Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[brandy]

This low key confused me. Shorty seemed chill. I don’t see a problem with any of it lol doesn’t he tell high earning women to not shyt on average men?

I honestly don’t know why she called in. She said she was perfectly content with her relationship. She wasn’t inquiring about HVM. Why call? Other folks had something to say that could have advanced the conversation.

I'm finally watching last night's show. Lowkey got that Diptyque candle in my Nordstrom cart.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I guarantee you she would never give his black equivalent the time of day.

 

[theflyest]

I honestly don’t know why she called in. She said she was perfectly content with her relationship. She wasn’t inquiring about HVM. Why call? Other folks had something to say that could have advanced the conversation.

I'm finally watching last night's show. Lowkey got that Diptyque candle in my Nordstrom cart.

You can’t overlook the fact that she may have been lying.

I don’t think she has a man. Every question he asked about her “man,” she had to come up with something.

 

[Elle Seven]

I don't know where to find the young women who could most use my advice.

Honestly, I am sincerely interested in hearing your takes on the topic. I'm slightly older than you and have been married a few years less than you have, so I fall into neither the young or single category lol. However, I'm always looking to learn knowledge I can pass on to the young women I'm raising myself, as well as a slew of nieces. As you seem to be living that particular life, you'd have credible pearls to share and they could help some of us get better ourselves or just raise the new generation of women to achieve the same.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Honestly, I am sincerely interested in hearing your takes on the topic. I'm slightly older than you and have been married a few years less than you have, so I fall into neither the young or single category lol. However, I'm always looking to learn knowledge I can pass on to the young women I'm raising myself, as well as a slew of nieces. As you seem to be living that particular life, you'd have credible pearls to share and they could help some of us get better ourselves or just raise the new generation of women to achieve the same.

Awww! Nice to meet you.

Give me some idea of topics you might be interested in. Where should we do this? Pm? The salon?

@brandy

 

[Fani Willis fan]

Sometimes he over the top. A chick making 3x as much as her partner don’t need to be saying “yes sir no sir” to anybody, idk why he thinks thats required. She not a handmaiden

 

[HarlemHottie]

As long as you’re a good wife and treat your man like a king I see no problem with him taking care of you.

I try my best but i aim to improve everyday. Speaking of which, this reminded me that i need to get better with excel (for inflow/ outflow reports).

also when you give people who dont have legacy building as part of their nature, that 6 figure income goes right back to you lol.

Lotta brehs will ride used whips, live modest and simple when they hit six figures. These callers be doing their passport gang trips, brunch, new BMW, penthouse downtown stuff, not even trying to pay off they student loans.

I'm seeing more and more brehs opting for the minimalism wave.

That's us. We've done well throughout the numerous financial downturns, but 2008 got him on board. He grew up wearing Burberry and lacoste. I grew up on slightly lessor brands, but from the clearance rack. I showed him it could be done while maintaining a good qol.

Home cooking really opened his eyes bc his mom didn't cook at all. He was shocked at how cheaply you could buy pounds of filet mignon from stew Leonard vs a single meal at ruth chris.

 

[Balla]

I try my best but i aim to improve everyday. Speaking of which, this reminded me that i need to get better with excel (for inflow/ outflow reports).


That's us. We've done well throughout the numerous financial downturns, but 2008 got him on board. He grew up wearing Burberry and lacoste. I grew up on slightly lessor brands, but from the clearance rack. I showed him it could be done while maintaining a good qol.

Home cooking really opened his eyes bc his mom didn't cook at all. He was shocked at how cheaply you could buy pounds of filet mignon from stew Leonard vs a single meal at ruth chris.

So how exactly do you plan on helping women be women instead of masculine?

 

[Balla]

Sometimes he over the top. A chick making 3x as much as her partner don’t need to be saying “yes sir no sir” to anybody, idk why he thinks thats required. She not a handmaiden

What episode was that?

 

[DA_LURKA]

Sometimes he over the top. A chick making 3x as much as her partner don’t need to be saying “yes sir no sir” to anybody, idk why he thinks thats required. She not a handmaiden

Time stamped link I've never heard him make this point...

 

[Balla]

In all honesty, I don’t think men should get with women that make substantially more than them, maybe not even if they make a little more than them.

The man will have to deal with her thinking she runs things, she’s gonna be mad because he makes less than her.

Recipe for disaster.

 

[philmonroe]

I guarantee you she would never give his black equivalent the time of day.

How do you know? Sounds like insecurity talking. This happens every now and then with women where the women makes more than her dude. It’s not just IR couples where this happens.

 

[HarlemHottie]

So how exactly do you plan on helping women be women instead of masculine?

No idea. When i tried before, i needed somebody like KS to back me up bc they thought i was lying (about high value bm and what they wanted in a woman). It didn't help that the divesters and the feminists had more numbers and were better organized.

Maybe it'll be different now.

 

[Balla]

No idea. When i tried before, i needed somebody like KS to back me up bc they thought i was lying (about high value bm and what they wanted in a woman). It didn't help that the divesters and the feminists had more numbers and were better organized.

Maybe it'll be different now.

I’m glad you brought up these divesters.

I need a woman’s point of view on this because I genuinely don’t understand them.

I kid you not, I’m watching a random video, unrelated to KS, and one of them snuck in the comments and started talking about how black men hate black women.

Another video that is related to KS, so I can understand them being on it kinda. I know this chick was from the that femcel wench site because her comments are exactly the same.

She talks about black men being conquered and how they have to date out to get resources because black men have none.

Typical Bullshyt lmao.

These chicks just flood everywhere online talking about the same shyt.

But I was wondering what is going on with these women for real?

Do they need attention that bad? Do they secretly love black men but been ran through so much they bitter, or is it that they are just mentally ill and it can’t be explained?

I’d really like a woman’s perspective on this because I don’t see how you can not like something, but stay having them in your mouth, going to their spaces, talking about them every single day, etc.

 

[HarlemHottie]

But I was wondering what is going on with these women for real?

Do they need attention that bad? Do they secretly love black men but been ran through so much they bitter, or is it that they are just mentally ill and it can’t be explained?

I’d really like a woman’s perspective on this because I don’t see how you can not like something, but stay having them in your mouth, going to their spaces, talking about them every single day, etc.

I mentioned that i used to post on a bw board (not lsa). Christelyn joined. We (i and a bunch of bw married to bm who had black sons) ran her ass off.

Yet, a scant few years later, those same women were agreeing with her, DESPITE their black husbands and sons. I asked how that could be. They told me that their husbands and sons were one in a million, but them nikkas over there be....

What i realized was, the bw talking this shyt on line could very well have amazing bm in their lives, and still talk this shyt. But this is how propaganda works. How else could a wp 'hate ******s' but marry one? Same shyt.

For the singles, it's simpler. Bm are not very good at pr and/ or y'all have strong forces arrayed against you. Either way, you don't defend yourselves. Instead of, " Hell no, we not out here chasing and embarrassing ourselves over cave bytches," it's "Yes we do, and we like them better. "

I personally believe that bm are not using the media properly. You're letting the examples of those who married out linger instead of subsuming them within a wider sea of 'who bm marry' which, according to the stats, is bw. By doing so, you're giving the divesters ammo.

Women, at base, want to be loved and desired. According to the media, bm don't love and desire bw. A woman scorned tends to act out. This isn't complicated. I'm only different bc ive had great experiences with bm. If I'd had shytty experiences, I'd probably be married to a rich wm. Which would be a waste.