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the "HVM cheat" narrative is actually not that controversial to the audience he's talking about.

the reason why that top 5 - 10% of men "cheat" is because their wives get old and fat alot of the times

meanwhile the men keep growing and expanding as they get older..... those men got elite diets, invest in home gyms, etc.... the same discipline they apply to work & business - they also apply to health and fitness.... Men's looks increase as their financial status increases.

dudes be out here 55 looking 35, but alot of HVM wives are washed up.

the reason why the women stay is because they understand they're washed up & they know their man is elite, and they also have children that they are invested in - who go to elite schools and have inheritances. etc etc

I dont recommend regular dudes making 40k to cheat on your wives.... thats for the dudes with driveways full of foreigns and children who go to private schools with multiple properties in different states (and continents)
Black men have crazy longevity too.. even if our lifespans are shorter. But that looking 25 at 50 is real if you take care of yourself. That is also why we are seen as a threat because some of us don’t want to just get fat and drink our juice when we come home
 

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Black men have crazy longevity too.. even if our lifespans are shorter. But that looking 25 at 50 is real if you take care of yourself. That is also why we are seen as a threat because some of us don’t want to just get fat and drink our juice when we come home

exactly bro.... I see it all the time.

successful black men in their 50s still looking young enough to have women from my generation.

Kevin is lying when he says HVM wives always stay fit.... most of the wives have children, get comfortable, get fat, and do not have the same discipline as their husbands to maintain a proper diet and fitness plan.

Men will not divorce their wives and destroy their family bloodline, just because their wife got fat.... thats a dumbass reason.

They'll just get a younger fine chick on the side.

But the wife usually stays because her energy is invested into the success of the children.
 

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Yeah. I think this is beyond pushing it. His presentation of the premise is just super problematic. If he put it as, well if you want a certain lifestyle, this is a possible downside to it. Is dealing with the cheating worth the lifestyle you want to otherwise live? As opposed to, the rich guy can do whatever he wants, deal with it.
That was the original premise but I cannot explain what he is talking about now.
 

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the "HVM cheat" narrative is actually not that controversial to the audience he's talking about.

the reason why that top 5 - 10% of men "cheat" is because their wives get old and fat alot of the times

meanwhile the men keep growing and expanding as they get older..... those men got elite diets, invest in home gyms, etc.... the same discipline they apply to work & business - they also apply to health and fitness.... Men's looks increase as their financial status increases.

dudes be out here 55 looking 35, but alot of HVM wives are washed up.

the reason why the women stay is because they understand they're washed up & they know their man is elite, and they also have children that they are invested in - who go to elite schools and have inheritances. etc etc

I dont recommend regular dudes making 40k to cheat on your wives.... thats for the dudes with driveways full of foreigns and children who go to private schools with multiple properties in different states (and continents)

great post
He's basically tapering the expectations women have of men at the elite level. Even if those dudes don't cheat, they need to understand that the opportunity and temptations will exist.
Some broads have already called up admitting that much while some still call up all shocked and shyt.
That's why dude stay harping on women keeping competitive even after they get married cuz falling off can either create or speed up the cheating process.

I think the biggest takeaway is he wants women to get rid of the notion that they can find the perfect nikka. Not the perfect man for them, but just perfect period. Rich, super loyal, good looking, etc...Like nah you gon have to deal with something damn it. :francis:
 

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I think the biggest takeaway is he wants women to get rid of the notion that they can find the perfect nikka. Not the perfect man for them, but just perfect period. Rich, super loyal, good looking, etc...Like nah you gon have to deal with something damn it. :francis:

Yup, also alot of the chicks triggered about men having options are young broke chicks

most chicks just want a rich man so they can spend his money, and give it right back to white folks.

I realized most chicks dont care about family legacy, bloodline, or the success of their grandchildren - if theyre willing to throw everything away just because they got fat & washed up.

these women will rather have a broke faithful nikka who will condemn their bloodline to a lifetime of labor and struggle.

the women who understand the game, are thinking 200 years into the future.

all powerful families were usually created by one successful man who planted a seed that grew into a family empire.
 

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He's basically tapering the expectations women have of men at the elite level. Even if those dudes don't cheat, they need to understand that the opportunity and temptations will exist.
Some broads have already called up admitting that much while some still call up all shocked and shyt.
That's why dude stay harping on women keeping competitive even after they get married cuz falling off can either create or speed up the cheating process.
You get it.

And competitive is a lot more than looks and fitness. That's the easy part. The more difficult part is keeping his interest, monitoring the flame between us, stoking that spark if it dims, always being supportive, even when he mighta fukked up or if you had a bad day, etc, etc.

I'm on call 24/7. I have scheduled off days but something always needs to be done.
 

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He's pushing the line with the "a HVM should be able to cheat and you should stay no matter what" red pill incel shyt.

Yeah. I think this is beyond pushing it. His presentation of the premise is just super problematic. If he put it as, well if you want a certain lifestyle, this is a possible downside to it. Is dealing with the cheating worth the lifestyle you want to otherwise live? As opposed to, the rich guy can do whatever he wants, deal with it.

Kevin is partially right. HVM do sleep with multiple women more often than not. It is what it is.

The problem or what he is conveniently not acknowledging is that a lot men who cheat are not honest about it and are deceiving the women by telling them they are not cheating or messing around with anyone else. You cant justify lying to your wife. If you want an arrangement it should be discussed up front. HVM hold the cards so you can find definitely a woman to look the other way or even engage in 3 somes with you. But often it might not be the exact woman they want which is why they lie to regular women. There is a tradeoff to everything. Even for men.
 

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:whew: Kevin just explained why my man dont cheat. Another thing i didn't want to say. :hamster:



Again, this is why I appreciate Kevin. :obama:
 

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Yup, also alot of the chicks triggered about men having options are young broke chicks

most chicks just want a rich man so they can spend his money, and give it right back to white folks.

I realized most chicks dont care about family legacy, bloodline, or the success of their grandchildren - if theyre willing to throw everything away just because they got fat & washed up.

these women will rather have a broke faithful nikka who will condemn their bloodline to a lifetime of labor and struggle.

the women who understand the game, are thinking 200 years into the future.

all powerful families were usually created by one successful man who planted a seed that grew into a family empire.

Indeed. The consumer mentality for clout, is really ravaging our livelihoods
 

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Is this a new show y'all are talmbout?

One of his older shows was an extensive one about women being clear regarding their boundaries with financially successful men and he mentioned multiple times the man should respect them in the marriage.
 

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Black men have crazy longevity too.. even if our lifespans are shorter. But that looking 25 at 50 is real if you take care of yourself. That is also why we are seen as a threat because some of us don’t want to just get fat and drink our juice when we come home

Yep. Its kinda a catch 22 for you looking younger than what you actually are. Especially for black men.
 

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The problem or what he is conveniently not acknowledging is that a lot men who cheat are not honest about it and are deceiving the women by telling them they are not cheating or messing around with anyone else.
He started out saying dude should be honest. In the most recent show, he went even further, saying that cheating should be expected. But! He agreed with a caller that there should be rules. So im assuming those rules cover the 'no babies, no embarrassment, no stds' thing he mentioned before.

His theory is not wrong, it's just disjointed bc this may be the first time he's explaining the concept to total newbies. These are well known rules.

I mentioned earlier in the thread that my mother was mistress to a hv(b)m. She followed these rules, tho she later halfway regretted it bc they really had been madly in love. I saw it with my own eyes and we all benefited from that connection.
 

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How can you be a incel if you’re cheating with women :dwillhuh:

Do you nikkas proofread before you make posts?


Incels aren’t married at all.


Kevin Samuels, on this issue is pandering to the element of his base that thinks when should bow down no matter what if the man is high value. He’s not coming from a pragmatic place. He’s not saying that if cheating happens u should work it out he’s saying the woman should have no qualms about it at all.
 

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You get it.

And competitive is a lot more than looks and fitness. That's the easy part. The more difficult part is keeping his interest, monitoring the flame between us, stoking that spark if it dims, always being supportive, even when he mighta fukked up or if you had a bad day, etc, etc.

I'm on call 24/7. I have scheduled off days but something always needs to be done.

:whoo: Your husband gets to have side p*ssy? Damn he lucky :damn:
 
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