Woman:
