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That concept is true. Women never leave a relationship just to be alone and single.

There’s always some guy lurking who they have established a solid enough bond with that will fill that void once she exits the relationship with you. She only makes that leap when she feels confident that the other guy is a serious prospect.

Until lurker guy gives her the green light via his words or actions, she will go through the motions with you. But her emotions will be focused more and more on the other guy.

Which is why, once they exit, they can go stone cold on you, emotionally. That’s because she’s wiped you out our her mind long before the actual breakup!
I was on the receiving end of that with my son’s mom with her now-husband. She had that lined up. It’s been over 5 years now. I’m happy for it but that was treacherous time.
 

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That concept is true. Women never leave a relationship just to be alone and single.

There’s always some guy lurking who they have established a solid enough bond with that will fill that void once she exits the relationship with you. She only makes that leap when she feels confident that the other guy is a serious prospect.

Until lurker guy gives her the green light via his words or actions, she will go through the motions with you. But her emotions will be focused more and more on the other guy.

Which is why, once they exit, they can go stone cold on you, emotionally. That’s because she’s wiped you out our her mind long before the actual breakup!

:wow: All Facts
 

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Its crazy how popular he is now joe budden mentioned him yesterday. Real talk is he the first black man to take like this?
 

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For real.

And blame gangsta rap back in the 90s, thinking that a nikka that behaves like Pac, has access to Puffy level of money.
It is also carried over till now unfortunately and also the whole dumbing yourself down to attract cute hood chicks in high school putting hood culture in the forefront in the urban community over the years was a mistake
 
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That concept is true. Women never leave a relationship just to be alone and single.

There’s always some guy lurking who they have established a solid enough bond with that will fill that void once she exits the relationship with you. She only makes that leap when she feels confident that the other guy is a serious prospect.

Until lurker guy gives her the green light via his words or actions, she will go through the motions with you. But her emotions will be focused more and more on the other guy.

Which is why, once they exit, they can go stone cold on you, emotionally. That’s because she’s wiped you out our her mind long before the actual breakup!

oh I've know, I've been the guy a woman 'branched to' before. Women will paint the last relationship as if it's already over, so you dont have the proper context (not like dudes even care lol).

The way the game is, I tell brehs to keep hobbies to keep themselves occupied or never give up their roster lmfao because starting over (building a roster) sucks and at least hobbies can keep your mind off sex and stuff.
 

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It is also carried over till now unfortunately and also the whole dumbing yourself down to attract cute hood chicks in high school putting hood culture in the forefront in the urban community

Yep. Because elevating your mindset to that way of thinking requires sacrificing a lot of pleasure and realities that would be shattered.
 
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I was on the receiving end of that with my son’s mom with her now-husband. She had that lined up. It’s been over 5 years now. I’m happy for it but that was treacherous time.

main thing is you made it out, and that experience is necessary to manhood. I usually say the earlier a breh goes through heartbreak or being exposed to the real nature of a woman the better, because he can bounce back. When you are older it can become a dangerous game to be inexperienced as you likely have more to lose.
 

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Its crazy how popular he is now joe budden mentioned him yesterday. Real talk is he the first black man to take like this?
YouTube wise I would say yes. He is strictly on YouTube and people know him.

Most YouTube famous black people crossover and try to get into the music business or something else, so they’re known from there.

But a red pill self improvement YouTube dude? I haven’t seen anything like it before.

He’s even more popular now than he was once people saw your average at best, which was months ago.
 

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Plenty of fine sisters doing their thing stop all of that incel babble

To be fair, these are not the type of women that call in the show primarily. These women based on the photos are too busy studying.. Many, not all, but many women that call in the show are the ones that are seeking validation and are broken, bitter, delusional and have baggages....

However, it can be problematic when some of the sistas use their degrees as a weapon towards black men belittling the brothers and using that as a sheild . One thing kevin said many I've talked about and many folks overlook is that some cultures the females go to college and seek their men to marry as oppose to using those college and grad school years to only date and postpone serious relationship with their classmates in grad school then comes to the hood and meet other dudes and get pregnant and now want the type of man that didn't get them pregnant and didn't want in college and this and that etc......

Lots of intelligent black women. I think kevin was saying that some of.these high value men that he mentioned based on the criteria and his assessment the men generally don't care about degree or income.
I've witness this first hand from couple guys that marry women because they were graceful,charming, pretty, feminine, and value having a family and didn't have that diva persona. Yet they didn't have high ranking education but they were excellent in other areas in their lives.


Of course an engineer seeing a sista engineer and the link up and stuff but I'm talking about face value.

If your a female with masculine domineering energy and have baggage ,the that's the issue.

In the meantime, nice pics salute to these sistas. Hope the bitter older sistas types don't grab hold of them mentally
 
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To be fair, these are not the type of women that call in the show primarily. However, it can be problematic if some of the sistas use their degrees as a weapon towards black men . One thing kevin said many I've talked about and many folks overlook is that some cultures the females go to college and meet their men to marry as oppose to using those college and head school years to only date and postpone serious relationship with their classmates in grad school then comes to the hood and meet other dudes and get pregnant and now want the type of man that didn't get them pregnant and didn't want in college and this and that etc......

Lots of intelligent black women. I think kevin was saying that some of.these high value men that he mentioned based on the criteria and his assessment the men generally don't care about degree or income.
I'm witness this first hand
Of course an engineer seeing a sista engineer and the link up and stuff but I'm talking about face value.

If your a female with masculine domineering energy and have baggage ,the that's the issue.

In the meantime, nice pics salute to these sistas. Hope the bitter older sistas types don't grab hold of them mentally
Sistas do use their degrees and whatever else they can against black men.

I'm not saying it in a negative way, but in a factual way.

Any thing they could brag about to me, they would.

It wasn’t degrees though, but anything else they could think of.
 

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To be fair, these are not the type of women that call in the show primarily. However, it can be problematic if some of the sistas use their degrees as a weapon towards black men . One thing kevin said many I've talked about and many folks overlook is that some cultures the females go to college and meet their men to marry as oppose to using those college and head school years to only date and postpone serious relationship with their classmates in grad school then comes to the hood and meet other dudes and get pregnant and now want the type of man that didn't get them pregnant and didn't want in college and this and that etc......

Lots of intelligent black women. I think kevin was saying that some of.these high value men that he mentioned based on the criteria and his assessment the men generally don't care about degree or income.
I'm witness this first hand
Of course an engineer seeing a sista engineer and the link up and stuff but I'm talking about face value.

If your a female with masculine domineering energy and have baggage ,the that's the issue.

In the meantime, nice pics salute to these sistas. Hope the bitter older sistas types don't grab hold of them mentally


I think the bitterness comes from the fact that some women get to 30-35 and realize that they have to compete with the 23-29 year old women like the ones pictured above for the same men.
 

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That's what it sounds like. :ld:

:ohhh: Every woman i know with a sedentary job is, minimum, 20 lbs overweight.

That's by societal design. These "6 figure earning" BW that are overweight/obese take the masculine role because no man of wealth or value would take them. Basically, a demographic sterilization because if these fat/obese BW dont have kids, then there is no wealth to pass down to.

No wealth passing down to black hands of the next generation = no collective power.

Which leads to the resources of fractured black families being heavily misplaced.
 
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