okay but this brings up a good question. What does a man do if his woman makes significantly more and you aren't a rapper,dealer or gang banger? There's obviously social clout in those things.
That's an even bigger issue IMO. There's a lot of women who have left college and entered the workforce in STEM or for nursing jobs, etc.
If she's making 100k and you work your 9-5 and make 60k, whats your move and how do you maintain the relationship? Does the man become the domestic duty person or does the man break his bank paying for everything? because a lot of these women make a dollar amount, but refuse to do any domestic work.
Only way a woman is going to deal with that imbalance in income long term is if the guy is her physical ideal and is destroying the p*ssy. Both boxes have to be checked.
Even then, her respect for him is only going to go so far.
Black women, more than any other women, fully expect to be taken care of by a man. All women want to be taken care of by a man. But, Black women fully expect it. It’s largely due to their elevated levels of religiosity and not wanting to struggle like the single women they saw in their upbringings.
For them, they’d rather go it alone than have to consistently reach in their purses when with a man. In their minds, they can support themselves just fine. What use are you to them as a man if they are still going to have to pay for stuff?
There’s really no way around it. The Black man is going to have to build wealth, build infrastructure and create jobs if we want a consistent level of femininity and cooperation from our women as a collective.
A good mouthpiece and looking the part will only go so far with women as the economy continues to offer them accelerated paths to upper middle class lifestyles. You’re going to have to bring it in all areas as a man.
college educated woman is willing to date an unemployed drug dealer, but won't deal with a man who makes $40k a year legally.
