i couldn't see her cause I was listening to it while driving, but chick kept laughing to hide the pain lol.
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i couldn't see her cause I was listening to it while driving, but chick kept laughing to hide the pain lol.
The mother is the first child's teacher (daughter) If she sees how her mother treat her daddy, make statements like "he aint this or that, he don't run me, he doesn't know what he's talking about' that little girl will pick up that energy, not knowing this is the 1st lesson to her seeing how black men are treated, and the sad thing about this is that it's her dad, she will take that energy and have that within her to treat other black men like that. Thus the little girl growing up to never be submissive to a man. Sassy attitudes etc
If her mother isn't serving or being submissive to her dad, more than likely the daughter won't be submissive or serve her dude, unless on special occasions, b-days, anniversaries, etc.
If the daughter witness her mother serving no man, she will more than likely not serve or be submissive to her man
This is not to say this will happen to all little girls and they will turn out this way, but this gem, plays a huge part in some women upbringing and they don't even know it.
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Breh
Breh you have been on one
breh they legit having a boxing training camp type of approach, where once they land you, the relationship is off season, and you see they never had the habits that attracted you, it was just being done to lock you in. This is why I'm like brehs can do that 6 months stuff if you want lol but you damn near gotta act like you pledging her into your organization to see if she really is who she presents.
These women don’t want to be women. They want to be masculine, play the field, then find a wife.... oops I mean husband.
But since the man has to be the breadwinner in society, those women can’t gloat about men making less than them, so they want a man with a high income who in his right mind doesn’t want them.
When you really think about it, they get off on the fact they are more successful than the lower income men who would holla at them.
These people really aren’t as nice as they seem because they can be fine with dating a dude with lower income if no other dude is checking for them.
No one said he has to be broke, but if he can take care of himself without your help you shouldn’t be single!!
These chicks don’t even have boyfriends, forget about marriage.
What does that tell you!?
And I don’t blame the nice women for not calling in that actually like men, those women who talk shyt are negative people.
They say pick me this and pick me that and shame those women, but the nice women are like a breath of fresh air to men.
It’s not about being a pick me; it’s about being a normal human being that’s not bitter.
Women who understand men and that are actually nice are great to be around, too bad there isn’t many.
Lord Bison
Superstar
There's more women who lie about being 6 cert, 6 figure gang than the brehs who do it here on the Coli. As asinine as it sounds, Im starting to believe its true.
Women lying about their income to make themselves more attractive in the eyes of a HVM is some 2020's fukkery if ive ever seen it
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Im actually working really hard to find a community of like minded women. #TradWife is a bit too religious (and a bit too white) for me to manage rn, but i may be forced. Im just looking for a place where im not shamed. Crazy how trannies are acceptable and housewives aren't.
thats the issue many conservative black people face. In the context of the USA 'conservative' is equated to white culture, when in reality black people globally are 'conservative' when it comes to the traditions and values of their people. So often times you are forced to choose between MAGA or Dems who dont care about you and maybe black folks just opt out completely (or of course lean to Dems due to their covert racism opposed to MAGA overtness).
Lmao trehs aren’t accepted either. You see how they bash KS and the men who watch him right??
This is a bitter hurt woman thing, I never knew so many women were like this. I actually met one who was so fukked up in the head, I don’t know what black men did to her, actually maybe she didn’t love herself because she wanted mixed babies.
Anyway, you know a lot of negative women like that?
Do they talk trash because you aren’t like them?
I’m interested in your story on these women you know and how you are so different.
I don’t see how that’s attractive though. I can see if they are in the same field, then they basically already know what they make without stating it.There's more women who lie about being 6 cert, 6 figure gang than the brehs who do it here on the Coli. As asinine as it sounds, Im starting to believe its true.
Women lying about their income to make themselves more attractive in the eyes of a HVM is some 2020's fukkery if ive ever seen it
But what man really care how much you make if you’re able to at least take care of yourself?
All a chick has to do is take care of herself, have a nice attitude, no kids or a checkered past, etc.
Them losing weight is actually the least required unless it’s that bad.
Chicks can have a lil fat on em and still be dateable.
It’s very simple for a woman to find a man.
The caller who grew up in London was pretty cool, minimum make-up and actually listened.
Her energy states that she is understanding the relationship world.
She may find her someone and her situation may be great
Kevin hit her with "you need to be with a man that can teach you things"
Her energy states that she is understanding the relationship world.
She may find her someone and her situation may be great
Kevin hit her with "you need to be with a man that can teach you things"
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Irl, women in general don't like me at first. But bc i tend to convert and befriend women who don't initially like me, I've been able to ask why. In their eyes, my femininity signals that im looking down on less feminine women. It sounds like an extreme reaction, but Im very obviously feminine (handkerchiefs, lace, and stilettos type femme) in an era where that's rare, so i get it. It feels like im judging them before i even say anything.
Growing up in a city known for masculine women, this became VERY clear VERY early. Im very good at moral relativism, ie, "if you like it, i love it." I let the women i know fukk up as long as they want, and when they're finally done and ASKING for advice, i try to get them settled with a good man on their level. I don't find the guys for them, but i help with the selection process and how to proceed.
That's all i can do
, they aint trynna hear me in the middle of a never ending hot girl summer. 
Online is similar, but bc they can't see me, my man, and my life, it allows them to get out of pocket in a way they wouldn't irl (same as coli brehs). I deal with the disrespect for the same reason i deal with it from certain coli brehs, bc they're hurt. A lot of times, they don't even know it.
As to the shyt they talk, you can see some itt. Im lazy, unambitious. My man is cheating.
In reality, I'm better educated than 95% of the planet, have a super hot sexual relationship, and will achieve my goals easier with him, in this arrangement, than without him.
Yeah been thinking a lot of these callers are full of shytOf course, some fabrication is at work. Like the London chick, you’re 27 and you’re making $100k this early in your career. Doing what? To be making the much so early, you have to be doing something that only a handful of people can do. She just doesn’t come across as such.
. Unless you're in Big Law, tech, or just became a doctor, chances are you're not making six figures in your 20s and early 30s. Or you might have a six figures in *revenue* but are only netting half of that after expenses.
There's more women who lie about being 6 cert, 6 figure gang than the brehs who do it here on the Coli. As asinine as it sounds, Im starting to believe its true.
Women lying about their income to make themselves more attractive in the eyes of a HVM is some 2020's fukkery if ive ever seen it
I think some of these women are lying about how much they make. When you make close to 6 figs you move different.
The women I know that make good money are atleast around men that make good money. Now will men wife them up that's a different story.
The callers have never dated a 6 figure man. Have never messed with a 6 figure man and don't even know where to find 6 figure men.
Wait coli brehs come at you? About what?Irl, women in general don't like me at first. But bc i tend to convert and befriend women who don't initially like me, I've been able to ask why. In their eyes, my femininity signals that im looking down on less feminine women. It sounds like an extreme reaction, but Im very obviously feminine (handkerchiefs, lace, and stilettos type femme) in an era where that's rare, so i get it. It feels like im judging them before i even say anything.
Growing up in a city known for masculine women, this became VERY clear VERY early. Im very good at moral relativism, ie, "if you like it, i love it." I let the women i know fukk up as long as they want, and when they're finally done and ASKING for advice, i try to get them settled with a good man on their level. I don't find the guys for them, but i help with the selection process and how to proceed.
That's all i can do
Online is similar, but bc they can't see me, my man, and my life, it allows them to get out of pocket in a way they wouldn't irl (same as coli brehs). I deal with the disrespect for the same reason i deal with it from certain coli brehs, bc they're hurt. A lot of times, they don't even know it.
As to the shyt they talk, you can see some itt. Im lazy, unambitious. My man is cheating.
Your parents raised you like that or were you always feminine?
due to inflation “six figures” doesnt mean the same as it did when it became the standard. Hell 10 yrs ago 60k was considered balling if you single now folks talk down on it like its micky ds cashier money.
