Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

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So these chicks are like us in some ways, but a little different. Lot of us dudes wanna be bachelors with money and not get married but have longterm girlfriends.

The women want to get a career, get pregnant off the situationship to cross off the being the mother check list. Then be a single parent purposely

That's the one thing that keeps popping up in his broadcasts. It's a lowkey divest, not into the arms of white men but just trying to prove they can raise children and be bachelorettes purposely.

Interesting

Why not get married and both parties get trusts and prenups? Set up terms and conditions with the joint accounts and then with that out of the way yall can focus on each other? I agree with Kevin about kids being born within marriage, but the women really seem like theyre trying to go for this single parenthood shyt and raising the kids with their sisterhood book clubs
That’s exactly what they’re doing and what they’re trying to do, only thing is that they have to have kids a relatively young age while men can have kids whenever.

They wanna date around and have fun, which isn’t wrong, but don’t be upset that most men don’t wanna wife up older washed up women (like the callers on the show).

Women want marriage for themselves and for the children to be taken care of. They want it because that’s status for them as well.

Men are the only ones marrying to keep a chick because they love her.

That’s why all of these women are going crazy when they get older and aren’t married trying to find a high value man to take care of them.
 

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That’s why all of these women are going crazy when they get older and aren’t married trying to find a high value man to take care of them.

I’ve said it many times on this forum, long before Kevin Samuels blew up.

Most women don’t want to work beyond a certain age (~40) or after they have their 2nd child.

She will grow to resent her husband if he hasn’t enabled her to be a stay-at-home after a certain age.

And those women who are not married and are still working past a certain age resent all men for their situation.

Most women feel they deserve that type of lifestyle. To just sit at home and not work.

His show is only illustrating what has already been articulated on this forum.
 
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To add onto my points:

Women—even those making significant money—still envision a life in which husband’s money covers everything (bills, entertainment, household expenses, trips, etc.), while they use their own money for their own interests (outings with their girlfriends, random purchases for themselves, etc.)

A lot of men get tricked into believing they are being a “provider“ in that situation. When, in reality, it’s a parasitic relationship that drains a man dry.

If the marriage crumbles, she has her secret stash and her exit plan ready. Whereas, it takes the man time to recover, financially.

That’s why Kevin’s advice is so misguided for Black men since we don’t come from a lot of intergenerational wealth. He is looking at high value through the prism of white manhood. They can have starter marriages, divorce and bounce back like it’s nothing.

Why? They have family wealth and networks that they can tap into if they take a financial hit when a marriages crumbles.

Black men don’t have that. So, a high-value Black man who has built wealth for himself would be a fool to rush into a marriage. You have to know what type of woman you’re dealing with to properly asses downside risk.

I bet Kevin doesn’t rush into his next expensive cologne purchase. I’m pretty sure he does his research before dropping money on it.
 
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Don't got them problems, but I minus well curate this for a friend.....who I can only assume don't got those problems as well.​
 
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