Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[Commish]

I don't think I want to read about the carnage....Horror Story shyt......

Good! Besides, you already know what could happen to men who don't have their ducks in a row when dealing with certain types of women.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Good! Besides, you already know what could happen to men who don't have their ducks in a row when dealing with certain types of women.

Facts.

 

[GhettoTeK]

I personally believe the vast majority of men stay with their wives after infidelity and the narrative otherwise is just ego talk. Hell, there was a viral video just this week of a guy who stayed with his wife through three instances of adultery.

The three reasons for this, in no particular order, are, it's cheaper to keep her. The only way a woman doesn't get away with taking at least half of what you own is if she gets caught hiring a hitman to kill you. The second reason is most guys don't think they can do much better than their current wife. Unlike women, most dudes are fairly satisfied with their spouse. The third reason is women don't want to date guys who've been cheated on. They'll feign sympathy for sure, but most chicks believe some sort of inadequacy on the man's end justified the woman's infidelity.

I get it, but I still stand on what I say . A man or woman who stays in the relationship after being cheated on has 0 self respect. As for men worrying about the cost of divorce, don’t they have prenups for those? Now idk how the system work so I’m genuinely asking.

 

[HarlemHottie]

I get it, but I still stand on what I say . A man or woman who stays in the relationship after being cheated on has 0 self respect. As for men worrying about the cost of divorce, don’t they have prenups for those? Now idk how the system work so I’m genuinely asking.

You should probably look into said system before stating an opinion so forcefully. If you did, you might see their point.

 

[Easy-E]

I want to do a separate thread on cheating.

I think it's overrated in a world that has all but rejected "sexual purity."

Lemme get this straight; your partner can have 50 bodies before you meet, but, one time they step out it's the end of the world because of "trust"???



No, cheating is not "okay" and I understand the emotional implications, but, it's crazy it's the only thing we seem to think relationships cannot recover from.

I get it, but I still stand on what I say . A man or woman who stays in the relationship after being cheated on has 0 self respect. As for men worrying about the cost of divorce, don’t they have prenups for those? Now idk how the system work so I’m genuinely asking.

Do ya'll have the same standards for any other issues relationships tend to go through?

Just infidelity?

 

[DreadBrown]

I want to do a separate thread on cheating.

I think it's overrated in a world that has all but rejected "sexual purity."

Lemme get this straight; your partner can have 50 bodies before you meet, but, one time they step out it's the end of the world because of "trust"???



No, cheating is not "okay" and I understand the emotional implications, but, it's crazy it's the only thing we seem to think relationships cannot recover from.



Do ya'll have the same standards for any other issues relationships tend to go through?

Just infidelity?

This happens when people see each other as sexual objects first

I remember having a girl said to me if I fukk someone else I’ve given them everything and there’s nothing left for her



I didn’t have the time to explain how fukked up that statement was

 

[ReggieFlare]

Not gonna lie, I wasn't sold on this dude at first but after watching a couple of his livestreams and hearing his arguments in context dude makes alot of sense. How he breaks down men's value to society is a point I think many women don't really understand and take for granted.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I want to do a separate thread on cheating.

I think it's overrated in a world that has all but rejected "sexual purity."

Lemme get this straight; your partner can have 50 bodies before you meet, but, one time they step out it's the end of the world because of "trust"???



No, cheating is not "okay" and I understand the emotional implications, but, it's crazy it's the only thing we seem to think relationships cannot recover from.



Do ya'll have the same standards for any other issues relationships tend to go through?

Just infidelity?

the issue with the cheating convo is women speak of men as if we are the same and we are not.

 

[Apollo Creed]

This happens when people see each other as sexual objects first

I remember having a girl said to me if I fukk someone else I’ve given them everything and there’s nothing left for her



I didn’t have the time to explain how fukked up that statement was

men and women are NOT the same. These theoretical discussions are useless with them because they simply arent wired to understand.

 

[JT-Money]

Couldn't even finish the video because of this chick's attitude.

 

[Easy-E]

This happens when people see each other as sexual objects first

I remember having a girl said to me if I fukk someone else I’ve given them everything and there’s nothing left for her



I didn’t have the time to explain how fukked up that statement was

EGG-fukkING-ZACHLY

Again, our culture so sexual, but, we expect chasity for something as arbitrary as "a relationship." While also with the expectation you have sex with as many people as possible before you "settle down."

For some reason promiscity is looked at as pouring water out a cup and not creating psycological patterns.

I'm not saying people should be puritans or cheating is okay, but, the idea that it's just this deal breaker than you can never make peace with when neither one of ya'll are virgins is fukking ridiculous.

 

[Adebisi_Said]

KS has pointed out that those women callers not only do not know men, but to be quite honest, they do not give a damn what a man, they claim to desire, wants, need, etc.

KS has stated numerous times that women who are overweight/obese, insolent, selfish, immature, etc. show men exactly what they feel a man deserve by their appearance and attitude.

Someone gonna tell me that a marginal looking woman who is 5ft something weighing close to 200 lbs. which is subject to increase once they have multiple kids deserves a man who earns in the top 1%-5% of all earners?

It's HVM or nothing, huh?

FOH!

I have no issue with real women who know their role and is willing to do their duty within a relationship, but to merely sit on one's ass all day and expect someone to get up early morning and come home late putting in 80 hrs + a week is mere bullshyt!

Breh, I ain't gonna tell a Breh how to deal with women nor question what they feel makes them a man, but any man who signs up for the type of women who call into KS's show is subject to being treated like that white boy in that other thread.

KS has asked copious amount of women who ended their relationship and marriages. The overwhelming majority said they ended things, so that tells me the likelihood of a relationship/marriage lasting whether a man does the right thing or not.

Smh..

Can't be me!

Delusional Women are not meant to be taken seriously.

 

[Easy-E]

the issue with the cheating convo is women speak of men as if we are the same and we are not.

I'm not even trying to go that deep into it.

Just the act of your SO having sex with another person shouldn't be "accepted," but, it also shouldn't be so inconceivable.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I'm not even trying to go that deep into it.

Just the act of your SO having sex with another person shouldn't be "accepted," but, it also shouldn't be so inconceivable.

you have to go deep because you cant view men and women as the same. But at this point this boils down to culture. So if people come from different cultures there will never be middle ground. If you are of a culture where men and woman are exactly then the same then I guess go head with your questions.

 

[Commish]

Delusional Women are not meant to be taken seriously.

Well, some to many are taken seriously to the point where dudes are getting into relationships, marriages & procreating with them.

What should happen is that men who got their act together shouldn't deal with delusional women at all! Let them be delusional and alone until they get some act right in their veins!

KS has continuously stressed that women who have unrealistic expectations will end up dying alone! He is probably the only person I see on SM really speak on it and I cosign him as speaking the GD truth! Women, especially Black women do NOT wanna be single in their 50s and beyond! I seen it with loved ones. It's very disheartening and sad...

Smh..