This is sad, she reminds me of my sister minus the husband & kids. Just goes to show "middle-class" millennials don't have it together any better than their parents
I need to catch that one from the beginning but it sounded like a complete mess
This is sad, she reminds me of my sister minus the husband & kids. Just goes to show "middle-class" millennials don't have it together any better than their parents
A lot of them just wanted to make a lot of money to finance their lifestyles until they get married. The shopping, the city living, the brunches, the girl trips, etc. That's why they went for the advanced degrees. Because advanced degrees = more money. Most of them are not passionate about the things they are doing for a living. I know a lot of professional woman who hate their jobs.
Once they get married, in their minds, all of their needs should fall on their husband, financially. For them, that's one of the purposes of having a husband. Otherwise, in their minds, what's the use? They can already support themselves, financially.
The definition of provider has shifted in American culture. Provider meant something different back in the day. A man providing meant providing food, clothing, housing, leadership and protection to a family. Which included his woman.
Now, providing means doing all of the traditional stuff of years past, but also absorbing the spending she did prior to entering a union with you. So, you need to be able to provide the traditional plus her excess.
If your salary cannot support that, she does not see you as a provider in the modern sense. She sees you as a roommate!
This low key confused me. Shorty seemed chill. I don’t see a problem with any of it lol doesn’t he tell high earning women to not shyt on average men?
The expectations that black men are expected to have in the dating game, is just ridiculous.
Gotta be a boss
Gotta live in an expensive condo
Gotta drive a European whip
Gotta have clout and high social standing
Gotta be lit and turning up every weekend
Gotta have the mindstate of Fred Hampton, with the thorough-ness of a 90s street rapper
Gotta have the right words, at the right times.
Its like.....damn...can I breathe and be my damn self?
This low key confused me. Shorty seemed chill. I don’t see a problem with any of it lol doesn’t he tell high earning women to not shyt on average men?
Nah I get where you’re coming from when you said getting called bytch and hoe and I see how it causes women to be angry about it.
But you also didn’t mention when black women call black men dusty, bullet bags, conquered, broke, etc.
They make fun when bad things happen to black men. They even say they want to abort black boys.
That sounds a lot worse to me than what black men say.
These women want black men to be harmed and enjoy it when it happens.
Imagine seeing that when you think of black women in a positive light.
My main question isn’t exactly why are they angry or dating out; it’s if they don’t like black men, why are they coming into black male spaces constantly talking shyt, and why are they talking to black men about their preferences and why black men ain’t shyt when that isn’t asked?
Why are they just not going away?
And I thank you for the response. I really wanted your input.
I was just talking about the stuff I’ve seen online. They did say those things for real.Why would I mention all that about men when YOU asked specifically about women? And BW don't collectively call BM bullet bags and celebrite when BM are harmed. That's a very disingenuous thing to say.
And I already addressed why they don't go away or come into your space; tribalism and trauma.
You're welcome
the chat had these chicks lookin depressed, more so the chat; they were ruthless!!
Can you explain?Kevin samuels is venturing into incel babble instead of holding women accountable.
Can you explain?