Facts on everything.To add onto my points:
Women—even those making significant money—still envision a life in which husband’s money covers everything (bills, entertainment, household expenses, trips, etc.), while they use their own money for their own interests (outings with their girlfriends, random purchases for themselves, etc.)
A lot of men get tricked into believing they are being a “provider“ in that situation. When, in reality, it’s a parasitic relationship that drains a man dry.
If the marriage crumbles, she has her secret stash and her exit plan ready. Whereas, it takes the man time to recover, financially.
That’s why Kevin’s advice is so misguided for Black men since we don’t come from a lot of intergenerational wealth. He is looking at high value through the prism of white manhood. They can have starter marriages, divorce and bounce back like it’s nothing.
Why? They have family wealth and networks that they can tap into if they take a financial hit when a marriages crumbles.
Black men don’t have that. So, a high-value Black man who has built wealth for himself would be a fool to rush into a marriage. You have to know what type of woman you’re dealing with to properly asses downside risk.
I bet Kevin doesn’t rush into his next expensive cologne purchase. I’m pretty sure he does his research before dropping money on it.
Women wanna spend your and save theirs. They proud to tell you that too.
I said the same thing about Kevin; he just assumes everything will be perfect.
Kevin isn’t helping men that gotta deal with bullshyt like divorce.
I don’t see how you can give advice to people, but you don’t wanna tell people about your life.
This man will bark on you if you ask about his personal life, but then he’ll also bark on you if you don’t tell him about yours.
He should talk more about himself and how he survived divorce for example.
He’s just looking up stats and saying you need this and this and that’s all.