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Last night, I have listened to some past & current shows along with the short clips and for some reason, I find myself feeling flustered with some of his past callers.

I don't wanna type out a long ass essay, but from what I have observed from his women callers is that those people make marriage very undesirable!

All these women want a bad deal! They want to eat off the fruit of another person's labor and I find it hard to view them as good people!

For me, I just can't allow someone to come into my life, my house, place expectations on me yet I can't have expectations of my own and should they not get what they feel they deserve, can run to the crooked ass courts and take half or most of everything I have worked for!

Yes, life is about taking risks and people are human, but with a high divorce rate with women being the majority initiators of filing for divorce knowing they will not take much financial loss, it makes sense that they want a HVM or close to one. What do they have to lose? It's a clear and clean come up for them!

I don't know..

Of course there are great women out there who is willing to assist and help their significant others prosper, but I think those types are rare AF! They have to be taught early in life how to be a helpmate & dutiful wife. I refuse to believe those types are in abundance, at least in American society.

I will continue to watch KS's shows, but slowly I am getting turned off. Not because of KS, but because his callers.

Smh..
 
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More men stay with their cheating wives than you think. I know some personally stayed with wives after they cheated on them. I know some men that have "Daddy's maybe" child with another guy claiming he's the biological father of that too. Kevin already touched on this men staying with cheating wives and the reasons for it in his Will and Jada video.
My former best friend got remarried to his. I kid you not. He is not unattractive or lame. He’s actually well off so I don’t get it. :yeshrug:

:francis: I don’t want to dig but I genuinely wish him well and happiness.
 

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More men stay with their cheating wives than you think. I know some personally stayed with wives after they cheated on them. I know some men that have "Daddy's maybe" child with another guy claiming he's the biological father of that too. Kevin already touched on this men staying with cheating wives and the reasons for it in his Will and Jada video.

And that isn’t fair

My former best friend got remarried to his. I kid you not. He is not unattractive or lame. He’s actually well off so I don’t get it. :yeshrug:

:francis: I don’t want to dig but I genuinely wish him well and happiness.

I personally believe the vast majority of men stay with their wives after infidelity and the narrative otherwise is just ego talk. Hell, there was a viral video just this week of a guy who stayed with his wife through three instances of adultery.

The three reasons for this, in no particular order, are, it's cheaper to keep her. The only way a woman doesn't get away with taking at least half of what you own is if she gets caught hiring a hitman to kill you. The second reason is most guys don't think they can do much better than their current wife. Unlike women, most dudes are fairly satisfied with their spouse. The third reason is women don't want to date guys who've been cheated on. They'll feign sympathy for sure, but most chicks believe some sort of inadequacy on the man's end justified the woman's infidelity.
 

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I personally believe the vast majority of men stay with their wives after infidelity and the narrative otherwise is just ego talk. Hell, there was a viral video just this week of a guy who stayed with his wife through three instances of adultery.

The three reasons for this, in no particular order, are, it's cheaper to keep her. The only way a woman doesn't get away with taking at least half of what you own is if she gets caught hiring a hitman to kill you. The second reason is most guys don't think they can do much better than their current wife. Unlike women, most dudes are fairly satisfied with their spouse. The third reason is women don't want to date guys who've been cheated on. They'll feign sympathy for sure, but most chicks believe some sort of inadequacy on the man's end justified the woman's infidelity.
My cousin and I were talking about foolishness on doing the same. His estranged wife (delaying divorce) and my son’s mother. Multiple times and multiple people. My cousin’s own was even worse. I didn’t know it was that bad. I will disagree with ego and say it’s actually pride.

It’s a difference. Ego is an elated state of one’s self. Pride is trying to fix/save someone who doesn’t want to be saved.
 

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Last night, I have listened to some past & current shows along with the short clips and for some reason, I find myself feeling flustered with some of his past callers.

I don't wanna type out a long ass essay, but from what I have observed from his women callers is that those people make marriage very undesirable!

All these woman want a bad deal! They want to eat off the fruit of another person's labor and I find it hard to view them as good people!

For me, I just can't allow someone to come into my life, my house, place expectations on me yet I can't have expectations of my own and should they not get what they feel they deserve, can run to the crooked ass courts and take half or most of everything I have worked for!


Yes, life is about taking risks and people are human, but with a high divorce rate with women being the majority initiators of filing for divorce knowing they will not take much financial loss, it makes sense that they want a HVM or close to one. What do they have to lose? It's a clear and clean come up for them!

I don't know..

Of course there are great women out there who is willing to assist and help their significant others prosper, but I think those types are rare AF! They have to be taught early in life how to be a helpmate & dutiful wife. I refuse to believe those types are in abundance, at least in American society.

I will continue to watch KS's shows, but slowly I am getting turned off. Not because of KS, but because his callers.

Smh..

This is kind of an underlying fear of mine with marriage, just having the pressure to reach someone else's needs and expectations over my own. And knowing I could do that and it still can not be enough.
 

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My cousin and I were talking about foolishness on doing the same. His estranged wife (delaying divorce) and my son’s mother. Multiple times and multiple people. My cousin’s own was even worse. I didn’t know it was that bad. I will disagree with ego and say it’s actually pride.

It’s a difference. Ego is an elated state of one’s self. Pride is trying to fix/save someone who doesn’t want to be saved.

I think that's a good analysis.

I meant "ego" though when we get together and talk with each other while playing ball or on here about how we're bushing a chick immediately if she's unfaithful.

The pride part, as you described, kicks in if ever that situation actually comes about.
 

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I think that's a good analysis.

I meant "ego" though when we get together and talk with each other while playing ball or on here about how we're bushing a chick immediately if she's unfaithful.

The pride part, as you described, kicks in if ever that situation actually comes about.
Exactly. That’s why pride makes a man stay. Now the new cop out is “we were on a break” like it’s vacation side penis/vagina. This generation is way more messed than our predecessors when it comes to this stuff. At least they knew it was problematic. Now we have a culture who celebrates it.
 

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Last night, I have listened to some past & current shows along with the short clips and for some reason, I find myself feeling flustered with some of his past callers.

I don't wanna type out a long ass essay, but from what I have observed from his women callers is that those people make marriage very undesirable!

All these woman want a bad deal! They want to eat off the fruit of another person's labor and I find it hard to view them as good people!

For me, I just can't allow someone to come into my life, my house, place expectations on me yet I can't have expectations of my own and should they not get what they feel they deserve, can run to the crooked ass courts and take half or most of everything I have worked for!

Yes, life is about taking risks and people are human, but with a high divorce rate with women being the majority initiators of filing for divorce knowing they will not take much financial loss, it makes sense that they want a HVM or close to one. What do they have to lose? It's a clear and clean come up for them!

I don't know..

Of course there are great women out there who is willing to assist and help their significant others prosper, but I think those types are rare AF! They have to be taught early in life how to be a helpmate & dutiful wife. I refuse to believe those types are in abundance, at least in American society.

I will continue to watch KS's shows, but slowly I am getting turned off. Not because of KS, but because his callers.

Smh..

the fact that 95 percent of them say they want a man to financially take care of them, and say nothing about the man’s character, integrity or personality...

:francis:

Says a lot about their nature.
 

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the fact that 95 percent of them say they want a man to financially take care of them, and say nothing about the man’s character, integrity or personality...

:francis:

Says a lot about their nature.
Why you think evil prevails in this world?
Man figured out a long time ago that Ruthlessness= abundant resources= ANY bytch you want whether they “like you” or not.
 

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the fact that 95 percent of them say they want a man to financially take care of them, and say nothing about the man’s character, integrity or personality...

:francis:

Says a lot about their nature.

KS has pointed out that those women callers not only do not know men, but to be quite honest, they do not give a damn what a man, they claim to desire, wants, need, etc.

KS has stated numerous times that women who are overweight/obese, insolent, selfish, immature, etc. show men exactly what they feel a man deserve by their appearance and attitude.

Someone gonna tell me that a marginal looking woman who is 5ft something weighing close to 200 lbs. which is subject to increase once they have multiple kids deserves a man who earns in the top 1%-5% of all earners?

It's HVM or nothing, huh?

FOH!

I have no issue with real women who know their role and is willing to do their duty within a relationship, but to merely sit on one's ass all day and expect someone to get up early morning and come home late putting in 80 hrs + a week is mere bullshyt!

Breh, I ain't gonna tell a Breh how to deal with women nor question what they feel makes them a man, but any man who signs up for the type of women who call into KS's show is subject to being treated like that white boy in that other thread.

KS has asked copious amount of women who ended their relationship and marriages. The overwhelming majority said they ended things, so that tells me the likelihood of a relationship/marriage lasting whether a man does the right thing or not.

Smh..

Can't be me!
 
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KS has pointed out that those women callers not only do not know men, but to be quite honest, they do not give a damn what a man, they claim to desire, wants, need, etc.

KS has stated numerous times that women who are overweight/obese, insolent, selfish, immature, etc. show men exactly what they feel a man deserve by their appearance and attitude.

Someone gonna tell me that a marginal looking woman who is 5ft something weighing close to 200 lbs. which is subject to increase once they have multiple kids deserves a man who earns in the top 1%-5% of all earners?

It's HVM or nothing, huh?

FOH!

I have no issue with real women who know their role and is willing to do their duty within a relationship, but to merely sit on one's ass all day and expect someone to get up early morning and come home late putting in 80 hrs + a week is mere bullshyt!

Breh, I ain't gonna tell a Breh how to deal with women nor question what they feel makes them a man, but any man who signs up for the type of women who call into KS's show is subject to being treated like that white boy in that other thread.

KS has asked copious amount of women who ended their relationship and marriages. The overwhelming majority said they ended things, so that tells me the likelihood of a relationship/marriage lasting whether a man does the right thing or not.

Smh..

Can't be me!


What white boy is this?:jbhmm:
 

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What white boy is this?:jbhmm:

The one who got financially raped by the courts that was showcased in another thread which trended a day or two ago on this forum. He married a single mom, adopted her daughter, ended up get cheated on, got divorced and the courts pocket checked TF out of him!! Straight Deebo'd him! You could find the thread. Should be in on of the pages.
 
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The one who got financially raped by the courts that was showcased in another thread which trended a day or two ago on this forum. He married a single mom, adopted her daughter, ended up get cheated on, got divorced and the courts pocked checked TF out of him!! Straight Deebo'd him! You could find the thread. Should be in on of the pages.

I don't think I want to read about the carnage....Horror Story shyt......:gucci:
 
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