Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[Actually6Foot3]

It's not from a legal nor mental standpoint.

A woman who doesn't need you financially is more likely to actually like you as a person. Needing you financially doesn't equal needing you. I think sometimes you guys understand estimate how desperate the inability to provide for ones self makes people.

hence us saying "just don't be a bum"

If she's attractive men don't care beyond that

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Yes

That's not what you originally said. But okay. Again, I love the idea of not having to financially invest in a man. Sounds perfectly easy.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

hence us saying "just don't be a bum"

If she's attractive men don't care beyond that

Yeah I understand that but it also make it incredibly easy to take advantage of men in general when you guys have such low standards.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Yeah I understand that but it also make it incredibly easy to take advantage of men in general when you guys have such low standards.

how so?

Only very attractive women can get away with that to low value men with little to no options.

Average and below average women need not apply lol. Well off men aren't simping ugly/fat chics

Mens standards for how much she makes may be low but standards for youthfulness and beauty would be high enough. And the same way most men aren't rich most women are 8+'s so it evens out.

The less attractive she is the less she'll be able to take advantage of any man for money

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

how so?

Only very attractive women can get away with that to low value men with little to no options.

Average and below average women need not apply lol. Well off men aren't simping ugly/fat chics

Mens standards for how much she makes may be low but standards for youthfulness and beauty would be high enough. And the same way most men aren't rich most women are 8+'s so it evens out.

Beauty is subjective and woman who aren't 8s, 9s and 10s get over on men every day; probably more so. A guy in this very thread said a woman used her guy to build herself up and then dumped him. That's not a win for him unless he felt the honor of sleeping with her was enough. I mean if you consider that an even transaction cool. I personally wouldn't.

 

[AAKing23]

Yeah I understand that but it also make it incredibly easy to take advantage of men in general when you guys have such low standards.

It balances out because alot of women aren't as attractive as they think they are but yeah we're not picky at all but it does come back to bite us

 

[Balla]

God bless you for keeping it 100.



So you expect to carry the majority of the financial weight? If a woman makes more than you is it a problem?

If I make a lot more than her I would pay for the majority of things, but she has to chip in too, which I think is fair.

If we plan a trip she should pay for food if I pay for the hotel, stuff like that.

TBH I can’t see myself as just paying for every single thing no matter how much I make, you gotta contribute to some bills.

Yes, if a woman makes more than me it’s a problem unless she’s a few years older than me.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Beauty is subjective and woman who aren't 8s, 9s and 10s get over on men every day; probably more so. A guy in this very thread said a woman used her guy to build herself up and then dumped him. That's not a win for him unless he felt the honor of sleeping with her was enough. I mean if you consider that an even transaction cool. I personally wouldn't.

average women taking financial advantage of men en masse? Doubtful. If that were the case I wouldn't see so many women mad about splitting dates and paying bills. There'd be nothing to split since he would take care of it all lol. Maybe To very low value men they may. I just said that though. They're not getting over on high value men or men on their level.

Attractiveness is Subjective to a degree. There are exceptions to everything but we all know a convenientionally attractive person when we see one. A person whose looks cast a wide net for suitors.

But even if that were the case those women never stick around. As the example you have provided, that woman had the ability to exercise her hypergamy and level up. Most women ain't hot enough to "level up" off a man. You gotta snag a man that can level you up first.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Some women do throw the degree in your face "I have a degree in Psychology from University of Phoenix".

 

[ogc163]

Some women do throw the degree in your face "I have a degree in Psychology from University of Phoenix".

. Nah but his shytting on Black woman lawyers is something else, it hits home because so many of my classmates and friends fit the profile.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Not sure if you were in the other thread cause I'm now seeing it but this video sums up my view on successful women dating perfectly.

You can't change biology. No matter how common sense it may seem to you for a man to want a women of some means we just ain't wired like that. A chics salary has never made any man's dikk hard her looks do

@blackpearl

 

[Rocket Scientist]

. Nah but his shytting on Black woman lawyers is something else, it hits home because so many of my classmates and friends fit the profile.

Some of it comes across as tough love but he is hilarious when he starts shytting on some of them.

 

[ogc163]

Some of it comes across as tough love but he is hilarious when he starts shytting on some of them.

The overvaluing of their degree is on point, most white-collar dudes don't give a fukk if you have a J.D. The ones who do put value on it are usually dudes who are insecure about their class status or poor/working-class dudes looking for a come up.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

The overvaluing of their degree is on point, most white-collar dudes don't give a fukk if you have a J.D. The ones who do put value on it are usually dudes who are insecure about their class status or poor/working-class dudes looking for a come up.

That's what I'm saying. Yes good to see educated sista but emphasis on titles/degrees is crazy

 

[DrBanneker]

You shouldn't generalize. Im exactly the woman to speak on quantum physics. I wanted to be an astro physicist until bp told me we don't do that.

That's exactly what Neil de Grasse Tyson talked about in his autobiography . You should have gone to some NSBP (National Society of Black Physicists) conferences. Nothing like talking about general relativity at lunch and dancing to Triple Six Mafia in the evening.