Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread
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Superstar
Lmfao. nikkas came at my neck like I aint been watching, supporting, and talking KS all through this thread.
No I dont care hes divorced, no i dont think he hates black women. I asked the question, and hoped to get an understanding of what are the things KS is wrong about. I personally dont see many weak areas in his arguements.
I've watched at least 3 long shows, 10/15 short clips. 99% i agree with. This one was top tier to me
No I dont care hes divorced, no i dont think he hates black women. I asked the question, and hoped to get an understanding of what are the things KS is wrong about. I personally dont see many weak areas in his arguements.
I've watched at least 3 long shows, 10/15 short clips. 99% i agree with. This one was top tier to me
Mastamimd
Ain't shyt
Most guys saying they're bushing a cheating woman, but, especially if they're married... it's cap. Cap, cap, cap.
I'm gonna go out on a limb and even say it's probably just as often a wife leaves after she's been unfaithful to a faithful guy who wants to stay together as a guy leaving his unfaithful wife.
Women don't know how slimey a lot of women are, because women don't talk to men.
On top of that, very few men are in a rush to tell female friends or potential partners they were cheated on, because women aren't sympathetic to male victims of infidelity. The only group of women I've observed who display genuine sympathy for a dude in such a circumstance are close family members where the guy isn't that great with women.
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K.O.N.Y
Superstar
A truly understated problem in our communityIm not rambling. Im speaking to the impossible and how regular ppl can move the needle. And I gave an irrefutable example of a small force against a much larger one.
Ofc men will do what they have to, as will all adult players in this game. Who's arguing that? But, as elders, are we not expected to pass on what we've learned? "I got mine, you better get yours" is how we got into this mess in the first place.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Apparently not just ours, and I'm not being shady here.
I have a sense of responsibility to mine that others may not feel. And that's fine and to be expected. But I would be shaming my whole lineage if i was on that, 'fukk them nikkas over there' shyt. They, and the community, built me up for a reason. To whom much is given...
...and some waffle fries
Superstar
What Kevin skips over and I wish he touched on it more is...the same men that exercise their options when they make themselves high value are the same men that was skipped over and ignored by the women that want them now.
Alot of women lack foresight. If they dont see tangible results that you can provide a lifestyle they want then you are not good enough. When women have the leverage they exercise it 100%. Ill accept that.
However when a man puts himself in a position to be desired by majority of women...he is justified in leveraging his position to exercising his options.
Women dont want men when they are building but want men to be exclusive once everything is built. FOH. A womans value is inherent and a mans value is not it has to be made. If man chooses to treat a woman like another blade of grass then so be it. He earned it.
Alot of women lack foresight. If they dont see tangible results that you can provide a lifestyle they want then you are not good enough. When women have the leverage they exercise it 100%. Ill accept that.
However when a man puts himself in a position to be desired by majority of women...he is justified in leveraging his position to exercising his options.
Women dont want men when they are building but want men to be exclusive once everything is built. FOH. A womans value is inherent and a mans value is not it has to be made. If man chooses to treat a woman like another blade of grass then so be it. He earned it.
BornStar
Marathon Continues
Ofc men will do what they have to, as will all adult players in this game. Who's arguing that? But, as elders, are we not expected to pass on what we've learned? "I got mine, you better get yours" is how we got into this mess in the first place.
These Thots are making it easier for decent or over achieving woman like you to shine. You can bask in your great relationship with your femininity, being submissive, letting your man lead and your happiness while these other women are following the trend of being aggressive, masculine and single.
Or you can pull your sisters to the side and give them advice but a huge BUT
you can force the horse drink even if you want to.
I've had the same situation with brothers and financial situations now they are left behind.
It's all about your perspective.
You can't save everyone. Sometimes the person will never realize it till its too late that financial opportunity is no longer available or in these sisters cases when their eggs will be depleted.
Exactly! The parts of my life that I'm willing to share are dreadfully boring. That's why I'm trying to come up with an interesting, watchable model.
I don't know if I effected any long-term change in her, but I had to break reality down to one of my cousins has this silly frustration towards her mom, who she feels "does too much for others (especially their dad, my uncle-in-law) and not enough for herself." This cousin grew up in the very rural south, father worked at a plant, mother was a teacher. They're both pretty traditional - he was always working, would leave at 4/5 in the morning and not be back until 8/9 at night. She cooks (OMG can my aunt cook) and cleans. I'm not sure they "needed" the two incomes, but they have the funds to do whatever they (the "they" is important) want now. My cousin's problem is (she spends way too much time on IG and listening to hawt gurl summer, "travel bug" shyt and subsequently) she thinks her mom is "stuck" in rural _______, because she believes her dad not being interested in traveling the country or the world while they're retired, trying different styles of food and other stuff silly women these days think you "need" to do in order to have a "fulfilled" life is 'holding her mom back' from doing those things.
What's funny is I've called my aunt a few times specifically to talk about relationships, marriage, raising kids, etc. She is madly in love with my uncle-in-law to this day. The things she likes to do (like 'doing too much for others') are what gives her fulfillment and make her happy. But, my cousin can't see this, because fake reality (television, Internet and movies) have convinced young women to project it's the housewives who are really unfulfilled and unhappy, and not themselves. Fulfilled people don't need to cope with life by filling themselves with distracting eXpErIeNcES like going to different beaches around the world for two days and three nights and bragging about it on their seven dating profiles.
I asked my cousin if she had ever open-mindedly talked to her mom about this stuff and she did that Neo Matrix dodge shyt women are so adept at. Lol It's impossible for her to imagine that her mom's "boring" life is anything but. She's a beautiful young woman (my whole family is attractive af, gives me great pride) and just turned twenty-nine. I hope she gets over this goofy "My friends and I are gonna be 'Living Single Golden Girls'" mess soon, though.
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DreadBrown
Feed the children
I think men staying after being chested on happens alot more than we hear about but men are less likely to talk about it
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
There's surprisingly little basking, lol. He always got something im not doing right and in always trying to learn and do better. Im encouraged tho, i will admit.
Ofc, im not new to this. I tried to speak to bw for damn near a decade before i joined the coli. Some listened and did well, but as soon as they took the advice of others...
shyt fell apart. What i realized was, women weren't willing to listen to me because im not a marriageable man. Simple as that. They need to be led to the water by desireable men. Happy married women can serve the water, ie, give them the neccesary game.
But they not gon stop thotting off my say-so. It looks fun.
It's not necessarily that they lack foresight, because (Western) women - no matter the racial group - are almost universally unattracted to these guys until about 28. It's not that they never come across these guys, it's primarily these guys are the last option.
This has always confused the hell out of me.
It's so illogical it gives me a headache.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Im with your aunt, dgaf about no trips, no bags, none of that. Ofc, money gotta be right to live on, but my highs and lows are with him. I don't need scenery or ambiance. Its nice when i get it, but very low priority overall. These young girls really be projecting, or absorbing the bad experiences of their friends. People, women, have said some CRAZY shyt to me, where I'm like, did this bytch just impugn my intelligence?
All bc im happy and you single? Its real sad that you have to imagine/ hope for terrible shyt in my life to make you feel better. 
Lowkey, tho, i notice that a whole lot of these feminists come from good two parent homes.
