In all fairness tho. Everything Kevin saying is str8 facts, fire, but just like many of these women be choosing dudes in the wrong places. It applies the other way around too. If you dating nothing but chicks with baby daddies or no college education and making them yo girl or making babies not being strapped up. You need to do self evaluation. These women got issues. Foreal. But if you haven’t atleast had one relationship with a woman with no drama and you over 27... you are also a problem. And that’s kinda. The energy you put out is the same you gonna get like he said
The caveat to this
No matter the gender
People can be great actors/cons
You can vet until the cows come home
And you will still never truly know someone
Like you may think you know them
But never truly
I think everybody can agree
People should have standards
And the surface level things you mentioned
Are great predictors of the future
If you decide to get with someone like that
The problem comes when people are delusional
As men
We know where we rank in life
We have no problem/shame saying we are
Ugly
Fat
Broke
Fly
Charismatic
Handsome
We act accordingly and still shoot our shot
Or
Actually go out into the world and level up
We know if we fail
Ain’t nobody picking us up/saving us off the corner
The world we live in now
Women are unabashedly cognizant
That somebody will save them
That a literal 4 in the looks department
Will be saved
That a 5 in personality
Will be saved
That a woman with an uncooperative attitude
Will be saved
A lot of women have no need/desire
To level themselves up
nikkas are too scared to tell women the truth
Because they know the shyt like
“Who hurt you”
“You just bitter”
You hate all women”
The shaming language as the manoshphere calls it
Is coming and brehs not trying to hear that shyt
Lose access to p*ssy
Disappoint their moms, sisters, friends
So now most nikkas just keep their mouths shut
But that’s out of pure frustration until you around your guys
But even then
It’s so many nikkas indoctrinated in a world
Of women are always right/treat them with kid gloves
You can see that shyt on this very forum
We are really in a conundrum/dichotomy of thought
When it comes to relationships right now
And it’s looking very bleak going forward