It literally insanity. you got women making 35k a year with multiple baby daddies looking down on men making 50k a year thinking they deserve a guy making 100k. It's gotten this bad cause we don't publicly shame people for bad choices and having a bunch of kids out of wedlock anymore. The behavior has been rewarded and encouraged in many ways. Kevin is absolutely correct when he says these women quicker to have babies with losers then they are to get married. If you knew a guy was a looser and wouldnt be a good father why would they have his kids? Why would they think there wouldnt be consequences for doing so?
I used to actually consider being open to dating a woman with 1 kid or even a woman over 35 years old but I don't think I can anymore. Just hearing how entitled, delusional, and disrespectful a lot of these women are sickens me. They really think some sucker is coming to save them from their bad choices and mistakes. They think getting a hvm after they are old and used up is like flicking on a light switch.
The Black Community needs more shaming and standards. The only way to get us on the right path.