Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

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A lot of them just wanted to make a lot of money to finance their lifestyles until they get married. The shopping, the city living, the brunches, the girl trips, etc. That's why they went for the advanced degrees. Because advanced degrees = more money. Most of them are not passionate about the things they are doing for a living. I know a lot of professional woman who hate their jobs.

Once they get married, in their minds, all of their needs should fall on their husband, financially. For them, that's one of the purposes of having a husband. Otherwise, in their minds, what's the use? They can already support themselves, financially.

The definition of provider has shifted in American culture. Provider meant something different back in the day. A man providing meant providing food, clothing, housing, leadership and protection to a family. Which included his woman.

Now, providing means doing all of the traditional stuff of years past, but also absorbing the spending she did prior to entering a union with you. So, you need to be able to provide the traditional plus her excess.

If your salary cannot support that, she does not see you as a provider in the modern sense. She sees you as a roommate!
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This low key confused me. Shorty seemed chill. I don’t see a problem with any of it lol doesn’t he tell high earning women to not shyt on average men?


Yeah he just seem over the top sometimes, if she woulda said she wants a high value man he would of have got her outta here, just seems like he was looking for an issue

The expectations that black men are expected to have in the dating game, is just ridiculous.

Gotta be a boss

Gotta live in an expensive condo

Gotta drive a European whip

Gotta have clout and high social standing

Gotta be lit and turning up every weekend

Gotta have the mindstate of Fred Hampton, with the thorough-ness of a 90s street rapper

Gotta have the right words, at the right times.

Its like.....damn...can I breathe and be my damn self?

Word breh, I just wanna be a young fly nikka with bread, living life on my terms....that's all :wow:
 

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This low key confused me. Shorty seemed chill. I don’t see a problem with any of it lol doesn’t he tell high earning women to not shyt on average men?

She wasn't being honest.

Watch it, again and forget about her saying she doesn't care about the amount of money a man makes.
 

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Nah I get where you’re coming from when you said getting called bytch and hoe and I see how it causes women to be angry about it.

But you also didn’t mention when black women call black men dusty, bullet bags, conquered, broke, etc.

They make fun when bad things happen to black men. They even say they want to abort black boys.

That sounds a lot worse to me than what black men say.

These women want black men to be harmed and enjoy it when it happens.

Imagine seeing that when you think of black women in a positive light.

My main question isn’t exactly why are they angry or dating out; it’s if they don’t like black men, why are they coming into black male spaces constantly talking shyt, and why are they talking to black men about their preferences and why black men ain’t shyt when that isn’t asked?

Why are they just not going away?

And I thank you for the response. I really wanted your input.

Why would I mention all that about men when YOU asked specifically about women? And BW don't collectively call BM bullet bags and celebrite when BM are harmed. That's a very disingenuous thing to say.

And I already addressed why they don't go away or come into your space; tribalism and trauma.

You're welcome
 

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As in culture exchanges

it can't be this high-value, low-value thing. That's getting old

It's going to be an outright t black men/black women relationship slash men and women culture show

Where he addresses the over dynamic between black men and women

that's where it has to head eventually
 

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Breh said men doesn't want a companionship, men want to play playstation 5, and every now and then say to the women "could you grab me a coke", or what you cooking tonight and go back to playing COD

Dude said men don't wanna hang out, they want to hang out with their own friend

LMAOO

I'm rolling
 

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Why would I mention all that about men when YOU asked specifically about women? And BW don't collectively call BM bullet bags and celebrite when BM are harmed. That's a very disingenuous thing to say.

And I already addressed why they don't go away or come into your space; tribalism and trauma.

You're welcome
I was just talking about the stuff I’ve seen online. They did say those things for real.

Just hope things get better for everyone.
 

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Kevin and the chat had these chicks lookin depressed, more so the chat; they were ruthless!!

One dude said it made him happy.

:russ::mjlol:

But on the real I feel the chat shouldn’t be that cruel to these women, now I kind of see why they say these things about the chat.

I actually felt bad for some of these women, they didn’t deserve that.
 
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