HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
I was chilling with one of my homegirls from the block. Her and her man had just pulled up and I was happy to see her. Her man did all the necessary daps and was ready to go in the house. She was not. When I said, "That man going upstairs, go attend to him," she was on some 'fukk that nikka, Ill go upstairs when I want to.' Now, this man is a good man. Works everyday and comes right home. Gave her several more babies and a super involved dad. Yay, right?When I hear women say this, I'm always like "How do YOU speak to and about Black Men?" and its alwasy excuses and cope. Its always the bitter and angry women that are hostile with the men in their lives.
What KS said was the God honest truth and he would sometimes be funny with it and that reality of truth and wit was a combo they couldn't handle. KS never got harsh with women that entered the convo in good faith.
No. She'd rather stunt for her single friends. I'm the only one who told her, "Take your black ass upstairs and take care of that man, he deserves it!"
She went.
There honestly aren't enough married black women to make the case. I'm the raisin in the tradwife oatmeal on many occasions, and not because I want to be. Black men need to be marrying black women at a higher rate and instilling this thought pattern.