Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

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The short answer is yes. But dusty is a mentality more so than an income in my opinion. That's why a teacher isn't dusty to me. He has a career even if he's underpaid, that's something he knew going into it and decided to do anyway. Which is noble.

I'm going to back off of dusty tho. Apparently it's a bit harsh and there are waaay too many dusty women that use that phrase that shouldn't. At 26 (8 years removed from HS) why is a man still trying to figure out his career? We all know that entry level factory work, retail, food service, hospitality, etc. is a place of great instability concerning income. 8 years removed from High School is enough time to get a Masters Degree with an additional 2 years in the work force, why is that man still wandering aimlessly in that amount of time? I know there are mitigating circumstances sometimes but it shouldn't be normal.

A man or woman that hasn't figured out how to keep a strong growing stable income isn't eligible for marriage to me (dating yes, marriage no).



The fact that the tradesman doesn't get picked shows that many women are just as superficial as the men they complain about. They want the look more than the man sometimes. An HVAC specialist can go to school, graduate, get experience, form his own company and be making 6 figs before the lawyer they all lust after has passed the bar.

Going to agree with bolded part!
 
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If he's over 26 and is any of the above hes dusty by my definition. That man is not prepared to have a wife because he can barely take care of himself.


Honestly, lots of people are living like this period. It is getting harder than ever to achieve the american dream that is forced onto us and "making it", honestly, lots of young folks born between 1991-2000 onwards don't have their shyt together like that. With the rise of gig economy, and rapid automation it is not as easy to get ones shyt together. Ditto, with the pandemic just making things worse.

Reality is lots of people live paycheck to paycheck. & The ones that don't probably had lots of help from family to get them to where they are (ie, parents paying car notes, mortgages, no student loans etc)

Society has failed it's youth to be honest, and it's just gonna get worse.
 

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Yeah, it’s a shame that people think a dude is dusty because he doesn’t have it all together but still isn’t a complete bum, but that’s how people think.

It basically sounds like you as a man have to have it all together with no issues to even think about dating any of these women and not be considered a “dusty”.

dusty sounds worse than a bum to me lmfao.

You see the nicknames black chicks give black men? fukkin terrible.

:heh::heh:


Are you talkin about Kevin making it sound like money is the only way to get bytches and to forget about having game?

If that’s what you’re saying then yeah, he isn’t really a game type dude.

He doesn’t really say exactly when men should do things or how they should spend their money except spend it all when she’s your wife.

I believe he said something about men shouldn’t think about marriage until 35, he said he’s red pill, then he says he doesn’t like if a chick says she doesn’t do coffee dates even though he doesn’t like those either, it’s just the principle.

That’s why I tell dudes to pick and choose what they want from KS’ advice, but game is needed or else you’ll be a sucka ass trick.


To be fair, the concept of game isn't entirely redpill either.

Whether it's useful or not is a different discussion, but it certainly requires a bluepill mindset.
 
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Im so excited about the sewing machine im forgetting stuff. Im doing all kinda zig zag stitches n shyt. fukk around and ima make me a dress that enhances that poke out. :pachaha:

I meant to add, im not so sure modern women are as bad as yall think. I think that, if presented with a full 'business proposal' (you stay home, these are our savings goals, etc), more women than you think would be wit it. It's just that men rarely take that approach.


I wanna learn how to sew with a machine but I am terrified of losing a finger. I am so clumsy I just don't trust myself lol.

But I want to make my own turtleneck!!
 

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As someone you does not agree with KS 100% and has watched at least 20 different shows over the last 3 months, I am tired of people making shyt up that he says.

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Like this "I'm a PHD" thing.

He's clearly stated the problem is women use that as a crutch for their trash relationship skills.

The problem is; people aren't actually listening and sitting through his 2 to sometime 3 hour shows.

They get clips and listen to other people's shorter reviews.
 

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But I want to make my own turtleneck!!
:skip: May i ask why? I ask bc, from what i hear, its a little trickier working with stretchy material. Like, you might need a particular type of needle/ technique, iirc. Same for silk. Start with a more substantial fabric and work your way up, imho.

Source: been using the big girl machine since 2nd grade, occasionally for commercial purposes.

Ps, i heard of it, but i never personally knew nobody who sewed through her finger. Possible urban legend? :jbhmm:
 
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