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:jbhmm: This is interesting. Around 55:00, KS challenges a happily married woman (ds, short natural hair if you scrolling through the show), asking why she doesn't engage in the internet back and forth harder, why she 'lets' deviants, scallywags, and spinsters out- argue her. Its a question i was asked earlier itt.

My response, and hers, was that im too nice and, frankly, too happy to fight that hard over somebody else's life. He pushed back, arguing that we're letting them set a stereotype for us as bw and so we should fight for our own self image.

:ld: Fair point, and Im considering it. But, it may be important to note that the happy, 'chosen' women were chosen partly because they weren't argumentative. I stay tf away from those with whom I'm inclined to argue. When/ if approached, i hold my own, but im not gon run a whole Twitter page devoted to debating single women on some shyt they don't know. :skip: I don't have that kinda free time. My man would start to feel a way, and rightfully so.

:patrice:Thoughts? Imo, bm need to create more of us in order to fight. I can't expect a single girl, unsure of her own marriage prospects, to go super hard for bm. At the same time, its expected for a married woman to not be on sm all the gd time. :what: The white lady i posted a few pages back only does a few short vids throughout the day, bc thats all the time she has.


assuming I understood your post, its not BMs job to train random grown women. Its up to families to establish culture and traditions and pass it down. Millenials and Gen Z Are done, there is no saving them. At max someone may find that “rare” person but the goal should be trying to save the babies.
 

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assuming I understood your post, its not BMs job to train random grown women. Its up to families to establish culture and traditions and pass it down. Millenials and Gen Z Are done, there is no saving them. At max someone may find that “rare” person but the goal should be trying to save the babies.
:yeshrug: That may work for you but, a, I'm not a nihilist, and b, you're talking about basically my whole ethnic group.


We (ados in particular, in the belly of the mk ultra beast :usure:) can't afford to be laissez faire about this. Ados men have some training to do as well, it's not just the women. We cant throw each other away.

Edit: Oh! By "create more of us", i meant married women. Find a diamond- possibly slightly 'in the rough' :ld:- shine her up, and let her speak the good word. I didn't mean mass 'conversions'. :heh:
 
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:yeshrug: That may work for you but, a, I'm not a nihilist, and b, you're talking about basically my whole ethnic group.


We (ados in particular, in the belly of the mk ultra beast :usure:) can't afford to be laissez faire about this. Ados men have some training to do as well, it's not just the women. We cant throw each other away.

Edit: Oh! By "create more of us", i meant married women. Find a diamond- possibly slightly 'in the rough' :ld:- shine her up, and let her speak the good word. I didn't mean mass 'conversions'. :heh:
Be superwoman if you want :hubie:
 

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That was the point of my post, questioning if it was worth it.

But i come from people, personally i mean, who do devote themselves to our people, so... you and i may have different goals. :ld:

no diss but this is why men and women are different lol. If women had the ability to save people they would and from your stance I can see you dont really talk to the men you are trying to save.
 

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no diss but this is why men and women are different lol. If women had the ability to save people they would and from your stance I can see you dont really talk to the men you are trying to save.
:picard: Oh, no. Im not trying to save the men. Im trying to save the babies. They get born regardless of the fukkshyt they parents on. :usure:
 

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1. I watch clips here and there for entertainment. He pops up on another channel I watch. I don't see myself watching hours of his show.
2. Not at all
3. Should he? He can. Do I take this relationship advice seriously...no. It's like taking advice about how to become a millionaire from a guy who has never been a millionaire. Or taking advice from a guy who became a millionaire via the lotto and then lost it all. I would never take serious relationship advice from someone who doesn't have the ability to maintain a long term relationship. I think his points on how to present yourself as marriage material are valid. But his actually relationship advice can get really shaky.

I also think he puts on a bit for his show for shock value. When he gets on other channels he tends to a be a little milder. His surface level talking points are good but when you tend to get into the meat or long term practicality of his advice...not so much.

We all know your history. Had you listened to Kevin Samuels earlier in your life it probably would have turned out alot better than it has
 

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:jbhmm: How do you save the babies if you don't... cobble the parents together in some functional way?


And i have no "argument." You addressed me. This is simply an exchange of ideas. :yeshrug:

you trying to force or convince parents to parent a certain way is trying to save them not the baby because the baby is already here.
 

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you trying to force or convince parents to parent a certain way is trying to save them not the baby because the baby is already here.
:pachaha: What power do I have to force somebody to do anything?

The best i can do is model peace between a man and a woman in the home. It's on them to create it in their own lives. Hopefully, the babies benefit. Bc i see no way to address the babies without first addressing the parents who raise them.

Do you have any ideas? :jbhmm:
 

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Why do yall watch kevin samuels? Do you think he hates black women? Do you think he should be able to give advice after 2 divorces?

Please answer these in your own words. Really curious to see the answers. Had this convo on twitter, women were OUTRAGED
Just say you dont want people watching his shyt. fukk out of here with that extra shyt.

Who gives a fukk about women being outraged. Where they outrage when they was saying was doing this in the 90s?
 
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