SheWantTheD
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Anytime they tell you black men lefft the home and never wanted a family you send them this and tell them chill the fukk out.......
Thanks for this!
Anytime they tell you black men lefft the home and never wanted a family you send them this and tell them chill the fukk out.......
I've been through this twice. One with my son mother and the other with my last girlfriend.
My son mom did hair. she had a crazy cash flow. I had regular job. Wasnt nothing to crazy but I was making more than the average dude(which of course she didnt realize). But I didnt give a fukk. I had time to take my son to school, pick him up, take him to football, take him to boxing and brought him home fed him and did homework. You couldnt tell me shyt. I was happy. She hit me with that I could do bad by myself and I bounced. shyt hurt me as fukk to be away from my son. But I was not going to let a bytch talk crazy to me.
Ex girl, We made around the same but she worked in city hall. Went back to school and started to act funny. I dont remember but I either heard her say it or she said some shyt about her feeling like we are roommates. I learnt my lesson the first time. I kept my room with uncle at my old apartment. I wasnt going to get got. She ended it, hurt like shyt because I said that was my last girlfriend. And sure enough she was my last one(just have a few I deal with occasionally)...
Both of them tried to spin back to me....... Curved the fukk out of them.
Nah, one thing for sure she knew not to pull that. Kid Been living with me for the past couple years(he 19 now).Hope you still in ya son life.
His baby mama ain’t got shyt to do with you and him!
Black women are known for saying that line! They "want a man, not a roommate."
They want you to pay all the bills and spoil them. Otherwise, according to them, they can do bad all by themselves.
That has been the result of the white man elevating them above Black men.
It was the perfect chess move by the white man to destabilize our community.
We have to develop and support early educational programs for Black boys. Dr. T always mentions the high rates of Black boys who are behind in terms of reading levels. This deficit can compound as they advance in school, leading to many just saying "fukk this wack ass school shyt".
A lot of these dudes are raised by single mothers
When they here a man speak with bass in their voice they get scared
Who is the chicc?
Who is the chicc?
Real shyt 101 naw this is a master class.women just wired different breh. lol yall brehs need to create a men only space to be honest. Me and my brehs from college (majority married now) always kept women in an associate lane, those who kept women close ended up falling behind because they were still chasing the party/brunch live every weekend while brehs were grinding. Nothing wrong with having fun and treating yourself, but when you are always in proximity of women a switch flips in most dudes heads that they have to keep those women entertained.
It's why many folks say its best to either legit married or completely single when you are in a grind phase, because a gf will distract you being that yall aren't married so she doesn't 'owe' it to you to sacrifice her 'fun'. Some dudes get around this by rushing to get engaged so then the Woman has incentive to 'stay down' but i dont believe in that personally. This is why often times people say 35 to 40 is the magic number for men because you enter the smooth sailing phase of your career.