Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[HarlemHottie]

This sounds like evo bio. Like when you're ostracized from the group then you're left to the wild.

It's absolutely true. We're seeing some effects now but the latin american style, color based caste system is setting itself up before our very eyes.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

"I feel like" vs what's reality


When I hear that "I feel like" phrase....I smh and just say that she'll never find peace. you feel like vs what's reality

 

[Neuromancer]

It's absolutely true. We're seeing some effects now but the latin american style, color based caste system is setting itself up before our very eyes.

True indeed. So black women decide to remove black men from the equation?

 

[NO-BadAzz]

@HarlemHottie

Part of the problem, you sitting on the side watching a black man get disrespect at Popeyes

 

[HarlemHottie]

True indeed. So black women decide to remove black men from the equation?

And vice versa. Every (wo)man for himself and greater resources and fukk the consequences.

Is that really where we want to end up? That ain't us.

 

[HarlemHottie]

@HarlemHottie

Part of the problem, you sitting on the side watching a black man get disrespect at Popeyes

I don't eat that shyt neither. The least I'll do is panera bread.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Breh, I seen a girl I used to go to college with that liked an IG post from the shade room that had some woman celebrity talking about black men don’t protect black women, and such and hit the

I need to go back to some of the gender war posts on social media and see who liked what. Like you said, that reveals true feelings.

yup, lotta dudes would be shocked what their own girl is liking or sharing. IG used to have a feature where you could see what post your followers liked as a list. Nowadays you can still see but thats only if you find the post.

 

[Neuromancer]

And vice versa. Every (wo)man for himself and greater resources and fukk the consequences.

Is that really where we want to end up? That ain't us.

Nah never was us. What propagates this thought process. Besides hurt? Of course mental health is a factor. But it seems like we just mad at each other for the hurt caused by select individuals in our community.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

I don't eat that shyt neither. The least I'll do is panera bread.

But are you saying something, are you checking the cashier bw for not speaking to your black brother - n - law

 

[Neuromancer]

"I feel like" vs what's reality


When I hear that "I feel like" phrase....I smh and just say that she'll never find peace. you feel like vs what's reality

Easy response to that. Do you believe your thoughts and experiences are the only ones that exist? Yes some bm do and say foul shyt to bw. But do you think bw aren't doing and saying the same to bm? Like sometimes you have to inject the reality of the situation into the convo.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Nah never was us.

I'ma tell you and then give you a some Google hw.

I knew a bm, born and raised in harlem, one of the early integrated classes at an ivy who married a Jewish girl and said in a major publication that white folks read, and I quote, "I loathe harlem." His own daddy who sent him to those fancy schools was ashamed.

Meanwhile, he leveling up with the Jewish girl (a fitness instructor or some such), bought a brownstone and vacation house in the hamptons, had kids, sent them to the best schools, etc. She divorced him and wrung his ass OUT, you hear me??!

Now he with a sista.


We talking class of 78 n shyt.

 

[Lord Bison]

One thing I have noticed about a lot swirlers online is that they thrive off negativity. They want black men to be hurt because they are hurt themselves. I actually pity a lot of them because they can't possibly be happy individuals and harbor that much vitriol for bm at the same time.

The most hurtful thing in the world for them is to see black men simply not caring and not reacting to their hatred and bitterness. All that hatred they spout is really a cry for validation, help and attention. Its really tragic when you think about it. I actually feel deeply sorry for them.

There's some truth to this. I think a lot of the hatred they spout is an uncontrolled outcry and reaction for having been deemed the most undesirable women in the country.

I'm not a woman so I wont pretend to say I understand what they're going through, but i think a lot of the reason why they act like this is all subconsciously derived from that point. They feel this invisible pressure and instead of rising and improving, they direct it towards black men because its easier to blame shift than it is to accept accountability

 

[The Fade]

Yup.

HR / recruitment / Customer service. They love putting them in guard dog / gatekeeper positions. Cause cacs can weapon use their attitude lol.

Could be possibly the most dangerous ppl to work with right behind white women.

If you go into a mixed setting that has some prestige, they act like you not supposed to be there. Whether you a lame or real. I hear the chicks that be tryna get brehs fired act this way as well in corporate settings

 

[HarlemHottie]

But are you saying something, are you checking the cashier bw for not speaking to your black brother - n - law

I'll be honest, ppl tend to act civilized around me.

But you really think I'ma be out here instigating incidents with ratchets? Uh... why? I'm not trynna fight for no unknown nikkas honor , no disrespect.


Y'all fighting/ shooting it out with hood nikkas on my behalf?

 

[HarlemHottie]

I'm not a woman so I wont pretend to say I understand what they're going through, but i think a lot of the reason why they act like this is all subconsciously derived from that point. They feel this invisible pressure and instead of rising and improving, they direct it towards black men

Let me try to explain. Idk the unattractive life, but it's hard to overcome natural constraints. Ie, "The ww and latinas got hair I can run my fingers through." Very few of us are competitive based on that measure. How could the rest of us possibly try? If y'all say it enough, like y'all did, it will brew serious discontent.

For an analogy, how does the avg bm feel listening to busted hitches talk about how they'll only submit to a hvm? Like, 'Well damn, don't you know about these external forces holding me down? "

Response: " Oh yes, those are the same forces that create the beauty standards that deem us unacceptable, we know all about them. "


It's a mess between us and instead of harping on old shyt, we ALL need to exhibit some grace.