Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[HarlemHottie]

Listening now.

So... she's supposed to accept wack dikk indefinitely and share it? Well, bright side: if it's wack, she might not get so emotional about the cheating.

 

[mamba]

It depends on the social scene. Most of these types of events are invite-only; host by fraternities for charity. These are there, but you gotta be knowledgeable.

It really depends on the city. Cities with HBCUs or predominately Black universities are more likely to have a more diverse Black social scene.

DC, Houston, ATL, for example. You can find a little bit of everything, socially, in those cities for Black people.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Wednesday's show: a hvm's sexual discipline.

I told yall! I didn't know it was a 'thing' but i recognized it when i saw it.

 

[mamba]

Wednesday's show: a hvm's sexual discipline.

I told yall! I didn't know it was a 'thing' but i recognized it when i saw it.

A HVM man who doesn’t exercise sexual discipline will eventually stumble at best and crash & burn at worst.

It’s absolutely key to exercise discipline in that regard the higher you go.

We’ve seen CEOs, politicians and many others fall from grace simply because they couldn’t exercise sexual discipline.

Our breh Deshaun Watson is currently going through it now. He will not be the last.

 

[HarlemHottie]

A HVM man who doesn’t exercise sexual discipline will eventually stumble at best and crash & burn at worst.

It’s absolutely key to exercise discipline in that regard the higher you go.

That's what i thought (and saw irl) but everybody was telling me different. Had me thinking my man was so unusual, asking me ridiculous hypotheticals.

Now I'm really wondering, which men were they talking about and how do they differ from those i know?

 

[bucks3115]

Only way a woman is going to deal with that imbalance in income long term is if the guy is her physical ideal and is destroying the p*ssy. Both boxes have to be checked.

Even then, her respect for him is only going to go so far.

Black women, more than any other women, fully expect to be taken care of by a man. All women want to be taken care of by a man. But, Black women fully expect it. It’s largely due to their elevated levels of religiosity and not wanting to struggle like the single women they saw in their upbringings.

For them, they’d rather go it alone than have to consistently reach in their purses when with a man. In their minds, they can support themselves just fine. What use are you to them as a man if they are still going to have to pay for stuff?

There’s really no way around it. The Black man is going to have to build wealth, build infrastructure and create jobs if we want a consistent level of femininity and cooperation from our women as a collective.

A good mouthpiece and looking the part will only go so far with women as the economy continues to offer them accelerated paths to upper middle class lifestyles. You’re going to have to bring it in all areas as a man.

is it the same during marriage or this only apply to normal relationship

 

[bucks3115]

I have never met a woman that made me feel less than for not shopping or earning more. I'm the bread winner in my family and have never dealt with what some of you guys are describing. Even before I became the bread winner, my wife never made me feel less than for earning less than her.

The amount of money you make should never determine your value as a person. Don't let anyone make you feel like you're not valuable because you earn less.

Prove your worth to yourself and fukk anyone that can't see it.

Yall brehs be strong and don't let these miserable ass people break you.

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talk to talk

 

[mamba]

That's what i thought (and saw irl) but everybody was telling me different. Had me thinking my man was so unusual, asking me ridiculous hypotheticals.

Now I'm really wondering, which men were they talking about and how do they differ from those i know?

I’ve learned to exercise that discipline in my own life. 10 years ago, if she looked good, I was smashing.

Now, I pick and choose, carefully. Cannot have scorned or crazy women undermining what I have going on professionally and socially.

 

[King Poetic]

A HVM man who doesn’t exercise sexual discipline will eventually stumble at best and crash & burn at worst.

It’s absolutely key to exercise discipline in that regard the higher you go.

We’ve seen CEOs, politicians and many others fall from grace simply because they couldn’t exercise sexual discipline.

Our breh Deshaun Watson is currently going through it now. He will not be the last.

yup..

jesse Jackson failed from grace, ton of black mayors and other politicians and athletes the biggest

 

[HarlemHottie]

White lady posted above excerpted an interview by the daughter of the woman who wrote Fascinating Womanhood. Daughter is old af but got a yt. I didn't know the original book was written in response to The Feminine Mystique (great tome of feminism, I read it as a very young woman, it was encouraged ). Feminist diss tracks?

3 minute excerpt



Whole interview (22 min)

 

[mamba]

is it the same during marriage or this only apply to normal relationship

At worst, a woman will likely cheat on her husband if his ability to produce takes a hit long term.

At best, she’ll probably withhold sex or make excuses why she doesn’t want to have sex. She’ll also become very passive aggressive and do the bare minimum to maintain her end of the relationship or marriage.

A lot of women are programmed to believe that a man is supposed to provide fully.

If you aren’t doing that as man, you better be compensating in a major way elsewhere in the relationship or marriage.

Society condones and justifies women behaving this way. Whereas, if a man moved this way, he’d be seen as a monster, controlling and abusive.

 

[mamba]

yup..

jesse Jackson failed from grace, ton of black mayors and other politicians and athletes the biggest

That’s right. I forgot about Jesse’s fall. The revelation that he had a secret child created an opening for Al Sharpton to become the face of Black protest politics.

Before that, Jesse was the guy.

 

[intruder]

Honestly, brehs

I like a lot of his points and he's what some brehs need to hear about getting your game up and working hard to make yourself a better man.
While i love how he checks these delusional women and he's right in most cases, i cant say i support everything he preaches. He's a bit of an extremist and sexist in some aspects.

But he's right more times than not, tho. He just be too far out on some of his views. But like he said this is strictly about the select men whom he refers to at "high value".

 

[Apollo Creed]

Listening now.

So... she's supposed to accept wack dikk indefinitely and share it? Well, bright side: if it's wack, she might not get so emotional about the cheating.

in 2021 most people have sex before marriage lol. So after experience the sex she needs to ask herself if this is something she can live with. Thats the point of the whole BF/GF thing to identify if the characteristics of your partner are things you can live with.

 

[HarlemHottie]

in 2021 most people have sex before marriage lol

I know, lol, but that's how it was framed for discussion.