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But they don’t say that though; they just say that all the men they meet make a lot lower than them.

I think part of it is that, but they don’t want to look bad so they just say the men don’t make enough.

using their wage gap argument, every man makes more than them + aint no women in their work field, so there should be an abundance of high earning men lol
 

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they dont. Outside of Entrepreneurs, corporate women tend to be masculine as hell, as they feel they need to do it to navigate. This is a huge turn off to men who work with them.
To other men too, apparently.

Oh, i just realized something. The reason more (feminine) women don't speak up is bc of those same 'masculine' women. As you can see, they're bullies and very few women with a happy husband and family life are willing to engage that amount of hostility. For what? To argue on Twitter all day? Im already booked: clean three bathrooms, do laundry, meal planning for next week, and dinner. I legit don't have time. Meanwhile, that's Kevin's job.
 

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To other men too, apparently.

Oh, i just realized something. The reason more (feminine) women don't speak up is bc of those same 'masculine' women. As you can see, they're bullies and very few women with a happy husband and family life are willing to engage that amount of hostility. For what? To argue on Twitter all day? Im already booked: clean three bathrooms, do laundry, meal planning for next week, and dinner. I legit don't have time. Meanwhile, that's Kevin's job.

yeah, my main thing is those who are happily married, groom the next gen. The current Generation of dating pool is the wild wild west, once everything finally explodes, hopefully there will be people around who can rebuild. At the end of the day you cant change a grown person lol. All them folks who call Kev and say he changed their perspectives and they working on themselves aren't serious. It's like the woman who gets fat in a relationship, breaks up and now she wants to get in shape. She's gonna get right back fat once she locks down the next sucker lol.
 

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But they don’t say that though; they just say that all the men they meet make a lot lower than them.

I think part of it is that, but they don’t want to look bad so they just say the men don’t make enough.
:patrice: You're right, they say that exact phrase, but i don't think it means what we think it means.

:jbhmm: Do you think they're including professional peers in that group? I ask bc, when pressed, they drill it down to "men who approach me". Further, when Kevin asks about coworkers/ professional orgs, they act like they never even considered it.

No, i think they're talking about men they meet who try to get at them. That could be anybody.
 

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:patrice: You're right, they say that exact phrase, but i don't think it means what we think it means.

:jbhmm: Do you think they're including professional peers in that group? I ask bc, when pressed, they drill it down to "men who approach me". Further, when Kevin asks about coworkers/ professional orgs, they act like they never even considered it.

No, i think they're talking about men they meet who try to get at them. That could be anybody.
I believe you are correct maam.
 

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That PHD shorty was cute. She need a real nikka in her life.

She cute but her energy comes off as a bussdown, pass around, it's my turn to sleep with her type chick.

The energy doesn't say "peace" will be in the home if a man marry her.

Maybe that just me and what I felt from listening to her.
 

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I was going to write something longer but in sum they have bad choosing skills, and that's primarily from a lack of training at home. Parents are the ones who are supposed to give you guideposts on how to choose a spouse, but if a woman doesn't respect her mom or has a negative image of her dad it will influence how she chooses men. Going to college and the rhetoric pushed in classrooms compounds issues that usually existed prior to college. And then there's the fact that convenience, social status, novelty, and sex dominates millennial culture (it seemingly did for GenX as well, just wasn't on such display) and long term relationships become an inconvenience.

There is a racial and class difference though, my white female classmates and co-workers are overwhelmingly married, but they are more likely to come from upper middle class backgrounds as well. It's also way more transactional among them in my experience, and white woman will take easier less well paying jobs to prioritize the marriage.
Facts!!
 

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:patrice: You're right, they say that exact phrase, but i don't think it means what we think it means.

:jbhmm: Do you think they're including professional peers in that group? I ask bc, when pressed, they drill it down to "men who approach me". Further, when Kevin asks about coworkers/ professional orgs, they act like they never even considered it.

No, i think they're talking about men they meet who try to get at them. That could be anybody.
Well then that’s why they can’t get the men who earn a high income then; those men don’t want them!! Lmao

If only lower income dudes holla at you, don’t leave out the part where dudes in your field or other high earning dudes don’t holla at you.

Because if high earning dudes don’t holla at you, who’s the problem then?

So they leave that part out and don’t want to put the blame on themselves for not finding a man, or they are lying about their income.
 

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yeah, my main thing is those who are happily married, groom the next gen. The current Generation of dating pool is the wild wild west, once everything finally explodes, hopefully there will be people around who can rebuild. At the end of the day you cant change a grown person lol. All them folks who call Kev and say he changed their perspectives and they working on themselves aren't serious. It's like the woman who gets fat in a relationship, breaks up and now she wants to get in shape. She's gonna get right back fat once she locks down the next sucker lol.

Breh :mjlol:



Breh you have been on one :russ:
 
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