Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread
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Chick was insufferable. You buggin.
Any woman who says "I'm trying to be respectful to your platform" three whole times is NOT trying to be respectful to your platform. I died when Kevin asked her, "
Why do you keep saying that? You're supposed to be respectful." Even she had to laugh at how ridiculous she was sounding.
Exactly. nikkas really thinking the audience missed out on some gems of life cuz she couldn't finish spewing bullshyt.
Any dude that actually wanted to hear her talk in circles and never give yes or no answers when pressed are prolly the same type of dudes that will take a chick on a date and listen to her talk bird babble for hours. And any woman that actually wanted to hear what she had to say is prolly guilty of talking in the same non productive manner.
On top of the whole trying to be respectful to your platform thing she had which was rude. Her round about explanations for simple shyt were making her look worse than if she would have just answered straight up. She came off real selfish and egotistical.
Exactly. nikkas really thinking the audience missed out on some gems of life cuz she couldn't finish spewing bullshyt.
Any dude that actually wanted to hear her talk in circles and never give yes or no answers when pressed are prolly the same type of dudes that will take a chick on a date and listen to her talk bird babble for hours. And any woman that actually wanted to hear what she had to say is prolly guilty of talking in the same non productive manner.
On top of the whole trying to be respectful to your platform thing she had which was rude. Her round about explanations for simple shyt were making her look worse than if she would have just answered straight up. She came off real selfish and egotistical.
That's why I laugh when people even in this thread say "let the women on the show fully debate". If that was the case, the whole 2 hour show would only be about 2 callers with a whole lot of useless back and forth. Him running a tight ship keeps the show moving and get as many calls in.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Sorry, i didn't get the alert.
Thanks, breh. To your question, absolutely. I greatly respect ANY bm who can insulate his family from Babylon. Its a necessity now. 
Last night was the first time I'd actually been inside a store since Dec 2019. We've been ordering everything online, blowing up a budget largely predicated on normal nyc price competition. But he kept me isolated bc i had childhood asthma, and he PAID for it.
How might i have felt if id been forced to interact with the public, either professionally or as a consumer?
To be completely accurate, all the men i dealt with "had potential", top schools, etc. I couldn't risk it bc my position was too tenuous. But the ones i took seriously usually had well to do parents (= inheritance) and were only children. The inheritance thing was subconscious, i wasn't aware of it at the time.
I have all kinda friends. I notice the ones who grew up middle class (or adjacent, like had they daddy in the house) are the least money conscious. Lower class, they about that guap.
Upper middle class- upper class are perfectly willing to 'slum' during a 'phase,' but they ain't cuffing. 
Facts
Besides, most of those callers don't be trying to have an honest debate. Just like the Kendra chick was trying to set up hypothetical disingenuous situations where she could crowbar her bullshyt talking points that don't really address anything. KS easily saw through that and wouldn't let her get started. If you truly have worthwhile substance to say, you should be able to articulate it quickly when going to other platforms. You shouldn't need to keep setting up different circumstances or etc....to get your point across.
Her problem is she normalized that toxic way of conversation so she thinks its acceptable everywhere.
ogc163
Superstar
I saw this with woman from undergrad and in my fam, too many Black fathers enable bad behavior byway of paying for rent, co-signing mediocre suitors, and putting money towards overpriced weddings. And then they wonder why their grandchildren end up underperforming decades later despite the relative advantages.
I have come to the conclusion bad habits have to be weeded out, and good habits have to be made explicit. Too many Black fathers are providing shallow rules of thumb and allowing social media, their daughters friends group, and others to fill in the vacuum.
Many men get blinded by the "raised in a two parent household" not fully considering that the Dad wasn't the one running the house. Me and my boy had a discussion about when he met his wife's dad, and I asked him if he was nervous about meeting the man and his response was "Nah I wasn't worried at all beloved, I was sizing him up, just as much if not more than he was sizing me up. I was checking to see if he ran a tight ship".
exactly. If i see a womans father is a spineless simp and mom ran the house i dont want anything to do with her long term
You brehs make some good points regarding the father.
A fatherless woman and a woman with a super simp, spineless father are equally ill-suited to be a good wife to you.
Her perception of a man’s role is fundamentally flawed.
What I’ve learned is that you need to get to know the father early on in the process. Get an idea of his thought process. What type of power did he have in the household?
You want a woman who has seen a man exert his power and opinions in the household without walking on eggshells.
If her father is one of those “happy wife, happy life” types, run! She will likely have the princess mindset and has seen her mother run all over her father without any consequences.
I’ve also seen situations where the divorced father babies his daughter to get back at the mom. It also skews the woman’s mindset.
Ideally, you want a woman from a two-parent household who has seen Black masculinity assert itself.
A fatherless woman and a woman with a super simp, spineless father are equally ill-suited to be a good wife to you.
Her perception of a man’s role is fundamentally flawed.
What I’ve learned is that you need to get to know the father early on in the process. Get an idea of his thought process. What type of power did he have in the household?
You want a woman who has seen a man exert his power and opinions in the household without walking on eggshells.
If her father is one of those “happy wife, happy life” types, run! She will likely have the princess mindset and has seen her mother run all over her father without any consequences.
I’ve also seen situations where the divorced father babies his daughter to get back at the mom. It also skews the woman’s mindset.
Ideally, you want a woman from a two-parent household who has seen Black masculinity assert itself.
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Just some ammo for interested dudes... There is no such thing as a historical "matriarchal" society. As far as we have evidence and proof of, one has never existed in the entire history of the human species. The origin of these myths stem from a book by Swiss anthropologist, Johann Jakob Bachofen..Mother Right: an investigation of the religious and juridical character of matriarchy in the Ancient World. Bachofen uses ancient Greek stories, like the Illiad, Roman poets, like Virgil, and other fantastical sources to posit the theory that early human societies were matriarchal. Bachofen's work wasn't taken literally until the late 1800s, when scholars like Jane Ellen Harrison used his theories as the basis for developing mythology-based ideologies, and not seriously until the 1950s, when feminist archeologist Marija Gimbutas presented his theories, among others, as fact in her formulation of "Old Europe", where matriarchal societies roamed the region with love, rainbows and gay sex, until they were invaded and displaced by murderous patriarchal nomads.
Just some ammo for interested dudes... There is no such thing as a historical "matriarchal" society. As far as we have evidence and proof of, one has never existed in the entire history of the human species. The origin of these myths stem from a book by Swiss anthropologist, Johann Jakob Bachofen..Mother Right: an investigation of the religious and juridical character of matriarchy in the Ancient World. Bachofen uses ancient Greek stories, like the Illiad, Roman poets, like Virgil, and other fantastical sources to posit the theory that early human societies were matriarchal. Bachofen's work wasn't taken literally until the late 1800s, when scholars like Jane Ellen Harrison used his theories as the basis for developing mythology-based ideologies, and not seriously until the 1950s, when feminist archeologist Marija Gimbutas presented his theories, among others, as fact in her formulation of "Old Europe", where matriarchal societies roamed the region with love, rainbows and gay sex, until they were invaded and displaced by murderous patriarchal nomads.
Someone is a previous thread money being the “equalizer” to attractive women, when really it’s not.
Cause the sex is gona be different. You can flaunt your money and resources all you want, but the box won’t feel the same compared to the guy she’s REALLY attracted too.
Cause the sex is gona be different. You can flaunt your money and resources all you want, but the box won’t feel the same compared to the guy she’s REALLY attracted too.
ultraflexed
Superstar
The sex is diff between the F boy a woman lusts after and the husband type a women wants to lock down
Actually6Foot3
Veteran
1000% I've been the F boy to a few chics and I've been the husband typebto my ex. The F boy gets freak sex all the time any time, nudes, freaky texts randomly though the day.
Husband type is relatively mundane and predictable shyt. My ex wouldn't even wear thongs smh granny panties
nothing of value was lost with that relationship. meanwhile my rotation would pull up in thongs and bodysuits and always asked if I wanted some food 
This something men lose sight of, myself included, is we have to still play into the shallow things that attracted our women to us. Staying groomed, in shape, dressing fly, talking to her like she’s new vagina and more. That is what I do with my wife.
However, we must hold our women to the same regard. Never that get comfortable stuff and be willing to leave. Not cheat or ask for a hall pass (swinger talk meaning permission to have someone with someone absent the spouse) but leave.