I also think some of these women never played sports because you develop a mentality of taking criticism to better yourself.
Hmm. I think it’s just how society have conditioned both sexes differently.
When men complain about their short comings, we’re told to improve.
“Man, why can’t I pull no bad bytches?”
“Make more money. Lose weight. Dress better. Improve your mouth piece” etc. Men are never told “there’s a good woman out there just waiting for you.” We’re held accountable. “You need to choose better. Stop shooting above your level. You’re aiming too high. Stop being entitled.”
Now you try and tell a woman that.
“Why Hasn’t a good man come into my life?”
And what is the usual response from society (women in general)?
“Oh don’t worry girl. These men don’t know a good thing when they see it. There’s a good man out there waiting for you. Just pray to Jesus and he’ll land on your doorstep.”
You try and give self improvement tips like:
“Lose weight.” OMG! You’re body shaming.
“But I’m helping her attract the men she wants” SO YOU’RE SAYING MEN ARE SHALLOW?
YOU SHOULD ACCEPT HER AS SHE IS. “So why are you in the gym? Shouldn’t men accept you as you are?
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Duh! It’s not a big secret. We’re visual first before anything. No amount of degrees or money can make a woman attractive like it does men. Somehow, criticism of women has been made synonymous with misogyny, to avoid any constructive discourse.
That’s why you see these barren church women in their 50s, still praying for a good man because they’ve never been given pragmatic advice.