Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[sosayeth]

Amazing how a black man and black woman, with a singular goal (black relationships), can share opposing viewpoints respectfully. Part of the reason for this has to do with the fact you won and won early, @HarlemHottie, but an authentic desire to be with a black man is what's really missing from the vast majority of black women who claim to want us. @Balla

Pertaining to y'alls topic, I think the biggest thing missing from women's understanding of the majority of derogatory comments online about black women in the mid-'00s (time period is important) is that the way black men were talking to and about you all is primarily how men "joke around" with one another. Rude... mean... unkind... crude comments... this is how guys speak to each other. It's amplified in black communities as well, since we champion this mentality as "clowning culture," whereas men of other groups tend to keep the cracks between each other. Equality at its most ironic. In seriousness, though, I've never liked "clowning culture", even from a young age, because I could see others internalizing it, while also trying to play it off like it didn't affect them. I wondered many a time as a teenager, "Why do we do this? It's surely going to have a negative effect in the future." Now look.

All that said, the major difference between predominant (black) male criticism of (black) women and predominant (black) female criticism of (black) men is these women want us dead - and it's socially acceptable for them to express that. If you know how to push people's buttons the right way, you can get admission of out folks quite easily. Even among the most scorned of black men, however, you'd be hard pressed to find one who wishes lynching upon black females.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Why did you tag me brehette?

Bc, iirc, we commiserated on weight.

 

[goatmane]

How did they know where he was online and all that other shyt? His pic and name shouldn’t be on those sites.

most ppl use the same emails / phone number for alot of websites. also hes a cop so his personal email was probably listed somewhere. journalist just googled those and got some hits

if theColi was ever hacked and a database leak happen, i guarantee most ppl use the same email for thecoli as they did for their IRL public utilities bill / voting record / bills.

think about all those random sites u ever put your IRL name and email in. your kids YMCA sports club website. random email listings.

easy as hell to dox somebody

ppl call me paranoid but websites worth millions get their shyt leaked every month... i use a seperate email. i got a corporate office job

 

[Neuromancer]

what was that like

Well sex takes some getting used to cause they're used to smaller dikks. Have to be a little slower and gentler when going in. Their words not mine. They also almost always seem to be relived to be able to talk about race without it being a problem. My question is always well what did you expect? And they're both were like that's true. Usually they end up with other black guys after me.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Man that 1st caller last night, the woman with the 3 kids, not married and stated that her children's father was crazy when KS asked her why she wasn't married.


He asked a very simple question that a 2nd grader could easily answered and it took that woman everything in her heart not to be truthful


Women picked badly, the fact that you decided to make babies with toxic dudes lol

You pick badly LOL - KS

 

[seabreeze80]

Bc, iirc, we commiserated on weight.

We are a part of itty bitty gang lol but I still show my big sisters love and defend them when needed.

 

[GoAggieGo.]

you dont see it in real life because people get heart hiding behind their internet avatars. Look at who likes or retweets the nonsense, promise you will find someone you know in there.

Breh, I seen a girl I used to go to college with that liked an IG post from the shade room that had some woman celebrity talking about black men don’t protect black women, and such and hit the

I need to go back to some of the gender war posts on social media and see who liked what. Like you said, that reveals true feelings.

 

[sosayeth]

Man that 1st caller last night, the woman with the 3 kids, not married and stated that her children's father was crazy when KS asked her why she wasn't married.


He asked a very simple question that a 2nd grader could easily answered and it took that woman everything in her heart not to be truthful


Women picked badly, the fact that you decided to make babies with toxic dudes lol

You pick badly LOL - KS

Kevin, if you're reading - ask these stupid dummies to correlate how come freeeeeeeeeeee women who dooooo whaaaaaaaaaatttttttt thhhhhhheeeeeyyyyyyyyyyy want always seem to make the most retarded decisions.

 

[Neuromancer]

Bc bm wouldn't be as interested and id be forced by the market to position myself elsewhere in the interests of time. We dont have forever out here.

Eh... im 5'2", 120 lbs rn (@junie ) and shaped like a tiny lingerie model. Long limbs and everything poking. I can't even wear certain shyt outside altho, objectively, i have less ass than the big girls. Its just that everything looks bigger on me, good and bad (ie, my gut, the wrong 5lbs can have me looking... not good ).

The last woman I dated was petite too. Early on she asked me why I was attracted to her cause all my exs had big booties.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Even among the most scorned of black men, you'd be hard pressed to find one who wishes lynching upon black females.

Short answer: You might be right, but remember that, for women, looks determine EVERYTHING.

So, designating bw as uniformly unattractive for whatever reason, is to consign bw to a 'social death' that could, in fact, lead to a literal one (as in, genes not passed along).

I'm not being overly technical. This is what happened to the moors, breeding out until there's nothing left.

 

[sosayeth]

Short answer: You might be right, but remember that, for women, looks determine EVERYTHING.

So, designating bw as uniformly unattractive for whatever reason, is to consign bw to a 'social death' that could, in fact, lead to a literal one (as in, genes not passed along).

I'm not being overly technical. This is what happened to the moors, breeding out until there's nothing left.

That's a very fair point.

 

[GoAggieGo.]

Yeah. I didn't know black men who dated out until I went to college. My father, older brothers, cousins and their friends all were with black women.

See, it was opposite for me.

All of the men in my family are with black women, but the high school I went to was predominantly white. Black folks made up only 5-6% of the school population. I was the only one who really dated black women (although I did try my hand at a white woman, once. Got my wake up call early in life). There were a few of us black men at the school, and all the men pretty much dated white women. The few black girls would venture out to the major cities in the area (Biloxi, Gulfport, Mobile AL) and get with black men.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Kevin, if you're reading - ask these stupid dummies to correlate how come freeeeeeeeeeee women who dooooo whaaaaaaaaaatttttttt thhhhhhheeeeeyyyyyyyyyyy want always seem to make the most retarded decisions.

Kevin doesn't lurk



He need to touch on that online gender role switch/question that was on twitter the other day. I wonder if he saw that thread and saw the women responses.


Modern Women, when are they happy???

When are modern women actually happy?

 

[Neuromancer]

Short answer: You might be right, but remember that, for women, looks determine EVERYTHING.

So, designating bw as uniformly unattractive for whatever reason, is to consign bw to a 'social death' that could, in fact, lead to a literal one (as in, genes not passed along).

I'm not being overly technical. This is what happened to the moors, breeding out until there's nothing left.

This sounds like evo bio. Like when you're ostracized from the group then you're left to the wild.

 

[Neuromancer]

See, it was opposite for me.

All of the men in my family are with black women, but the high school I went to was predominantly white. Black folks made up only 5-6% of the school population. I was the only one who really dated black women (although I did try my hand at a white woman, once. Got my wake up call early in life). There were a few of us black men at the school, and all the men pretty much dated white women. The few black girls would venture out to the major cities in the area (Biloxi, Gulfport, Mobile AL) and get with black men.

Odd. I would think that in a Southern city there would be more black dating pools. I know black family is very big down there. And up here where it's more "liberal" there would be more IR dating. I didn't see that until much later in my life tbh. Could be the fact that so many people are in the ctiy.