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When I hear women say this, I'm always like "How do YOU speak to and about Black Men?" and its alwasy excuses and cope. Its always the bitter and angry women that are hostile with the men in their lives.



What KS said was the God honest truth and he would sometimes be funny with it and that reality of truth and wit was a combo they couldn't handle. KS never got harsh with women that entered the convo in good faith.
I was chilling with one of my homegirls from the block. Her and her man had just pulled up and I was happy to see her. Her man did all the necessary daps and was ready to go in the house. She was not. When I said, "That man going upstairs, go attend to him," she was on some 'fukk that nikka, Ill go upstairs when I want to.' Now, this man is a good man. Works everyday and comes right home. Gave her several more babies and a super involved dad. Yay, right?

No. She'd rather stunt for her single friends. I'm the only one who told her, "Take your black ass upstairs and take care of that man, he deserves it!"

She went.

There honestly aren't enough married black women to make the case. I'm the raisin in the tradwife oatmeal on many occasions, and not because I want to be. Black men need to be marrying black women at a higher rate and instilling this thought pattern.
 

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I was chilling with one of my homegirls from the block. Her and her man had just pulled up and I was happy to see her. Her man did all the necessary daps and was ready to go in the house. She was not. When I said, "That man going upstairs, go attend to him," she was on some 'fukk that nikka, Ill go upstairs when I want to.' Now, this man is a good man. Works everyday and comes right home. Gave her several more babies and a super involved dad. Yay, right?

No. She'd rather stunt for her single friends. I'm the only one who told her, "Take your black ass upstairs and take care of that man, he deserves it!"

She went.

There honestly aren't enough married black women to make the case. I'm the raisin in the tradwife oatmeal on many occasions, and not because I want to be. Black men need to be marrying black women at a higher rate and instilling this thought pattern.


You are a gem of a woman, hun.


And you are making a great point. Its not even a matter of catering to your man, but common decency and treating people how you would want to be treated. KS often spoke of the harshness and firmness of many (black) women and how its a huge hinderance to men because not only is it the opposite of what men look for in a woman but all of life is hard on men, especially black men, so to have to deal with all of that to make it in society and still have to come home to more harshness.... its just a bad deal for anyone who doesn't have to accept it.

I think the media and society promotes people to be more self absorbed than previous generations so when looking at people its always "what am I getting?" rather than "what do I offer?"
 

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I was chilling with one of my homegirls from the block. Her and her man had just pulled up and I was happy to see her. Her man did all the necessary daps and was ready to go in the house. She was not. When I said, "That man going upstairs, go attend to him," she was on some 'fukk that nikka, Ill go upstairs when I want to.' Now, this man is a good man. Works everyday and comes right home. Gave her several more babies and a super involved dad. Yay, right?

No. She'd rather stunt for her single friends. I'm the only one who told her, "Take your black ass upstairs and take care of that man, he deserves it!"

She went.

There honestly aren't enough married black women to make the case. I'm the raisin in the tradwife oatmeal on many occasions, and not because I want to be. Black men need to be marrying black women at a higher rate and instilling this thought pattern.
Yea that thought process has been phased out.. Last of a dying breed.. :salute:
 

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I was chilling with one of my homegirls from the block. Her and her man had just pulled up and I was happy to see her. Her man did all the necessary daps and was ready to go in the house. She was not. When I said, "That man going upstairs, go attend to him," she was on some 'fukk that nikka, Ill go upstairs when I want to.' Now, this man is a good man. Works everyday and comes right home. Gave her several more babies and a super involved dad. Yay, right?

No. She'd rather stunt for her single friends. I'm the only one who told her, "Take your black ass upstairs and take care of that man, he deserves it!"

She went.

There honestly aren't enough married black women to make the case. I'm the raisin in the tradwife oatmeal on many occasions, and not because I want to be. Black men need to be marrying black women at a higher rate and instilling this thought pattern.
For some reason I find it hard to believe you're black American woman. Are you black from somewhere else? :russ:
 

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The difference is you can actually monetize and eat building a small platform of lets say 10k.. Its a different ballgame
I know. I was trolling a bit. But not I'm the sense of everyone trying to do it. It came to a point that you couldn't meet anyone that wasn't talking about the studio back in them days
 

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The difference is you can actually monetize and eat building a small platform of lets say 10k.. Its a different ballgame
Preach
I saw a nikka go live on a cord cutting channel pre covid,
only had about 250 people watching , but got about $2500 in super chats in about a 2 hour period.
and was averging 1500 to 100,000 views per video, depending on what the topic was
i believe he had about 40K subscribers at the time

You tube has cut down on cord cutters over the years, but he is still there, going live 2 times a week.
 

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For some reason I find it hard to believe you're black American woman. Are you black from somewhere else? :russ:
:picard: I'm black American on both sides: SC (mom) and NC (dad). Raised in the North, but all my caretakers were born in the South.

My niece is half Bajan, but we even raised her up right (her mother is a mess, #passportbros in shambles :mjlol:).
 

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:picard: I'm black American on both sides: SC (mom) and NC (dad). Raised in the North, but all my caretakers were born in the South.

My niece is half Bajan, but we even raised her up right (her mother is a mess, #passportbros in shambles :mjlol:).
Just saying because you're mentality damn sure isn't like the average black American women. It's on some unicorn shyt seeing this :mjlol:
 

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I am.

When I applied to a fancy New England boarding school, the head of admissions told my mother that I was the best candidate she'd seen that season. I came from section 8.

There are girls who, born into certain circumstances, decide early, 'That ain't me, and I will bust my fukking ass to make sure that doesn't become me.' You can't stop those girls. I had a different goal in mind, but had a similar tenacity in chasing it.
Grinding, the American way…
 

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Just saying because you're mentality damn sure isn't like the average black American women. It's on some unicorn shyt seeing this :mjlol:
Ah, but my mentality is on track with all my southern cousins. They all married military men and are teachers, several are admin at big southern colleges. And they go home and play they damn position.

:usure:
 

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Ah, but my mentality is on track with all my southern cousins. They all married military men and are teachers, several are admin at big southern colleges. And they go home and play they damn position.

:usure:
Keep up the great work. Much respect to the women of your family that are a help mate and cooperative:salute:

The strong and independent no man can tell me nothing. As you can see those types are usually single or in dysfunctional relationships.
 
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